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RE: Really looking or just there? - 4/7/2007 6:08:59 PM

GeekyGirl

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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My manners aren't that great in real life, and they sure as heck aren't great online. Sorry, got better things to do than type "no thank you" 5,000,909,9999, 233, 333 times.

i think that is what the bulk mail function is for...

However, i do find it troubling that manners aren't important to you and some others here...that humanity is not worth the time of day to so many and that the cocentric circles that we inhabit have no value~

GeekyGirl, i would kindly say to you - i don't think this is something i would brag about if i were you...

I'm not here to brag, I'm here to be honest.

Bulk mail filters by age and location, not by general stupidity.

I have many friends who do not meet my dating criteria....I wouldn't want to filter out my platonic messages.

To an extent manners are important. I say "no ma'am" and "yes sir" to my elders in real life, and I say "please" and "thank you."

Replying to meaningless anonymous assholes with a polite "no ty" is really an enormous waste of time.

See, I'm all about being honest. My friends think I'm blunt and truthful...my enemies think I'm a rude bitch. Oh well , I wouldn't want to hang out with overly tactful people to begin with as I've also seen excessive tack as a type of weakness. It's better to hurt someone's feelings and be honest than to lie to them.

I'm not going to pretend to be polite to someone when I'm pissed off at them for emailing me with some sort of nonsense and wasting my time.

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RE: Really looking or just there? - 4/7/2007 6:21:00 PM

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Thankyou for clarifying that ~

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RE: Really looking or just there? - 4/17/2007 6:36:17 PM

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I am looking for the perfect Dom for me. However, all but one of the emails were one-liners that really didn't let me know anything and the one that was longer I responded back to. He seemed to want to meet right away (after two emails about where we lived) and that made me uncomfortable. I'd really just like to get to know a person and develop a bit of a friendship first. So, if the D/s doesn't work out we'd still be buds.

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RE: Really looking or just there? - 4/21/2007 8:04:04 PM

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Was wondering what percentage of subs on here are truly looking, or just like to play cybertag(if there's a reply at all)? I've met a few in person, just seems that the majority are looking for a perfect dominant when such a thing doesn't exist. In my experience, one of maybe every twenty even bothers to reply, nevermind get real. There's no such thing as a perfect sub either, but at least I reply :)

Why didn't you just continue your previous whine instead of starting a new thread?

~stef

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