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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/23/2007 10:29:36 PM

sublizzie

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Do you suppose he realized that submissives have the same problem with Dominants not responding to their emails? Ye gads!! You've gotta have a sense of humor when you're on the Internet. A Dominant without a sense of humor is generally one without a submissive....for some strange reason!

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/24/2007 8:39:05 AM

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So... where did the OP go?

Now I'm pissed.....!!!! Read the whole damn thread and the OP is NOT responding....WTF?

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/24/2007 10:23:56 AM

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The OP has skirted off into the night to re-create a new persona, and new profile.Maybe he realized that his threats and attitude made coming back from such, close to an impossibility.One can only hope that he does some serious self reflection......Tempting

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/24/2007 10:42:04 AM

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Well, I can honestly say after reading the profile and the posting that was made in the Poly section regarding the interactions you've had with your current submissive......I wouldn't respond either.

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/24/2007 3:24:30 PM

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I recently sent a few messages, nothing offensive or "strange" to several submissives.. some as far back as the 8th of March.. Do you see it as showing respect by not replying to someone who shows interest in you? Even a thanks, but no thanks. BTW, most of these girls don't even bother to read the email, or read My profile to see what I am about. If you want the name of these non-responsive coorespondents, so you don't have to waste your own time, PM Me.

I think all Dommes should respond to all emails...4 pargraphs minimum. In fact, I'm considering a petition to the Mods to ask that they should also be required to pay $5.00 to each emailer along with their response due entirely to the fact that there are so many of us subs, and we go to such great lengths to talk to them.

And none of this bullshit canned response stuff either...individual responses that indicate they read our profiles and have some contingent interest in us as subs...or...it goes to $10.00.

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/25/2007 6:33:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dreamn8r

I recently sent a few messages, nothing offensive or "strange" to several submissives.. some as far back as the 8th of March.. Do you see it as showing respect by not replying to someone who shows interest in you? Even a thanks, but no thanks. BTW, most of these girls don't even bother to read the email, or read My profile to see what I am about. If you want the name of these non-responsive coorespondents, so you don't have to waste your own time, PM Me.

Life can be tough sometimes. My advice, would be to look to yourself rather than blaming others. If what you are doing isn't working then change it till you find something that does. Moaning about not being successful is not a good way to attract people I would suggest.

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/25/2007 6:48:59 AM

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Yes, that had occurred to Me. What hadn't occurred to Me, is when someone shows they have been online several times and doesn't read emails.

sometimes, i will come online just for the boards, which will bump my profile up although i do not read my emails during those times.

sometimes, i will read an email and take a long time to respond to it due to outside issues or just the fact that i haven't felt like responding at first.

i think you are spending a lot of time jumping to conclusions and getting unduly bitter and offended, imho. i also agree with temptingnovicesub that it is a much better idea to be yourself than to change your profile into what you think will attract someone. i've attracted far more responses to my profile that way, personally, so i know it's got to work. your profile focuses more on your negative view of certain things than who you actually are, and what moves you.

This is an interesting thread, because when I first started here on collarme.com I emailed a few people who did would come online often and never responded.. it wasn't till about my 2 month on that I realized that people could filter email or yet, you could tell if htey read your msgs or not.

I agree with hisannabelle. Sometimes, people read your profile or just read your words and it doesnt spark any interest in them. To take things personally, man.. All I can suggest to you Dream is get out of this life. Seriously. You need a thick skin to call yourself a DOM or even a sub. This is not a lifestyle for the weak of heart, mind or spirit.

I am not to everyones interest and I have been interested in some that have clearly expressed their unappreciation for me and I have just nodded and kept on my way. Its not our "Right" to force someone to like us. People like people for the strangest reasons. And just becuase you haven't gotten the successful venture of responses you would like, doesnt mean that it wont happen. When you force something.. it wont come. EVER. and like several here have expressed. Negatvity foster's Negativity.

And on this forum.. (chuckles) that also makes you an easy mark and Prey to the constant vultures that are seeking their next meal. (laughs)

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RE: Lack of response to genuine interest - 3/25/2007 6:22:57 PM

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Gods, that is just great! I might habe to plagurize it in the future.

That will be $34.95 thank you come again.

While I enjoy your posts, FukinTroll. You and I are not in a dynamic. Besides which, orgasm control (receiving) is a hard limit of mine.

Gud luk n ur surch.

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