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slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:34:24 PM   
sweetlilwhat


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Status: offline 		What the heck is this all about , Maybe i am not that bright but how the heck do you put a slave under consideration on the net
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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:37:14 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I say "I'd like to consider you to be part of a serious relationship"

They say "OK."

Of course, you're generally under THEIR consideration as well, but if they've agreed to be under the other persons consideration, they likely have already decided what they want

http://www.collarchat.com/m_570779/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#570947
"Under Consideration" what does it mean to you?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_437842/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#437958
Putting under consideration

http://www.collarchat.com/m_297748/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#297748
collaring levels

http://www.collarchat.com/m_293199/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#293199
some slaves have no

http://www.collarchat.com/m_249659/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#249659
"Under Consideration"???

http://www.collarchat.com/m_167264/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#167264
Under Consideration

http://www.collarchat.com/m_167264/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#167264
taking someone under consideration

http://www.collarchat.com/m_136495/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#136495
under consideration

http://www.collarchat.com/m_86003/mpage_1/key_consideration/tm.htm#86003
different "stages"/different treatment?




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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:39:35 PM   
KnightofMists


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Put a profile marketing for willing slaves to be used at one's sexual whims.

Be prepared for the rush of inquiries. 

Have all inquiries fill out an application that asks critical questions that lead to a successful relationship (IE> Are a woman?)

Sort through the applications...

and then choose the successful applicate to be a slave... and put all the others under consideration encase the one choosen doesn't work out..

This whole process should take about 30 minutes of one's time in the evening

< Message edited by KnightofMists -- 4/3/2007 6:40:47 PM >

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:40:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetlilwhat

What the heck is this all about , Maybe i am not that bright but how the heck do you put a slave under consideration on the net


Do you get married after the first date?

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:41:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		sweet i dont understand what you dont understand....but looks like from all the LA links others feel as you do and have weighed in....lots of reading ahead

for me, it simply represents a stage in a relationships progression where the future lives of both people are wanting to become more entwined, therefore they are focusing on each other more, and on other potential play mates less.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:42:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like to think of it as virtually going steady.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:44:05 PM   
GeekyGirl


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Status: offline 		I don't know about "over the net" specifically but I've used "under consideration" to apply to the time period where I'm dating a dominant partner and letting him have a limited amount of control over my life...but not yet having given him total control. It's an intermediate stage where I'm feeling him out and trying to decide if I want this person to be my dominant or not (and likewise he is trying to find out if I'm the right kind of submissive for him.) 

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:45:17 PM   
sweetlilwhat


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Status: offline 		So , i guess now a days its all Cyber crap ... Thank you all for taking the time to let me know

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:45:49 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I agree with spanklette..its a kind of see if this thing floats or sinks like a rock....raises hand to thought of most likely rock sinkage..glug...glug...glug..Tempting

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:50:47 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		Hysterical...yet so true.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:54:36 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		"cyber crap"...well i suppose you could look at it that way.....but lots of under consideration collars are given in flesh relationships too...and i doubt very much that any of the folks that play with these collars would call it that....



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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 6:54:53 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		You're the one who said "over the net" not all of it is "cyber crap". I was just answering the question exactly how it was worded. But, even in real life I stand by my answer...just take out the "virtually" part.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:04:04 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		just an aside: i just read your profile....and the part where you brag about being snobbish and stuck up may not work in you favor....

coming in here and bashing a substanstial part of a community that you have been in for minutes, and bragging about being snobby is like a drunk teenager crashing an adult party...and breaking shit...you might want to rethink calling things you dont understand cyber crap, and being haughty on your profile.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:04:33 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Let's see, we "met" online, we chatted online, we talked on the phone....a LOT.  There was a connection - a chemistry.  I found myself mentally and emotionally submitting to him.  He found himself impressed with the way I responded to him in conversation, and he considered me as a potential slave to him.  I asked him to train me to his liking, which put me "under consideration" at which time I ceased conversations with other potential Masters.  If you think a person can only submit in person, your thinking is limited.  Two months later we met in person and he took ownership of me.  That was almost three years ago.  Oh yeah, and there was no, nor has there ever been, "cyber sex."

Works for some, not for others.  If I felt our connection was "crap," simply because we hadn't met in person yet, I would not currently be experiencing the most beautiful relationship of my life.  But everyone's different, of course.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:15:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetlilwhat

So , i guess now a days its all Cyber crap ... Thank you all for taking the time to let me know


Yes, now you can go on your way into the real world and leave us all to our "cyber crap". We were happy to enlighten one such as yourself....with all of your experience and real world knowledge we should be bowing before you.



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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:28:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder if I can convince my Daddy to use his cyber belt next time we play.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:30:18 PM   
maybemaybenot


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At least most of us into " this cyber crap" can create a cohesive sentence. Of course, maybe being " stuck up and snobbish" precludes one from having to effectively communicate with we underlings.
 
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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:36:57 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetlilwhat

What the heck is this all about , Maybe i am not that bright but how the heck do you put a slave under consideration on the net


Easy, you let them know you are interested in pursuing something much farther.  Online, thats where you start.  You move ahead, and you want them to let others know you are pursuing them. Everything starts somewhere. 
Angel was under consideration before we met face to face.  If online things dont work for you, then thats your choice.  For some of us, it works well.

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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:53:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Let's see, we "met" online, we chatted online, we talked on the phone....a LOT.  There was a connection - a chemistry.  I found myself mentally and emotionally submitting to him.  He found himself impressed with the way I responded to him in conversation, and he considered me as a potential slave to him.  I asked him to train me to his liking, which put me "under consideration" at which time I ceased conversations with other potential Masters.  If you think a person can only submit in person, your thinking is limited.  Two months later we met in person and he took ownership of me.  That was almost three years ago.  Oh yeah, and there was no, nor has there ever been, "cyber sex."

Works for some, not for others.  If I felt our connection was "crap," simply because we hadn't met in person yet, I would not currently be experiencing the most beautiful relationship of my life.  But everyone's different, of course.


I believe I'm in the middle of the same chain of events now!  To the point we have both deactivated our profiles.  The connection, a chemistry... a mental and emotionally connection.   I was totally impressed with the way ONE responded to me, and even to how I myself have responded.  I find that I'm having to let a few I have been talking with go right now.  There are a few that I had already been communicating with before meeting this ONE.   I deactivated my Profile this morning, I tried to be fair with some in regards to keeping in touch.  However, as one pointed out in an Email to me today....
"I'm not going to have you tell me your interested one min then get rid of me the next because you think you found better hmmm"  I had thought I was being considerate, however I totally understand and see her point without question. It would be wrong for me to be going back and fourth between he and another.  Somebody might/will get hurt in the process.

So basicall, Under Consideration is a time out to explore having a relationship with Somebody Specific.  It's not fair to keep anybody else waiting in the wings or expect them to suddenly be reduced down to Friendship status, when they are seeking an honest relationship.  Whew.......  This is where I'm at with all the "Under Consideration Business".   There are a few that I may or may not be able to manage or maintain friendships with.  I'm not certain myself, since this is an ALL new experience for me.  Guess time will tell.

One today, actually felt that it was too soon for me to be taking somebody under consideration.  I said maybe so, but I have a habit of doing crazy things at times.  I do know this... It actually feels good to be able to more clearly focus effect on somebody specific, instead of having focus on many who their focus is upon many at the same time.  It's like one big vicious circle of chasing ass... Chasing phone calls, IM's and emails... that really do not lead to anywhere.

I actually was thinking that submitting long distance was just a strange act of behavior.  Right now I think my mind is more open to it, I'm not really thinking about this type of crap.  I'm sitting here a bit blown away, that I'm sharing all this with you.  Back a month ago, If I read this thread I probally would have stuck my nose in here and said that Online "Under Consideration" was a shit load of crap....

The funny thing is that this actually happened very Naturally.  I made no requests or demands for this to happen.  This whole "under consideration" business is a complete choice of free will.

There are aspects of this online long distance dating game, that I'm still getting used to.  Perhaps, this whole thing may blow up in my face! If it does, then at least I will have experienced something new and different, will learn and live from it!!


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RE: slave under consideration - 4/3/2007 7:57:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would agree with spanklette's comparision. The best way to describe it to a newbie is  the D/s way of going steady.

You might want to work on your profile, if your looking for a dom, stuck up and snobbish are along the same lines as selfish in a sub, all undesirable for most.


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