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DomNeo -> Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:10:27 PM)

Greetings A/all who visit this thread.
Here is my situation. My slave has been forgetting to do her journal entrys for over 2 weeks now and i've been too busy to keep track of it but i need a new punishment to add to what she already has. Any ideas from A/anyone?

I already have her going 50 days with no orgasms while bringing herself close 4 times a day everyday and it is a long distance relationship so i am not there to punish her by hand.

Thank you E/everyone for your input.

Dom Neo.



AAkasha -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:17:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomNeo

Greetings A/all who visit this thread.
Here is my situation. My slave has been forgetting to do her journal entrys for over 2 weeks now and i've been too busy to keep track of it but i need a new punishment to add to what she already has. Any ideas from A/anyone?

I already have her going 50 days with no orgasms while bringing herself close 4 times a day everyday and it is a long distance relationship so i am not there to punish her by hand.

Thank you E/everyone for your input.

Dom Neo.


If for two weeks she's ignoring your orders and in that same time you aren't paying attention enough to catch it, do you think you both have time to be in this relationship?

There seems to be a communication problem. If she's blowing off what you asked her to do for 2 entire weeks it might be a sign of a larger problem. If you've been too busy to pay attention to her, perhaps she's reacting to your lack of interest in her.

Before thinking about punishment, why not identify the problem first?


Akasha



DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:34:15 PM)

the problem is i have been working alot. and doing alot of stuff at home and she was just forgetting.



AAkasha -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:37:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomNeo

the problem is i have been working alot. and doing alot of stuff at home and she was just forgetting.


I hate to break it to you, but if she is "forgetting" to do a journal for two weeks she probably is also "forgetting" to obey the past punishments you gave her of not orgasming.

If she is not captivated enough to stick to a task (missing a few days is one thing..but two weeks?) she's just not that into it.

Akasha



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:40:27 PM)

"just forgetting" Is like forgetting once or twice. Two weeks in a row is on purpose. If it was THAT impoertant to her she wouldn't be forgetting omre than once or so As my X dom used to say.





DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:43:42 PM)

she would never forget to allow herself to orgasm. she know's she would regret it for months to come and the pain would be a constant reminder. she says she is captivated enough but we haven't done anything real serious sense then and i'm just looking for additional ideas and not an arguement.



DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:46:20 PM)

she is not doing it on purpose. people forget things. it's only natural but i want to break her of the habbit and get her into doing it every day again.



AAkasha -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:47:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomNeo

she would never forget to allow herself to orgasm. she know's she would regret it for months to come and the pain would be a constant reminder. she says she is captivated enough but we haven't done anything real serious sense then and i'm just looking for additional ideas and not an arguement.


"and the pain would be a constant reminder"?
Pain from what?

You need to be realistic. You said this is online only. The only thing that demonstrates a partner's willingness to submit is their responsiveness to commands and enthusiasm. If it were a few days it would be a fluke. You need to move on.

The best *realistic* punishment for this situation is not giving her attention. If she is that into you, she'll miss your commands like mad and promise not to be a flake again.

Akasha



AAkasha -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:48:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomNeo

she is not doing it on purpose. people forget things. it's only natural but i want to break her of the habbit and get her into doing it every day again.


"Slaves" do not forget a daily/regular command for one half of a month. It's just not a priority.

You are in denial.

Akasha



DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:48:50 PM)

it is only online for another month and a half.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:50:04 PM)

How about kneeling on rice?



DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:53:13 PM)

kneeling on rice? that could work pretty good with her trying to bring herself close. cause some physical pain with the frustration. Thanks for the good idea FelinePersuasion.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:54:10 PM)

One hour a day for each day forgotten doing something hidious.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:55:06 PM)

As many days as she "forgot" to do something make it that much longer doing something tedious or something she can't stand 4 weeks of something should shape right up.



DomNeo -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/5/2005 11:58:06 PM)

that is a good idea but i will think about it FelinePersuasion but i'm off to bed now. i gotta go to work in about 6 hours and need to get some sleep. Thank you for your input FelinePersuasion. It is much appreciated.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/6/2005 12:10:10 AM)

You're welcome. I really shouldn't provide doms ideas but I have an evil side lol.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/6/2005 3:26:01 AM)

But what if she forgets for 2 weeks to buy the rice?

Seriously, I'm with Akasha on this. My philosophy as a Domme is "be here, or be gone". And as for this only being long distance for another month in a half, don't think that she will obey you more when you are in her face.

- LA




MstRwc -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/6/2005 7:29:30 AM)

this slave has a long distance relationship... not an online relationship...just one in which my Master is not with me everyday... when i have done something wrong the worse thing for me is for him not to pay any attention to me...



perverseangelic -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/6/2005 8:29:51 AM)

Forgot for -two weeks-?

I'm gonna continue with the devil's advoacate thing. I'm a -very- busy person. I cannot -concieve- of actually forgetting something I've been told to do for two weeks. Pehrpas forgetting at first and then not wanting to do it, yes. Actually forgetting? nunhuh.

Kneeling on rice = effective.

Also effective and very sucky==make her devote the time she -should- have been spending journaling each day to you and/or something you want her to do. Preferably soemthing boring/tedious. Writing lines (with sentences alternating each line so you can't do it the easy way) is good. Mind, this is in -addition- to the journal. For a busy/active person, it is hell to be told to be totally unproductive.



MsSilvie -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (4/6/2005 9:11:04 AM)

I'm going to agree with AAkasha and others. I don't think either you or your sub is very serious about this. You don't have to be, if you just like role playing a bit. I'm not being smart-assed. There's nothing wrong with that. But a serious submissive doesn't "forget" to do something for 2 weeks, anymore than they might forget to take their wallet along when going out to buy something.

One piece of advice that is useful no matter what you are trying to train (subs, pets, critters, kids, co-workers, etc.). Never give an order that you are not willing to enforce if need be. If you are not willing to keep up on her consistently to make the journal entries, then don't tell her she has to do it in the first place.



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