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Brownbohemian -> Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 10:07:26 AM)

I am sure most of you are looking at this and wondering what in the worlld I am talking about. Well, it is simple, I have not found one slave suitible for my needs. We go through the intial getting to know you deal, (what he want ,what I want what he won't and what I won't), but it always end with him being far more commited to (insert excuse here) than to me which makes a very poor slave. I of course drop him, and move on. Then come the calls, the begging, and the "I can change" speeches. [:@]NO!! I made it very clear as to what I wanted and was very willing to do my duty as a D to acheive it. I understand this is the BDSM world and bull#%$^ is part of the game, but give me a break. How long must a Mistress hunt before she bags the big one. Any advice dear Ladies and gentlemen would be greatly appreciated.



RopePrincess -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 10:11:50 AM)

HI!
  I must admit to having more than one! If we were to stop being so greedy maybe it would be better to find them easier.
All kidding aside, these slaves take work. They tend to think they can have a safe word and such. Not!
Charge them for this silly safe word idea. It becomes real easy when they are what they are ...slaves...
  RP



MsKatHouston -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 10:12:07 AM)

Until it happens?  I have been doing this for a very long time and while I have had several pretty good submissives throughout the years, I can count on one hand the ones who have been my dream sub.  I have that now, thankfully.  It took awhile but it was well worth the wait.  There is no magic answer.  Some people find their ideal mate on day 1, others on year 50.  My suggestion is to expose yourself to as many avenues as possible for meeting like minded people including online but especially off line, real time events.



Griswold -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 11:02:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Brownbohemian

I am sure most of you are looking at this and wondering what in the worlld I am talking about. Well, it is simple, I have not found one slave suitible for my needs. We go through the intial getting to know you deal, (what he want ,what I want what he won't and what I won't), but it always end with him being far more commited to (insert excuse here) than to me which makes a very poor slave. I of course drop him, and move on. Then come the calls, the begging, and the "I can change" speeches. [:@]NO!! I made it very clear as to what I wanted and was very willing to do my duty as a D to acheive it. I understand this is the BDSM world and bull#%$^ is part of the game, but give me a break. How long must a Mistress hunt before she bags the big one. Any advice dear Ladies and gentlemen would be greatly appreciated.


I totally understand your dilemma.

Considering that there's only one of me, I would assume your travails have only just begun.

However, if you ever feel a need for assistance with sentence structure, paragraphs or how even to avoid disjointed and/or run on sentences...I'm your man.



DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 11:14:18 AM)

A grammar slave...interesting.


LS



Hanable -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 11:28:29 AM)

i understand ur delima brownbohemian. i too have had problems finidng "the one" sometimes i am not sure my perfect one exists.. othre times i find someone so close i am sure he does. i have a few onlines that r as close to perfect as i have ever gotten but i am not so sure they would be the same in r/t. both r sweet and very sub on line.. but sometimes i dont believe they would be the same if i were near them. it all depends on what a person want in a sub/slave as to how hard/easy it is to find someone. perhaps we just havent looked inthe right places to find our perfects.. or maybe we r over looking them. it all takes time.

H >:)



Brownbohemian -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:08:32 PM)

Keep your grammer to yourself.



MsLadySue -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:10:35 PM)

With the last message I saw, which was obviously removed, I can understand why your search is not providing the desired results.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:13:04 PM)

I feel that people professing to be Dominants should know how to present themselves as a litterate person.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:14:25 PM)

Removed by who? And what message?:)
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

With the last message I saw, which was obviously removed, I can understand why your search is not providing the desired results.



Brownbohemian -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:14:53 PM)

You seem to have it pegged. Sometimes it seems as though you are about as close to heaven as possilbe only to be disappointed. I will of course keep look. The perfect slave is out there.

Thanx Ladies



MagiksSlave -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:17:03 PM)

ah yes the ever ellusive unicorn!!!

Magik's slave



Saint -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:20:23 PM)

I understand the difficulties in finding that special someone. It can be frustrating, difficult and downright depressing when the days turn into weeks, then months and years. But as long as you keep faith with yourself and be honest, then you have to keep hope that they are out there.



Brownbohemian -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:40:16 PM)

First off, Than You to all those who have responded with positive comments.
Second, my syntax may well be off, but my words and emotions ring true. Please leave your grammer comments for someone who actually cares.
Third: to Feline Perusasian, literate is spelled with one "t" not two.
Fourth: to MsLadySue, I wanted to say something to you, but as I write this I realize you're just not worth the energy.
Five, Thank You to all those who answered my post by keeping your comments on the actual post.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:44:02 PM)

Thank you. one t not two.



amayos -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:49:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Brownbohemian

I am sure most of you are looking at this and wondering what in the worlld I am talking about. Well, it is simple, I have not found one slave suitible for my needs. I understand this is the BDSM world and bull#%$^ is part of the game, but give me a break. How long must a Mistress hunt before she bags the big one? Any advice dear Ladies and gentlemen would be greatly appreciated.


It is my experience consensual slaves—be they male or female—are in fact very rare creatures. Possibly just as rare are those who know what slaves really are and possess no moral qualms about willingly seeking them out. Time, patience and vigilance is the only thing that will bring a willing soul to cross your path one day. In this regard, it is beneficial to reflect upon the faithful tranquility of a spider. And while you search, you can certainly enjoy and benefit from those legitimately submissive souls looking to serve slavishly.




defiantbadgirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:50:09 PM)

I've almost given up on finding a male slave and am considering becoming a sub. Seems like most male slaves just want a mistress so she can "order" them to do same sex acts. Male slaves and subs that consider same sex acts a hard limit appear to be in the minority. Definitely hard to find.



Aileen68 -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:51:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Brownbohemian

First off, Than You to all those who have responded with positive comments.
Second, my syntax may well be off, but my words and emotions ring true. Please leave your grammer comments for someone who actually cares.
Third: to Feline Perusasian, literate is spelled with one "t" not two.
Fourth: to MsLadySue, I wanted to say something to you, but as I write this I realize you're just not worth the energy.
Five, Thank You to all those who answered my post by keeping your comments on the actual post.


And grammar is spelled with two a's, not one.



MsKatHouston -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 12:56:05 PM)

What difference does it make if it is a hard limit or not as long as not doing that is not a deal breaker for them?  Anyway, if that's the biggest issue you are coming up against, count yourself lucky.  Most male subs who contact me are opposed to same sex acts.

quote:

And while you search, you can certainly enjoy and benefit from those legitimately submissive souls looking to serve slavishly.


I love that




FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (3/31/2007 1:05:21 PM)

Mskat, she don't want them doing same sex acts. She is against it. And from what I gather she finds men who want a domme to force them to do same sex acts.



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