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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 1:36:09 PM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		I've had three major, long term relationships, the first knows next to nothing about my past, and nothing at all of the bad, heck he is a lot of my bad adulthood.  My soon to be ex husband I did tell most everything too and he took advantage of it.  Right now the person I am involved with does know a lot, maybe more that anyone else and he's still around but he's more messed up than I am even and he knew me through most of it which does make a difference.  I still though have moments when I think he will leave me if he realizes how messed up I am.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 2:25:36 PM   
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i always felt like that in regards to my past/up bringing/childhood. D is the first one i told the whole truth to [just exactly how "white trash" i REALLY was]. i dont know if i could tell anyone else.


How can you be trashy and rimless at the same time...LOL
...... sorry I just couldnt help it..

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 2:28:22 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 2:36:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: puella
I thought it might interest some to know where this idea came from, for me.  I was watching a movie for work last night about a man who was released from prison and who is trying to assimilate back into society after having been (and from a psychological stand point he still is, you can not 'cure' pedophilia) a convicted sex offender.

There is a moment where,  when finally in a 'healthy' adult relationship, he is asked by his female partner about his 'dark past' (she, knowing he was in prison, but not why).  There is a moment where he visibly struggles, with what I perceived to be my question here...


I loved that movie.  It's one of the few that made me cry...

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 2:56:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tannie

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ORIGINAL: puella
I thought it might interest some to know where this idea came from, for me.  I was watching a movie for work last night about a man who was released from prison and who is trying to assimilate back into society after having been (and from a psychological stand point he still is, you can not 'cure' pedophilia) a convicted sex offender.

There is a moment where,  when finally in a 'healthy' adult relationship, he is asked by his female partner about his 'dark past' (she, knowing he was in prison, but not why).  There is a moment where he visibly struggles, with what I perceived to be my question here...


I loved that movie.  It's one of the few that made me cry...



Well what was the outcome? Does he insist that she dress up like a little girl?...Kill everyone at his workplace?....For God's sake what happened?

I knew Mixie was white trash by all the cars on blocks and plastic flamingos in her profile....And her profile always seems to get decimated during a tornado.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 2:58:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I knew Mixie was white trash by all the cars on blocks and plastic flamingos in her profile....And her profile always seems to get decimated during a tornado.

you play, but you would gasp at my dads yard [something like 9 cars? RETCH]

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:12:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hannibal Lecter: You know what you look like to me, with your good bag and your cheap shoes? You look like a rube. A well scrubbed, hustling rube with a little taste. Good nutrition has given you some length of bone, but you're not more than one generation from poor white trash, are you, mixielicious? And that accent you've tried so desperately to shed? Pure West Virginia. What's your father, dear? Is he a coal miner? Does he stink of the lamp? You know how quickly the boys found you... all those tedious sticky fumblings in the back seats of cars... while you could only dream of getting out... getting anywhere... getting all the way to the Collar Me.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:17:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Hannibal Lecter: You know what you look like to me, with your good bag and your cheap shoes? You look like a rube. A well scrubbed, hustling rube with a little taste. Good nutrition has given you some length of bone, but you're not more than one generation from poor white trash, are you, mixielicious? And that accent you've tried so desperately to shed? Pure West Virginia. What's your father, dear? Is he a coal miner? Does he stink of the lamp? You know how quickly the boys found you... all those tedious sticky fumblings in the back seats of cars... while you could only dream of getting out... getting anywhere... getting all the way to the Collar Me.

youre kinda freaking me out coz the fucked up part is how much of it is accurate, lol

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:20:27 PM   
PONYSEEKER


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Status: offline 		Damn that sounds familure... is that from a movie or something?

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:26:46 PM   
mixielicous


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ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

Damn that sounds familure... is that from a movie or something?

helloooooooooo the words hannibal lector dont give it away??????

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:28:40 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 3:30:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Okay, quickly... and you still owe me that story... He moves across the street from a middle school play ground where he watches the kiddies... and notices a guy doing the same thing... though he still has the inherent desire to be with little girls, he works on building a relationship with the woman and ends up pummeling the guy who is molesting kids from the playground across the street in an overt outward extension of trying to beat it out of himself.

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 6:27:42 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 8:45:17 PM   
patina


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Status: offline 		I have a question on your thread.  I have my what i consider 2 worst secrets out in plain sight in my profile and journal.  I want any perspective Dom to already know what he will be dealing with. 

My question is what about what i call childhood issues from upbringing.  Should they be left until you have made a commitment as they deal more in if you would do certain things such as using types of items in playing.  For example my dad once beat me with his belt, he just unfastened it pulled it through the loops doubled it and started swinging. 

To this day i can not stand to hear or see a belt be pulled from the loops of a mans pants without shaking.  I will have nightmare that night and for days later.  My dad was a very strit disciplinarian.  He used the belt quite frequently on me and my siblings.  But he had never beat me all about my body except that one time. Are these kind of things best told after a commitment is made?
I would think they would be but am not really sure so as usual am confirming my decision.
Thank you 

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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 9:41:21 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 10:56:09 PM   
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what link is that in your Sig.. where is it sending us too....... and whats it all about?




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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/27/2007 11:00:07 PM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/28/2007 1:18:50 AM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/28/2007 4:58:04 AM   
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RE: You'll leave me if I tell you... - 3/28/2007 10:00:42 AM   
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