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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:47:20 AM

WhiplashSmile

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Well in terms of Age play I can do a scene where she pretends to be student (13-17) and I'm the teacher. Scenes like this I'm comfortable with doing. In terms of younger age play. It's a hard limit in my mind! I can't even begin to comprehend about thinking about babies or kids. Teenage Girls is the low as I go!!

But see you're focusing on the sexual aspects of ageplay...... try and think of the nonsexual lifestyle aspects.....

I was exchanging emails with one, that was into coloring books and stuff like that. Other things that were not sexual... Mmm.. I totally forgot about this side. Where she just wanted to sit in somebody's lap and be held, Non sexually speaking.. A lot of the Age play things without the sex. I guess Sex for her was to satifisy her ADULT body desires.. GReat point you made here! I was not even thinking about this...

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:48:44 AM

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Why is everyone assuming that I don't realize that throughout history and in different cultures it has been acceptable for young girls to be sexual partners?

It worries me when people make this argument, because it seems to be a justification.

It's NOT a justification, we're pointing out the INSTINCTS people have had for as long as there's been people.
We're trying to open up your heavily closed and locked mind to thoughts other than the ones you had before you got here.
That IS what you asked when you opened this thread isn't it.
I just don't get your mind is closed like a steel trap and you say you came here to get understanding & opinions.
Did you start this because you needed a dose of the Ms Superior attitude of my way's the only right way and you guys are all wrong today?
Just because it creeps you out does not mean it's not how the human attraction factor works in our lineage.
Just because in the past 50-60 years they decided it's not when you hit puberty that makes you and adult, but a number the government decided to assign on us does not mean our desires instantly follow the government.
I'm not interested in touching any one sexually or sensually that's not at least 5 years older than my oldest daughter who's 23.
I would creep me out to fuck someone who is at an age physically I could have been their Mom.
I don't think about nor am I attracted to UM's.
I do indeed enjoy everything from role playing I'm a baby, a young girl, my age, and a very old woman.
You may think I'm sick to enjoy this ADULT activity & from the looks of it you always will.
I can accept your firm in your convictions, but can't accept your hight and mighty purer than you attitude, nor the logic you apply in your answers as to why this is so different than other avenues of play.
As we all are beating a dead horse hoping you'll grow this is my last comment as you're not open enough to learn, grow, be logical, or accept some people have kinks you don't enjoy and they are still sane good people.
Good Luck to you and your narrow minded view of the world,
suzanne

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:50:54 AM

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I was exchanging emails with one, that was into coloring books and stuff like that. Other things that were not sexual... Mmm.. I totally forgot about this side. Where she just wanted to sit in somebody's lap and be held, Non sexually speaking.. A lot of the Age play things without the sex. I guess Sex for her was to satifisy her ADULT body desires.. GReat point you made here! I was not even thinking about this...

*smiles* See! That is what ageplay is ALL about for me! Living innocently! With curiosity! The ability to see magick with "fresh eyes" and wonder! It is beautiful and magickal in it's own right.... Not everything in this world needs to be sexual to be fun and fulfilling... *giggles*

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:51:18 AM

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Let's face it some people at times wish they had the simply kid life again, however they are adults. Age play might be a nice way to return back to those days.. of coloring books, popicles, toys, drawing, and playing kids games. However, the Adult human body still craves for sex. Perhaps this is another Angle that some people into Age play do. And it's not all about wanting to have sex with kids...

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:54:10 AM

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Let's face it some people at times wish they had the simply kid life again, however they are adults. Age play might be a nice way to return back to those days.. of coloring books, popicles, toys, drawing, and playing kids games. However, the Adult human body still craves for sex. Perhaps this is another Angle that some people into Age play do. And it's not all about wanting to have sex with kids...

Egggggggzakly!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 8:55:33 AM

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*smiles* See! That is what ageplay is ALL about for me! Living innocently! With curiosity! The ability to see magick with "fresh eyes" and wonder! It is beautiful and magickal in it's own right.... Not everything in this world needs to be sexual to be fun and fulfilling... *giggles*

I actually forgot about talking with this one girl.. she was in her late 20's or early 30's. She had a big thing about wanting to live like a Kid when she was home away from work and everything. I'm only sharing things from a womans perspective that she shared with me. I don't know about any Male perpectives.. perhaps to feel like they have a KID they can go shopping for, sit down and play games with, color with and do all the Parent like stuff.. However, these two people have to HAVE sex sometime right? Perhaps they have Sex more like two Adults would, and spend the rest of the time doing Daddy/daughter like things.. Ummm.... Break the Age play for sex.. Never really thought about it this way in depth before.. Interesting thought process going in my brain now.....

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:00:14 AM

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Hello, I have warning bells go off when I hear that word, age play, probably as I am a father. However what I do know about is rape play. Had two women in my live who were kidnapped and raped. They both somehow got relieve and sexual excitement from recreating the the rape. Not sure exactly their reasoning but it helped them and it was exciting to see there transformations while the scene progressed. Maybe it was having the knowledge that they were not really going to be hurt let them enjoy their, caveman kidnap the girl from the other village part of the gene pool.
Known child abuse victims who had the same desires, I been unwilling to role play with them probably my problem not theirs. Finally to the point: Really wonder why anyone but a molester would try to reenact age play either they have been guilty of pediphilla or on the verge of going there, run I say.

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:02:30 AM

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Let's face it some people at times wish they had the simply kid life again, however they are adults. Age play might be a nice way to return back to those days.. of coloring books, popicles, toys, drawing, and playing kids games. However, the Adult human body still craves for sex. Perhaps this is another Angle that some people into Age play do. And it's not all about wanting to have sex with kids...

Egggggggzakly!

The bitch is I was not thinking about this, because I was too caught up in the sexual aspects. Yeah Yeah Yeah! this is what happens when you get a thread full of Horn Dogs that Totally Love Sex... BDSM is about so much more besides sex..

I know there are times, when I wish I could go back to being a kid myself.. I guess for some Doms that never had children, or who's children have grown up and moved out.. It's a way to fill a missing hole in their lives. WOW....

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:03:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I actually forgot about talking with this one girl.. she was in her late 20's or early 30's. She had a big thing about wanting to live like a Kid when she was home away from work and everything. I'm only sharing things from a womans perspective that she shared with me. I don't know about any Male perpectives.. perhaps to feel like they have a KID they can go shopping for, sit down and play games with, color with and do all the Parent like stuff.. However, these two people have to HAVE sex sometime right? Perhaps they have Sex more like two Adults would, and spend the rest of the time doing Daddy/daughter like things.. Ummm.... Break the Age play for sex.. Never really thought about it this way in depth before.. Interesting thought process going in my brain now.....

*nods* Yep.... that is pretty much the way I live it..... Ageplay is not sexual to me... it is about being "lil" and lil ones don't do those things! I understand how it turns some people on and accept it! In fact the most "vanilla" and least sexual person I have ever met (an anti-sexualist, in fact) found diapers to be sexy! I'm not a DL (Diaper Lover) but understand why people like the comfort of them..... among so many other things. I was with a man once who said there was no sweeter thing in the world then holding a girl in his arms and looking into her eyes as he fed her a bottle. Then there is the fun in playing..... true playing..... learning, exploring, colouring, reading lil books, watching videos we grew up on!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:07:45 AM

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MMmmm... I think I just hit upon something in my last few posts. That Age play should not be looked at in sexual terms. Need to look at one wanting to take time out and live as a Kid would (without sex), and Another wanting to Be the Grown up father figure or whatever. Where as there is a AGE play relationship going on (non sexual)... However, when they both get together as Sex.. it's really more like two consenting adults would. In short they kind of suspend the Age play.. to Have Sex.. WOW... I think I get this in my mind now!!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:09:44 AM

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Yep yep yepperoozerz! I think you are getting it!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:16:20 AM

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Yep yep yepperoozerz! I think you are getting it!

Well Hell, this ain't so sick and twisted after all... All of us horny toads should be ashamed of ourselves! Wack Wack Wack!! Everybody's mind was in the Gutters..

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:24:54 AM

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Wonder if FukenTroll is going to come along and add the final Slurp to this one!!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:31:20 AM

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ok...this is very cool and why i'm here<or one of the reasons i'm here> i NEVER thought i would or even could change my mind about "age play" but i think what WhiplashSmile and tulipgoose said are very insightful points of view i had never thought of. I believe this is because i couldn't <or didnt know to> leave the sex out of it. i cant thankyou enough for the opportunity to look at this in a different light.

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 9:33:51 AM

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I know the differnce between adults attracted to adults, who play little and someone who wants a woman to play a minor to skirt illegal issues. I didn't say you orany one here was preying on any one. I am an ageplyer, you know that, because I told you when I told you how to avoid common baby bottle issues for a grown mouth.

I am also an animal persona, I didn't say any one who puts on a diaper is looking to traumatise someone. I said if people did things as a way to get past an illegal activity it's not healthy in my mind.

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Then dont engage in it. Wanting to have sex with animals is wrong in some peoples minds too, but people are still into puppy play. And Some people believe that anyone who can enjoy being whiped , beaten, degraded or humiliated need psychological help becasue it isnt healthy. No matter what you are into, there is going to be someone who believes enough therapy will help you see why its wrong.
The thing is, the ones who are seking out young looking women to play as if they are younger to fulfill a fantasy are the ones who are NOT preying on minors. Big deal, a guy (or my case a girl) puts someone in diapers and acts as if they are a baby for a while. I dont see what I am doing as preying on a child. I dont get a sexual kick out of our infantalism play. If someone does, then personaly I am all for them finding a willing adult partner who wil play to their fantasies and allow them to act what they want out... rather then repress it so long it becomes an obsession and eventualy leads to an actual crime.

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 11:29:06 AM

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I understand the dynamic of adultbaby and infantile senario's, it has nothing whatsoever to do with a sexual act or a kick I believe, more the nurturing aspect as a fantasy.

Many fantasies are instilled from the ages of 6 years old - 9 years old, sometimes younger, foot fetishists especially. I do not cater for AB as I would not have the patience lol or have no interest in it persay, yet understand and respect others enjoyment, and good for them!

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 11:39:07 AM

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I'm a very open minded person. I'm open to alot of things. But a guy has been telling me he wants me to pretend I'm 13 years old... and I just think thats way too bizarre and perverse. When I said this to him, he said I "don't understand age play".

I can understand playing the role of someone young and innocent. But I don't understand playing the role of a CHILD. I think that people into this, without any offense to anyone here, possibly have a problem.

What does everyone else think? Am I just ignorant or is there something very weird about age playing so young?

Some years ago I met a dominant through a submissive friend that admitted he could well be a pedophile, if not for using the lifestyle as an outlet for his dark desires. He only liked age play and his preference was “little girls.” This man was an ER physician in a local hospital. He said he never treated children of either sex, and stayed as far away from kids as possible. Yes, as a mother, I was squiggled out but had to admire that he was trying to stay away from kids.

Age play is not my thing either. If you stop to think about it, there are 'nilla people that think all of us are horrible, perverted, mentally sick people!

Just my 2 cents worth.

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 12:17:24 PM

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If one is using age play as an outlet so they dont commit a crime, thats jst not right. That person needs to go get proffesional help. I do not know all that much about age play, but personally if its being used as an outlit rethink it. other wise what ever works for you.

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 12:22:38 PM

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If one is using age play as an outlet so they dont commit a crime, thats jst not right. That person needs to go get proffesional help. I do not know all that much about age play, but personally if its being used as an outlit rethink it. other wise what ever works for you.

Sigh, it's so funny how clueless so many kinksters are about the fantasies and desires people REALLY HAVE and what they REALLY do to realize them in a good way. They'd run screaming...

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RE: Age play - what do you think? - 4/19/2007 12:36:53 PM

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Maybe the OP would consider the DSM IV's criteria for pedophilia.

As far as I know, sexual deviance is only considered to be a problem when it interferes with your life in a harmful way.

For example.. a person who fantasizes about prepubescent children to the point of obsession. Or somebody who feels that they can ONLY get aroused by children.

My comp isn't allowing me to cut and paste for some reason, but the OP can look it up, it's easy to find.

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