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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:38:40 PM   
domiguy


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The guy that yodeled Indian Love Call ---
and that opening line in puella's post was just made for a sad country song, I'm tellin' ya,  even Red Sovine would be blubbering like a fuckin' baby.

Ron




It does have the makings of a nice sad Country song...

                                                            Puella's  Song
                                            From the musical stylings of "Domiguy"
  
                             
                                         You love me now but you'll leave if I tellya
                                       You the man that I love and one hell of a fella

                                                          But I'm not the girl
                                                     That rocked your world
                                      And there is something that you ought to know......

                                                        I'm not from Kansas
                                                       I'm really from France
                                                     I don't go to night school
                                                  'cause it's at night that I dance.

                                                      I've had a few touch ups
                                                       to enhance my appeal
                                                          this isn't my nose
                                                    and my tits they're not real.

                                                        I'm not independent
                                                        I still live with my pa
                                                           My son is in jail
                                                        he shot me in the jaw.

                                                                 (chorus)

                                          You love me now but you'll leave if I tell ya
                                        Your the man that i love and one Hell of a fella

                                                            But I'm not the girl
                                                       that rocked your world
                                         and there is something that you ought to know


Help!...Writers block...(Domiguy has another shot of bourbon...Stares at paper)...Nothing!

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:40:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: puella

'You love me now, but you will leave me if I tell you.'

Is there something about you, about yourself, which you feel or have ever felt that way?  Whether it is something intrinsic within you, or something you have done?

Does it still loom over you?

How have you dealt with that problem?  Have you ever revealed that 'thing' to the one you love, and who loves you, but does not know?



To be honest IMO there is no thing you shouldn't be able to tell an intimate partner.  I mean if you can go through with some of the things that are listed as fetishes here then telling them relatively anything short of 'I'm a cerial killer' should be relatively easy.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:42:39 PM   
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How have you dealt with that problem? Have you ever revealed that 'thing' to the one you love, and who loves you, but does not know?

No, not for me. 

I can accept and still love someone for who they are- and not be able to be in a relationship with me.

Telling me something about themselves may, in fact, result in me leaving them.  The alternative is to lie to us both and revoke informed consent. 

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:46:47 PM   
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e of the things that are listed as fetishes here then telling them relatively anything short of 'I'm a cerial killer' should be relatively easy.


I uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh------------

threw away  a stale box of cornflakes once
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:49:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		                                                           I spent this Thanksgiving
                                                       with a man from Albuquerque
                                                              we didn't eat much
                                                       but he stuffed me like a turkey

                                                          There is one more reason
                                                             why I wrote this song
                                                                 My pussy is tight
                                                      'cause it's made from my schlong

< Message edited by domiguy -- 3/26/2007 7:50:57 PM >

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:52:48 PM   
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                                         You love me now but you'll leave if I tell ya
                                       Your the man that i love and one Hell of a fella

                                                           But I'm not the girl
                                                      that rocked your world
                                        and there is something that you ought to know

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 7:55:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

                                                          I spent this Thanksgiving
                                                      with a man from Albuquerque
                                                             we didn't eat much
                                                      but he stuffed me like a turkey

                                                         There is one more reason
                                                            why I wrote this song
                                                                My pussy is tight
                                                     'cause it's made from my schlong

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:02:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		quote (original Smileyking1):To be honest IMO there is no thing you shouldn't be able to tell an intimate partner.  I mean if you can go through with some of the things that are listed as fetishes here then telling them relatively anything short of 'I'm a cerial killer' should be relatively easy.

how about "i'm a bank robber"? 'cause i just had one (an intimate partner) not telling me that!!!

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:04:18 PM   
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"You'll leave if I don't tell you."

There have almost always been things that I felt "If I tell you, you won't want me."  I've paid a huge personal price for my own rejection of myself, and have caused those who I loved to be equally hurt.  Shame is a powerful burden.  I've learned you cannot love others, until you can love yourself.  You cannot love yourself, if you cannot like yourself.  If you don't like who you are, nobody can fix you; you have to fix yourself.  Some people learn this early, some people never learn it.  That shame is rarely one thing, but usually several things.  No matter who I've shared it with, it never left.  You can either feed the beast, or you can starve it with better deeds.  The only final accounting, will be with our maker.

Stephan

PS,

DG,

I was more moved for this one:

The screen door slams, Mary's dress sways
Like a vision she dances across the porch. As the radio plays
Roy Orbison singing for the lonely
Hey that's me and I want you only
Don't turn me home again, I just can't face myself alone again
Don't run back inside, darling you know just what I'm here for
So you're scared and you're thinking
That maybe we ain't that young anymore
Show a little faith, there's magic in the night
You ain't a beauty, but hey you're alright
Oh and that's alright with me
You can hide `neath your covers and study your pain
Make crosses from your lovers, throw roses in the rain
Waste your summer praying in vain
For a saviour to rise from these streets
Well now I'm no hero, that's understood
All the redemption I can offer, girl, is beneath this dirty hood
With a chance to make it good somehow
Hey what else can we do now?
Except roll down the window and let the wind blow back your hair
Well the night's busting open
This two lanes will take us anywhere
We got one last chance to make it real
To trade in these wings on some wheels
Climb in back, Heaven's waiting on down the tracks

Oh-oh come take my hand
We're riding out tonight to case the promised land
Oh-oh Thunder Road, oh Thunder Road, oh Thunder Road,
Lying out there like a killer in the sun
Hey I know it's late we can make it if we run
Oh Thunder Road, sit tight take hold, Thunder Road

Well I got this guitar and I learned how to make it talk
And my car's out back if you're ready to take that long walk
From your front porch to my front seat
The door's open but the ride it ain't free
And I know you're lonely and there's words that I ain't spoken
But tonight we'll be free, all the promises'll be broken
There were ghosts in the eyes of all the boys you sent away
They haunt this dusty beach road
In the skeleton frames of burned out Chevrolets
They scream your name at night in the street
Your graduation gown lies in rags at their feet
And in the lonely cool before dawn
you hear their engines roaring on
But when you get to the porch they're gone
On the wind, so Mary climb in
It's a town full of losers and I'm pulling out of here to win.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:10:55 PM   
domiguy


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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:11:19 PM   
Smileyking1


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ORIGINAL: duckiesquack

quote (original Smileyking1):To be honest IMO there is no thing you shouldn't be able to tell an intimate partner.  I mean if you can go through with some of the things that are listed as fetishes here then telling them relatively anything short of 'I'm a cerial killer' should be relatively easy.

how about "i'm a bank robber"? 'cause i just had one (an intimate partner) not telling me that!!!


Meh that's not that bad...could be worse...did they kill anyone in mid-bank-robbing-process?

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:22:10 PM   
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Some of you people are sick puppies...
 
 
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:23:41 PM   
feylin


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Status: offline 		My favorite:

Crawl into my ambulance, your pulse is getting weak
Reveal yourself all now to me, girl, while you've got the strength to speak
'Cause they're waiting for you at Bellevue with their oxygen masks
But I could give it all to you now, if only you could ask
And don't call for your surgeon, even he says it's too late
It's not your lungs this time, it's your heart that holds your fate
Don't give me my money, honey, I don't want it back
You and your pony face and your Union Jack
Well, take your local joker and teach him how to act
I swear I was never that way, even when I really cracked
Didn't you think I knew that you were born with the power of a locomotive
Able to leap tall buildings in a single bound?
And your Chelsea suicide with no apparent motive
You could laugh and cry in a single sound


Well, actually, the entire album (now CD) is wonderful.  Oops, what was the topic?

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:43:49 PM   
Suleiman


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ORIGINAL: puella

'You love me now, but you will leave me if I tell you.'

Is there something about you, about yourself, which you feel or have ever felt that way?  Whether it is something intrinsic within you, or something you have done?

Does it still loom over you?

How have you dealt with that problem?  Have you ever revealed that 'thing' to the one you love, and who loves you, but does not know?



Interesting question. I can't say that I've had a problem like this in my love life, but then again, if I have some concern that I can't be completely open and honest with my mate, I kind of lose interest in them. I guess I just don't think enough with the little head to jump into a relationship with people I don't want to relate to. I suppose I have that attitude toward people in general, the idea that I'll be rejected if they ever really got to know me. Lord knows it happens a lot. I don't warm up to people quickly, and I get intensely suspicious of anyone who suddenly buddies up to me without (in my opinion) a good reason for it. I'm constantly wondering about their motives, and trying to figure out how shallow they are. I'm involved in three communities that often do not like each other - occultism, science fiction and roleplaying fandom, and SM. Very often, people you meet in these communities have prejudicial attitudes about one of the other two. Since I like D&D, I must be a fake - I'm obviously not "serious" about majik (or however they mangle the spelling this year) and I obviously still live in my parents basement, and could not possibly have any real world experience with sex, much less S&M. Similar perjerative attitudes apply to the other two circles. This is not to say that there is no one whom I know who cross over into one or more of these genres, but outside of my immediate circle of friends, I have come to expect attitudes like this from people I have only just met.


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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 8:50:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: duckiesquack

quote (original Smileyking1):To be honest IMO there is no thing you shouldn't be able to tell an intimate partner.  I mean if you can go through with some of the things that are listed as fetishes here then telling them relatively anything short of 'I'm a cerial killer' should be relatively easy.

how about "i'm a bank robber"? 'cause i just had one (an intimate partner) not telling me that!!!


Meh that's not that bad...could be worse...did they kill anyone in mid-bank-robbing-process?




nope, didn't hurt anybody, but he robbed 4 banks in less than a month and was away from me for 45 minutes on the day of the last one and preposed to me less than 1/2 hour after doing it then spent the whole day with me lying the whole day and the "wonderful" day ended with the fbi and 4 representitives from jursidicions of local police surrounding my car pointing guns at us. oh, and he'd robbed one the day before that and then picked up my son less than an hour after.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 9:55:21 PM   
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"I spent time in prison" is a bit different then "I was raped".


Oh, there might be some overlap.


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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/26/2007 10:02:45 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 4:06:38 AM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 4:35:01 AM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 4:44:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with Barelee on this one. Whats history is in the past. There is nothing you can do to change it. Learn from it. You should be moving forward in a relationship.

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