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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:28:28 AM   
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I find it funny that its with this movie that I hear a shitload of bellyaching about historical innacuracy as a point to push negativity on the movie...I understand some degree of it with all movies like this, but its just funny I dident hear it as much when Gladiator or even Braveheart came out.


I think the original question was asking for an historical perspective based on a movie and people are commenting that the movie is not an accurate historical account so even if the OP's observations held true simply for the movie, one could not equate that with the reality of spartan relationships as they actually were.  For me, I wasn't looking for a history lesson but for entertainment.  I didn't get that.  The movie simply sucked based on its own merits. 

Perhaps Gladiator and Braveheart were just better movies so people had less of a time suspending disbelief to enjoy the movie :P

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:31:02 AM   
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I wasent talking about this thread per se.

and meh, I loved it...maybe it really is just a guy's movie?



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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:32:58 AM   
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Has the movie ever been presented as an acurate portrayal of historic moments or an artist's rendering of the perception of howw it might of been?

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:34:26 AM   
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already been said.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:41:37 AM   
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maybe it really is just a guy's movie


The half naked men with ripped abs might be a draw to some women though lol

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Has the movie ever been presented as an acurate portrayal of historic moments or an artist's rendering of the perception of howw it might of been?


I didn't research the way this movie was marketed.  I don't think it matters, really.  But from what others have said, it was not intended as an historical accounting. 

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 3:45:42 AM   
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The half naked men with ripped abs might be a draw to some women though lol


Main reason all the females I know went to see it.



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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 7:17:43 AM   
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I find it funny that its with this movie that I hear a shitload of bellyaching about historical innacuracy as a point to push negativity on the movie...I understand some degree of it with all movies like this, but its just funny I dident hear it as much when Gladiator or even Braveheart came out.


Oh, you hear a lot of that in history departments about those movies. This isn't a history department.

I know I'm not complaining about historical anything with the movie. I'm explaining what we know about historical Spartans because some folks tried to claim what they saw in the movie was historical. I think there's a big difference there.

If a movie claims to be a documentary, I'll cut it a new one for historical problems. If a movie is entertainment, it's entertainment.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 7:18:57 AM   
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greetings

I have been doing some research and found that perhaps in one way Spartan Women were submissive. It seems there is some truth to the belief that Spartan Men raped their wives on the honeymoon. Actually it was more of a prenubiltional test A Spartan Man would phyiscally attack a propestive mate and rape her. If the Spartan Woman was successful in fending off the attack, no marriage.

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Two questions:

Citation?

How does rape = dominant OR How does surviving rape/fighting off rape = submissive?

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 7:19:44 AM   
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I guess I sorta just wish people would give it the "it's just entertainment" angle then and let it be settled there.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 7:23:57 AM   
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Tammyjo:  having taught history for several years I agree with your asking for a citation!!! Seems to be opinion rather than facts stated there...
 
As for the reasons I want to see the movie there are two:  It looks visually appealing in many ways - not just the rippling pectorals...and I loved Sin City which was made by the same Director as 300...
 
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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 9:03:04 AM   
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already been said.


you just love to follow Me around....the answer is still I am NOT interested thank you.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 9:19:52 AM   
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I watched "The 300" again the other night, not because it is a good movie but because it is so distorted.

I am curious if anyone has watched it and the interaction between King Leonidas and the Queen.  At one point he looks to her before he "decides" to go to war and she nods her head most imperceptably but it is clear she grants him her okay.

There are a couple of other scenes where the power dynamic is interesting and in the woman's favor.  The words alone put him in charge but there is an underlying sense of something very different.

Anyone have any thoughts?


Alas i HAVENT seen it yet, which is pissing me off immensely, i couod download it but its recommended to see this film in an imax due to its visual appeal.

Having said that i have read a little bit about the battle of Thermopylae and the Spartans.

Agreed there maybe some inaccuracies but to the original question of 'Are Spartans Submissive' i would say a resounding yes.....

oh you wanna know why...oh right..well...

Any group of elite soldiers live by a code or ethic whatever you want to call it, they are a group and a team, they subscribe to a way of life that 'civvies' will never quite understand. The Spartans were 'said' to have been picked at birth and subject to the wine bath test, those who failed the test were left on Mount Taygetos to die, the way of life for a Spartan was incredibly hard but they did worship the Goddesses, they lived a life of subservience but a trained one. Yes i do believe the Spartans were submissive but in the reallest sense of the word, many soldiers who have honour today do as they are told not because they like to be bossed but out of sheer respect and honour.

It's hard to be objective about history when all we have is subjective opinions of accounts leading back so far but in my opinion i would say yes, the Spartans were submissive to their leaders whether male or female.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 10:22:29 AM   
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Very Well
 
First I would say most would agree that rape is not about sex but domination and subjection
 
Here are a few of my referrences.  Also this was cover on  History Channel
 
http://www.mnsu.edu/emuseum/prehistory/aegean/culture/spartaculture.html
The woman was abducted in the night, her head would be shaved, and she was made to wear men's clothing and lye on a straw pallet in the dark.

The Role of Spartan Women in Ancient Greece
By Lisa Thibault Pietsch

Aristotle
In their marriages, the husband carried off his bride by a sort of force; nor were their brides ever small and of tender years, but in their full bloom and ripeness. After this, she who superintended the wedding comes and clips the hair of the bride close round her head, dresses her up in man's clothes, and leaves her upon a mattress in the dark; afterwards comes the bridegroom, in his everyday clothes, sober and composed, as having supped at the common table, and, entering privately into the room where the bride lies, unties her virgin zone, and takes her to himself;

I wish you well

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 10:40:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nosathro

Very Well

First I would say most would agree that rape is not about sex but domination and subjection

Here are a few of my referrences. Also this was cover on History Channel

http://www.mnsu.edu/emuseum/prehistory/aegean/culture/spartaculture.html
The woman was abducted in the night, her head would be shaved, and she was made to wear men's clothing and lye on a straw pallet in the dark.

The Role of Spartan Women in Ancient Greece
By Lisa Thibault Pietsch

Aristotle
In their marriages, the husband carried off his bride by a sort of force; nor were their brides ever small and of tender years, but in their full bloom and ripeness. After this, she who superintended the wedding comes and clips the hair of the bride close round her head, dresses her up in man's clothes, and leaves her upon a mattress in the dark; afterwards comes the bridegroom, in his everyday clothes, sober and composed, as having supped at the common table, and, entering privately into the room where the bride lies, unties her virgin zone, and takes her to himself;

I wish you well

Nosathro


There is sub and dom as we use them in BDSM but there this is crime and force -- I don't think they are the same. I don't think rape is about dominance so much as anger and hatred and low self-esteem on the part of the rapist. A man who rapes a woman does not dominate her, he violates her and probably damages her but he isn't her dominant anymore than a guy raping you would be dominating you.

I think it's sad if you equate Ds in the BDSM sense with violence, hatred, fear, and force.

Aristotle is decribing a marriage rituals, the families arrange the marriages and I fully expect that the brides knew exactly what they were expected to do in that ritual.

Why dress in men's clothing? Speculation I've seen says it was to ease the transition from a male to a female sexual partner for the soldier.

The two parts of the ritual seem odd. First the "carried off" and then the gender change. It seems like two separate traditions have been married together.

How would Aristotle know anyway? If you read him you can see all sorts of problems with most of things he says especially about biology, sexuality, and how societies work. It's like he's heard of things but rarely experienced them himself. I wouldn't trust Aristotle for more than Aristotle on much of anything.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 2:25:24 PM   
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Very odd.

I got an email from Nosathro and was going to just email him back explaining that I'm an ancient historian so I take historical claims very seriously.

But he has me blocked -- very odd.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 2:27:58 PM   
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I may be all awash here, but I am sure it was a mistake, the buttons for admire and block are so close together those with a less than optimal wheel axis on their mouse would be forfeit.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 4:52:24 PM   
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Nope...no mistake
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I may be all awash here, but I am sure it was a mistake, the buttons for admire and block are so close together those with a less than optimal wheel axis on their mouse would be forfeit.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 6:28:53 PM   
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I'm an historian as well as a Librarian.  So I always ask for historical references too.
 
I got an e-mail from him as well. 
 
I deleted it without reading it, that really burns the sender's biscuits.  I learned that trick from LotusSong :D
 
I wonder if the message was deragatory Tammyjo...? Will check with you on the other side.
 
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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 6:39:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nosathro

Very Well

First I would say most would agree that rape is not about sex but domination and subjection

Here are a few of my referrences. Also this was cover on History Channel

http://www.mnsu.edu/emuseum/prehistory/aegean/culture/spartaculture.html
The woman was abducted in the night, her head would be shaved, and she was made to wear men's clothing and lye on a straw pallet in the dark.

The Role of Spartan Women in Ancient Greece
By Lisa Thibault Pietsch

Aristotle
In their marriages, the husband carried off his bride by a sort of force; nor were their brides ever small and of tender years, but in their full bloom and ripeness. After this, she who superintended the wedding comes and clips the hair of the bride close round her head, dresses her up in man's clothes, and leaves her upon a mattress in the dark; afterwards comes the bridegroom, in his everyday clothes, sober and composed, as having supped at the common table, and, entering privately into the room where the bride lies, unties her virgin zone, and takes her to himself;

I wish you well

Nosathro


There is sub and dom as we use them in BDSM but there this is crime and force -- I don't think they are the same. I don't think rape is about dominance so much as anger and hatred and low self-esteem on the part of the rapist. A man who rapes a woman does not dominate her, he violates her and probably damages her but he isn't her dominant anymore than a guy raping you would be dominating you.

I think it's sad if you equate Ds in the BDSM sense with violence, hatred, fear, and force.

Aristotle is decribing a marriage rituals, the families arrange the marriages and I fully expect that the brides knew exactly what they were expected to do in that ritual.

Why dress in men's clothing? Speculation I've seen says it was to ease the transition from a male to a female sexual partner for the soldier.

The two parts of the ritual seem odd. First the "carried off" and then the gender change. It seems like two separate traditions have been married together.

How would Aristotle know anyway? If you read him you can see all sorts of problems with most of things he says especially about biology, sexuality, and how societies work. It's like he's heard of things but rarely experienced them himself. I wouldn't trust Aristotle for more than Aristotle on much of anything.


Nothing about abduction/rape is submissive.  If you choose to live out that fantasy...sure.  But not in a real life situation where there is force and no consent.  In that case it's simply criminal.  It may not have been for certain cultures, true.  But in this day and age, you get locked up for it.

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RE: Are Spartan's Submissive? - 3/31/2007 7:35:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

I'm an historian as well as a Librarian. So I always ask for historical references too.

I got an e-mail from him as well.

I deleted it without reading it, that really burns the sender's biscuits. I learned that trick from LotusSong :D

I wonder if the message was deragatory Tammyjo...? Will check with you on the other side.

With kind regard,
~Kara


No, no, it wasn't a bad email at all. I don't think it's wise to share more than that in a public space -- it was a private email after all.

That's why I was really confused as to why I'd be blocked. I mean, don't we normally send emails to folks we'd like a dialog with?

This is exactly what I had planned to write back: Since I'm an ancient historian I tend to take any historical claims very seriously.

Let's consider the Aristotle claim though because while off topic of this original thread I think it demonstrates how complex questions about the past are.

First there the issue of how and what Aristotle knows. Without other evidence we're hard pressed to judge what he says as valid or not. So we can apply logic to it.

The ritual of the Spartan marriage Aristotle reports has two componets.

Firs the abduction. Very plausible as part of a marriage ritual because anthropologists, sociologists and historians can find similar accounts. They are rarely actual rapes or kidnappings and in fact some governments frown upon such traditions because then they can't control marriage as easily (Theodosian Rome is such an example). In these rituals the families of the bride and groom make the arrangements, both bride and groom know their roles and everyone plays a part.

Why have this ritual? How can we answer that because at least for ancient societies they don't tell it, it was just something they did like any number of things we do in our culture without thought just out of tradition. If you ask living people who do this ritual they do in fact just say "that's the way it has always been".

So what about the second part of the ritual, the gender change and darkness component. That's harder to judge as plausible or not because I can't think of any external examples of a similar ritual. Usually with the abduction motiff you'd have a lot of serious gender re-enforcement subrituals going on to clarify roles.

Is it to ease the Spartan man into sex because he's used to male lovers? If that's the case then it ignores other reported behavior of Spartans that the men formed same sexual relationships with their age peers. The bride would be expecting a man of his own age, one with a bread, perhas evena hairy body -- the bride will not have that. Is it to re-enforce the also reported training of the Spartan man to be sneaky and to be able to sneak into a home and take what he wants without getting caught? Why the gender change then? Why not the sneaking in part?

So what I think as a historian is that Aristotle has taken a common marriage ritual (abduction) and combined it with either a rumor or a new story to address what he as an Athenian might see as the problematic gender and age relationships in Sparta. Greeks do this (heck all people do it) a lot: take a bit of the truth and combine it with something outrageous to try and point out how different another group is from our group.

I think that bluemonn is reasoning very very well when he points out that all Spartans submitted to their state -- maybe because it seems to be what I said in post #26. I wouldn't classify that as submissive as Fox is to me or anyone else is in BDSM. But that gets back to my point in post #25.

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