Padriag
Posts: 2633
Joined: 3/30/2005
Status: offline
|
Fast reply to no one in particular.
You remind me of the babe.
What babe?
The babe with the power.
What power?
The power of voodoo.
Who do?
You do.
Do what?
Remind me of the babe.
Upon reading this thread, that was ironically the first thing that sprang to mind (yes, my mind works in weird ways sometimes  ). As I pondered both what I'd read in this thread and what some part of my subconscious was apparently trying to tell me with the above bit, I eventually came to ask a question.
What power?
I see threads like this every now and then. Sometimes posted by submissives, sometimes by dominants, sometimes its on a non lifestyle site posted by someone wrestling with that same basic question (I am woman, hear me roar.... I am a modern man, hear me roar... I am a (insert nationality, creed, religion, political group, etc.), hear me roar). Regardless of who it is, as I think about it, the one question I find myself asking of them all is simply...
What power?
When someone says they are powerful, or that they have power, or that they are exchanging power... what is really meant? What power? Is it just some warm fuzzy feel-good proclamation intended to make someone or specific groups of people feel good about who they are? Is it based on something tangible, on merit of some kind perhaps? Is it something people say simply because it sounds good? Were they awarded a certificate for it? How many who discuss it can also define it? If you believe you are powerful... what does that mean in practical, definable, specific terms? What power? And of what real value (if any) is that power?
How can anyone say they or anyone else is powerful if we don't first know what sort of power we mean? We might say someone who is wealthy is powerful, because of what they can do using that wealth. We might say someone who is very charismatic has a kind of personal power. We often view leaders as being "powerful" while those who follow are "weak" or at least not as powerful. Most often we seem to measure how "powerful" a person is by how much they can influence, affect, and/or control other people as well as how many people they can affect. Thus both a tyrrant and conscionable leader can be seen as powerful (being powerful does equate with being moral or "good"). Someone like John Warren might be viewed as a more "powerful" dominant that say, me, because he's written books, attended events, given lectures, etc. and thus affect far more people in this lifestyle than me. Some view having a higher post count than someone else as making them more "powerful". We prize power, we covet it, we admire it... we associate having it as being good. But is it? Is the way we measure our "power" valid and based in tangible facts... or just a pleasant self delusion to prop up our self esteem? And even if some people are powerful, what does that mean? Someone might be powerful because they are wealthy, and some will not care... some will even resent them for it.
Are submissives powerful? First define what power.
Are submissives weak? If they are, why do we so often seem to despise it. In nature there are always some who are stronger than others, some who are weaker than others. Being weaker is, of itself, not "bad" just as being powerful does not mean someone is "good". Yet we so often mindlessly despise the weak and admire the "powerful". A pride of lions is composed of both stronger and weaker members, yet its survival is dependant on their ability to work together... a lion who is forced out and alone often does not survive for long no matter how "powerful" they might individually be.
Is being "powerful" or stronger really all that great? After all, as Darwin put it,"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, but those most responsive to change." As bullheaded as some of us dominants can be, I can't help but wonder if the submissives who are sometimes called "weaker" but are also often more adaptive aren't the ones most likely to survive.
Personally, I don't give a damn how powerful any of you thinks you are... neither do I care if you are weak. I care more who you are as a person, and whether you are powerful or not, I care more what you do with whatever skills, abilities, talents, or "power" you possess. Don't tell me about how powerful you are or think you are... if you wish to impress me, tell me instead what worthy things you have done with it.
_____________________________
Padriag
A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer
|
RE: The Powerful Submissive... - 
Profile
Thank you so much. It is good to see submissives willing to be the most they can be... so they have the most to give. 
New Messages
No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages
Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages
Locked w/o New Messages
Post New Thread