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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:17:54 AM

Salome

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For me: I would rather have someone choose to be with me for who I am and what I can give them, not because their partner is so defficiant as to make anyone else seem better. I would rather have them come into my arms on their own accord than to be chased there.

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:19:39 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x
Hmm....well i am 44 years old and have been in this lifestyle since the age of 13, and i do not see the appeal.

huh?

yeah right

and I am the King of the United States...

no wait...

that is GW

Ross
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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:20:07 AM

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Bravo! Cheating destroys lives, breaks hearts and, sometimes, gets people killed. It is the seediest side of that person's character. Nobody wants, or needs, a Judas in their lives and the seducer does not stand in any better position. There are plenty of single people or people in open relationships to choose from.

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:22:21 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Salome

For me: I would rather have someone choose to be with me for who I am and what I can give them, not because their partner is so defficiant as to make anyone else seem better. I would rather have them come into my arms on their own accord than to be chased there.

I am going to appologize for thi ahead of time but I could not help Myself when I saw your nice pic:

I have a weed wacker I would gladly give both you and it a work out on.

Ross
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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:26:03 AM

PlayfulOne

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ORIGINAL: Sc0tdom

I must be in the middle, as I have partners who are married and they are used in private with or without the other partner's knowledge and even indeed used and abused right in front of their partner and turning the husband into a cuckold.

Turning a partner into a cuckold is one thing. Playing with a married partner where the other half knows and agrees is also ok.

But encouraging and helping someone slide around behind their partners back is dusgustful, It shows a lack of charector and judgement on both parties.

K

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:26:17 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

or nothing like the laziness of a Dominant who doesn't have to deal with actually interacting with the submissive. They can just send them home.

I wouldn't know about that personally

So Ross are you saing unattatched submissives are not eager or willing?

For the most part yes...the more mature ones seemed to have mellowed like a fine wine to be savored

They also know where there baggage was and where it has been

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sure you know about it, its called "I am a kinky player", nothing wrong with that just admit it. If they are attatched to someone else you really don't have to worry about dealing with an actual relationship. Don't like whats going on send them home.

Maybe the "problems " with unattatched submissives is not them but you. Heaven forbid they want something fromm you like actually committing to a relationship. No worries about that when they are going home to another.

They want kink, you want kink, so all be kinky together. Nothing wrong with that if thats what you both want. But it doesn't make you a Dominant, just a kinky player which your post have always shown you to be not the "Great Dominant " in your dreams.

K

I always love it when someone who never met claims to know all about Me and My ever thoughts..

Hey...I think pokey is looking for you for some rough and tumble....

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:28:36 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PlayfulOneTurning a partner into a cuckold is one thing. Playing with a married partner here the other half knows and agrees is also ok.

But encouraging and helping someone slide around behind their partners back is dusgustful, It shows a lack of charector and judgement on both parties.

Interesting set of values you have there...

If it is going to happen with or without Me she might as well be safe and enjoyng...

how disgusting...hehehee

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:31:56 AM

PlayfulOne

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So ae you saying you aren't the drivel you post?

your a bull shit machine with no class, the post you just made to Salome verifys that.

It would fit you would be looking for cheaters, no integerity, no expecatations.

Whatever floats your boat, but put you "I am a Dominant" certificate back in the cracker jack box you got it from.

K

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:35:33 AM

Twicehappy2x

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x
Hmm....well i am 44 years old and have been in this lifestyle since the age of 13, and i do not see the appeal.

huh?yeah rightand I am the King of the United States...no wait...that is GW

Obviously you have never paid attention to any of my posts, or read my profile. Every so often i get disgusted and delete myself for a bit but i've been here for awhile.

Do a search and read some of my past profiles posts, if you like.

Here is a quick "How de do" from me.

Those who know me personally can confirm my story. I left home at age 11 for reasons not open to discussion. At age 12 i was a bikers old lady. At age 13 i was purchased from my then old man by the father of my two oldest clones, a HA member from Oakland who was also my first Master.

Just because you do not know someone do not assume you KNOW their life story.

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ORIGINAL: lockedaway

Bravo! Cheating destroys lives, breaks hearts and, sometimes, gets people killed. It is the seediest side of that person's character. Nobody wants, or needs, a Judas in their lives and the seducer does not stand in any better position. There are plenty of single people or people in open relationships to choose from.

And bravo back to you as well. Cheating violates one of the core principles of both my beliefs as an individual as well as those of BDSM/D/s, HONESTY!

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:38:25 AM

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I agree with Playful one. Turning a partner into a cuckold etc. is part of the dynamic of many d/s relationships. If a Dom has molded their sub into that position then it is STILL not cheating. You cannot escape the fact that cheating is a vile form of betrayal and if you encourage someone to cheat that makes you pretty vile as well. It is better not to bring that kind of super-negative karma into your life.

By the way, when I said that cheating can get people killed, I know of two....personally. Both of these happened in Little Rock. One guy was beaten to death with a golf club, although they couldn't pin his death on the husband; too many people covering for him. The other guy was shot in the face.

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:40:13 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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well by all means that should stop people for seeking out what they do not have.

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:41:45 AM

DiurnalVampire

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Personally, I just find that cheaters canot be trusted. If I am going to play wit someone I need to trust them. If someone is going to be with me behind someone elses back, then they are proving to me from the get go they have no problem lying and hiding things. I have no reasonable expectation that they would have any more inclination to be truthful to me than they are to their partner. There is nothing appealing about being someone elses secret. If it is going to hapen with or without me, thenlet it happen without me. If I am going to spend my time traiing or playing with someone, I am going to be that someone's focus and their only one. I do not care to share, especially with another partner who doesnt know he or she is sharing as well.

DV

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:42:37 AM

PlayfulOne

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your awful funny, for a wanna be wuth a whip

K

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:44:26 AM

SusanofO

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SirDiscipliner69: You appear to want to pick so many arguments with other people. I mean, surely being an intelligent man, you realized ahead of time, just what kind of response you were likely to get to this thread. And yet, when you get it, you act angry, as if you are surprised anyone disagrees with you. Why bother with all of that?

I am not saying I don't consider it a legitimate topic, but most people's position at CM on it is already pretty clear, IMO (and anyone who has read similar threads already knows this, IMO).

Is intense arguing (or provoking others into it) a part-time hobby of yours? You do this on many threads, it seems. It seems pointless, to me, in some ways. I mean, it is a free country, but I can't believe it makes you happy (but maybe it does). So why are you doing it?

- Susan

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:44:45 AM

PoeticPrincess

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Absolutely agree that cheating and lying do not work well for me, and the lovely thing about BDSM is that we are all being ourselves, in truth being outside of the normal lying cheating dissembling masses who cannot address their needs.
I feel sorry for vanillas who have cheating BDSM husbands. Where is their courage?

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:44:51 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Personally, I just find that cheaters canot be trusted.

you are correct

It defines the expectations

If I am going to play wit someone I need to trust them.

Not true if they are fuckmeat...and a dozen or so were just that....fuckmeat

If someone is going to be with me behind someone elses back, then they are proving to me from the get go they have no problem lying and hiding things.

Correct...so one can predict without fail the baggage and determine the outcome

I have no reasonable expectation that they would have any more inclination to be truthful to me than they are to their partner.

Correct again..then again fckmeat being whipped and having them coo over it is enjoyable

There is nothing appealing about being someone elses secret.

There are more secrets than you are aware of

If it is going to hapen with or without me, thenlet it happen without me. If I am going to spend my time traiing or playing with someone, I am going to be that someone's focus and their only one. I do not care to share, especially with another partner who doesnt know he or she is sharing as well.

Good point
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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:46:06 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

SirD: You appear to want to pick so many argumanets with other people. I mean, surely being an intelligent man you realized just what kind of response you were likely to get to this thread. And yet when you get it, you act angry, as if you surprised anyone disagrees with you. Why bother with all of that? Is arguing a part-time hobby of yours? It seems pointless, to me, in some ways. Why are you doing it?

Now suzie you have read enough of My post to know I do not put up with the accepted bs...

Ross
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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:46:38 AM

Twicehappy2x

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Is arguing a part-time hobby of yours? It seems pointless, to me, in some ways. Why are you doing it?

He misses the "Awaiting Approval" stamp on all his posts?

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:48:20 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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If I recall I did START this post right?

Thought so...hmmm

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RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be ... - 4/13/2007 4:49:34 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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found the post making reference to you if I am correct....

http://www.collarchat.com/m_428553/mpage_2/key_wack%252Cjob/tm.htm#430659

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