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Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:15:59 PM

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Now I have an image that is rather tame compared to the radical mastectomy’s that occur. I would like you to look at the image, maybe even do a search for more, and then answer the below.

http://breastcenter.com/images/articles/sga12.jpg
Some people are here for aesthetic sub/slaves and some are not. Personally I am looking for someone I click with real well and is healthy enough to keep up. How do you feel, I mean really feel and not the glossy fluff for the forum, about accepting a sub/slave who has had a mastectomy or double mastectomy?

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:30:21 PM

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This is a serious question, Troll, and I am curious about the forthcoming replies. The image you presented is mild, but still takes adjusting to observe. I can't speak for my own Master and won't put words in his mouth but I will say this - Last fall it was discovered I had two tumors in my breast. I was to undergo two biopsies, and I was nervous being that my Dad had just died of cancer, and my mother survived breast cancer. My doctor told me things weren't looking good but, "we'll see what we find."

The night before my biopsies, my Master called me and said, "You are my slave and my property. You will continue to be. Keep me informed as to what is discovered and I will decide on what you will do from there."

His words were incredibly reassuring. Fortunately in my case the tumors are benign. I would have asked for permission to have an implant but I have no doubt that whatever he would have decided would have included keeping me. In fact he was keeping me lighthearted about the entire process. There's a reason I adore him so much...

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:37:32 PM

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i cannot imagine Him leaving me if i had to have a mastectomy. i don't know what else to say, really. i was going to make a long reply, but i just want to say that i'm happy you posted this and i really look forward to seeing the replies. although we both like that we are attracted to each other physically, and if i were to have breast cancer it would certainly be something painful and difficult for both of us, i doubt that He would not desire me anymore if i didn't have breast(s). at least, i sure as hell hope not ;) i didn't get involved with Him based on physical appearance, and i can't imagine that ever breaking us up.

ownedgirlie, thanks as well for your post. i haven't ever experienced anything like that myself, and none of my close family members have had breast cancer, so it's not an issue that hits home as much for me, which makes it difficult for me to respond in some ways. but i really am glad you shared your experience. :)

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:47:02 PM

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Id love to be as sure as you 2 girls but the fact is Masters number 1 kink is breast torture it is his favorate thing. and while He promised me he would always be there for me we never discussed things like this. It would put a strain on our relationship at least the Master/slave one.. And while I know in my heart he would never leave me because of that the fear is there and also the knoladge that I couldnt give him what he wanted.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:49:28 PM

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I do appreciate all of you ladies for posting. More than you think.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 6:58:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

ownedgirlie, thanks as well for your post. i haven't ever experienced anything like that myself, and none of my close family members have had breast cancer, so it's not an issue that hits home as much for me, which makes it difficult for me to respond in some ways. but i really am glad you shared your experience. :)

Thanks for your words, hisannabelle. While my Master truly enjoys torturing my breasts, he enjoys my submission, my mind, my heart and adoration much more. He was worried about my health and mental state more than whether or not I'd have to alter my bras. I doubt he would end this relationship over the loss of a boob anymore than I would end it should he lose a foot from his diabetes. There is just so much more to a person than things like that.

Magikslave, I would probably suffer issues of inadequacy too, even though he would knock that out of me. Knowing how much he enjoys that particular part of me, I think I would feel incomplete somehow. But we would work through it.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:06:35 PM

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Ya know, I've never really thought about this subject in particular, but my Daddy and I have dealt with health issues and obstacles. I can't speak for Him, but for me it would be more of a health issue than an asthetic one. I have a congenital heart defect...He worries Himself to death over me. That would be my biggest concern, and His, as well...or, at least I'm fairly certain.

On a side note...His mother died of breast cancer. When she was very ill, He happened to see her without her wig. I think, even with her passing, that one moment was the most sad for Him. I know hair can grow back, but it was the realization that there was something very wrong that He had no control over...that would be His issue and not the lack of breasts.

As for a woman that has already undergone a mastectomy...I think if she got past it, so would Dominants. As long as she was comfortable in her own skin, I don't see the problem.

I hope my Daddy looks at me as more than a pair of breasts...

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:10:12 PM

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I have discussed this with My Owner on occasion, since he has a breast and more specifically a nipple fetish. He would never discard me due to a mastectomy because what he cherishes most is my core being but would want me to have some sort of implants.

As for your question Troll, he would have never accepted a slave without breasts to begin with and I know that sounds harsh but as I stated he loves breasts. In fact he would never have taken a slave with small breasts either because of his preference for full breasts. However, I do know men that don't mind or care if a women has had a mastectomy and one fella in particular that we are friendly with prefers amputees of all sorts including a missing breast.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:26:28 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

ownedgirlie, thanks as well for your post. i haven't ever experienced anything like that myself, and none of my close family members have had breast cancer, so it's not an issue that hits home as much for me, which makes it difficult for me to respond in some ways. but i really am glad you shared your experience. :)

Thanks for your words, hisannabelle. While my Master truly enjoys torturing my breasts, he enjoys my submission, my mind, my heart and adoration much more. He was worried about my health and mental state more than whether or not I'd have to alter my bras. I doubt he would end this relationship over the loss of a boob anymore than I would end it should he lose a foot from his diabetes. There is just so much more to a person than things like that.

Magikslave, I would probably suffer issues of inadequacy too, even though he would knock that out of me. Knowing how much he enjoys that particular part of me, I think I would feel incomplete somehow. But we would work through it.

((hugs ownedgirlie) thanks it helps to know I wouldnt be the only one to feel that way. And Im sure G-d forbit something like that should ever happen to me Master would knock those feelings out of me as well... However it does give me something to talk to him about!!!

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:42:51 PM

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this post struck me...very personally. I was born with a rare medical condition that affects my internal organs and affects my aesthetic looks regarding my breasts. So to read a post describing an aeshthetic situation as this...was more than touching to me. I am actually afraid to show anyone my breasts due to this but to see so many people do not regard it as "bad" is...well its nice.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:45:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: moki1984

this post struck me...very personally. I was born with a rare medical condition that affects my internal organs and affects my aesthetic looks regarding my breasts. So to read a post describing an aeshthetic situation as this...was more than touching to me. I am actually afraid to show anyone my breasts due to this but to see so many people do not regard it as "bad" is...well its nice.

Thank you for your contribution. I am sure it was a difficult step.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:47:02 PM

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thank you..it wasnt an easy thing to type but for some reason, i did

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 7:47:19 PM

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This is a great thread.
I am a sub and my hope would be that someone would accept me as I am. As far as a woman not having a breast (or breasts), I would appreciate her for the fighter she is. And I would hope that a man would feel the same way. Reconstruction is an option, but it's a process and it's not for everyone. A woman should do what makes her comfortable and heal the way that is best for her. I hate the thought that a woman would see herself as less because she cut away a deadly part of her body.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 8:02:32 PM

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Loosing my breasts to cancer was one of my worst fears and always brought it up with partners.
When my sister slipped off her wig after chemotherapy, I cried for an hour I was so touched. She looked like my dearest dad without her hair.
In honor of her and all of the mothers, sisters and daughters, we walk, my 2 sisters and I in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer.
I know some men have walked away from their beloved woman for lack of a breast if an implant was not paid for by insurance. It only shows me how shallow a partner can be.
Men get breast cancer too. They also loose their testicles to cancer.
Whether your man walks away or not...always remember ladies ~~
You can live without your hair
you can live without your breasts...
but you CANNOT live without HOPE.
So we walk, in honor of mothers, sisters, daughters and friends.... SISTERS THREE.
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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 8:12:38 PM

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I was doing some research for a little erotica story and I stumbled on to a picture of a woman with a single Mastectomy. It was a B&W photo and she was topless in a stunning pose. The energy she projected in the photo was powerful and I have had that running through my head for some time now. So at last I wanted to give the thought to the community and see what all the different walks thought and felt about it. Sadly I have not been able to find the image again.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 8:25:19 PM

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i would say it would be more, with any disability how the woman dealt with it herself. Some people deal with adversity well, some get bitter and angry or need constant reassurance. However one deals with these things is one's own business, but i tend to dig upbeat vibes... certainly if i was already with someone and something... mastectomy, disease, becoming disabled or anything like that happened, i would stick with them...if ur not loyal what else is there?

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 8:30:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Now I have an image that is rather tame compared to the radical mastectomy’s that occur. I would like you to look at the image, maybe even do a search for more, and then answer the below.

http://breastcenter.com/images/articles/sga12.jpg
Some people are here for aesthetic sub/slaves and some are not. Personally I am looking for someone I click with real well and is healthy enough to keep up. How do you feel, I mean really feel and not the glossy fluff for the forum, about accepting a sub/slave who has had a mastectomy or double mastectomy?

I have no doubts that if I had a mastectomy or a double one that my owner would keep me. If we were strangers and talking about a potential relationship and I had a mastectomy in the past, I'm not sure about that.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 8:59:08 PM

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I'd have to think someone was far too much reliant on physical stature if they made THAT the defining reason for not being in a relationship with someone.

That doesn't make them a bad person, but it would cause me to seriously question them and their judgement making process.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 9:01:22 PM

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i know the One who owns me would keep me regardless of any illness, including breast cancer.

i also know the One who owns me would not hesitate to take on one who has battled breast cancer. One woman we played with (He had played with prior to meeting me) had part of her breast removed. He prepared me for it before we played. It did not stop Him.

There are three women in a lifestyle group i used to attend that have breast cancer. The men in each relationship is staying.

If anyone needs information on breast cancer prevention check ups and care for breast cancer when you have no health care, drop me a line on the other side.

i also am keeping a list of herbs to take (of course check with your doctor) that have helped some of the symptoms of chemo and radiation. If you know of anyone who could benefit, please drop me a line on the other side.

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RE: Sub/slaves with mastectomy’s. - 3/23/2007 9:06:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

If anyone needs information on breast cancer prevention check ups and care for breast cancer when you have no health care, drop me a line on the other side.

i also am keeping a list of herbs to take (of course check with your doctor) that have helped some of the symptoms of chemo and radiation. If you know of anyone who could benefit, please drop me a line on the other side.

Master's dorei

That just needed repeating. Thank you so much.

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