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Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:15:08 AM   
CanPleaseU2


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Status: offline 		One of the best ways to serve from a sexual point of view is to be able to give Oral Servitude on Demand.  It seems that the majority of dominants like this sort of sexual servitude. For those reading this that think that sex has nothing to do with Bdsm I appreciate your opinion.  However many believe that on the sexual side a submissive is there for that very purpose. Of course sexual servitude is not everything and there are many other aspects to do with slavery than this.
 
One such organisation that believes that a slave needs to be trained in this servitude is http://MystressWorld.com
I have recently come into contact with this site and have been very impressed with it.  There are no game players there and it is, I believe, a very good site relating to the training of dominants and slaves.
 
Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service?
Discuss Please
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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:25:22 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2

Should a dominant be demanding this service?


Why not? If it's what he or she wants and the sub/slave is willing...

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:26:53 AM   
szobras


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2

Should a dominant be demanding this service?


Why not? If it's what he or she wants and the sub/slave is willing...

Master Fire
I agree



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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:29:42 AM   
spankmepink11


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ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2

 Should a dominant be demanding this service?


Gosh i hope so...

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:31:25 AM   
jauntyone


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quote:

Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service?

Greetings
 
Master is entitled to demand anything from me that he wishes. That is why he is the Master and I am the slave
 
I wish you well
 
melissa

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:33:14 AM   
Suzykeu


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:33:53 AM   
PONYSEEKER


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Status: offline 		Why not?   Its the fastest way to shut em up!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:36:38 AM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2
One of the best ways to serve from a sexual point of view is to be able to give Oral Servitude on Demand.

I quite agree.
 
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Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service? Discuss Please

I think that it is appropriate to any relationship in which the Dominant and submissive engage in oral sex. I also think that any submissive who wants to serve this way should accept that some Dom/mes don't want this service, and leave them alone. As long as the relationship is sexual, there is no reason a dom/me should not demand this service.
I will, however, state that even in a sexual relationship, if the sub is always giving and never gets anything to balance it, it won't work out. That doesn't mean equal number of orgasms or sexual encounters for the sub. It does, however, mean that what the submissive gets out of the relationship needs to be worth it to the sub, or the sub won't stay. Whether that is BDSM scenes (other than giving oral sex), daily control, or anything else,  the dom/me should keep in mind what they are giving in exchange.

~E

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:56:26 AM   
kieth


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Status: offline 		It is a gift or honor the sub must earn.  Quite simple, it's pleasing your Dom and should not be viewed any other way.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 12:58:24 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		At least in my household this isn't limited to oral sex -- I can command anything at any time from Fox.

Note that I didn't use the word "demand" that implies I'm trying to enforce my power rather than exercise my authority.

In terms of sex, I've woken Fox up at 3am or so and said "orgasm now." The most he is allowed to do at that point is ask for a few minutes to wake up more so he can do a better job. In my opinion, a couple mintues for a better, more attentive sexual service VS right now sort of fumbled job is an easy choice.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 1:09:16 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I am the Mistress and he is the submissive, he does what I tell him to as long as it is within our negotiated limits. So yes I do demand oral sex and he drops to his knees and does as commanded.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 1:14:27 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		My mouth is his to use how he sees fit. The only exception is when something is physically wrong with my mouth like the last time I was with him. I had a tooth pulled and could do nothing but lick. If I had a sore throat or other problem I would hope that he would be understanding of that... so far he always has been understanding of physical impediments to sexually servicing him.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 1:22:06 PM   
litleone8620


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Status: offline 		Sure it's the dominants right to demand whatever he/she wishes, within the submissive's physical abilities, and willingness, of course.

i am a slave, therefore i do what the dominant tells me to do. If he tells me to perform oral sex on him, i'm going to. Simple as that.


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 1:25:28 PM   
OfHonestValue


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Status: offline 		I agree with what juliaoceania siad. Its a sub/slaves job to service there Dom/mes in what ever way possible. For me I enjoy doing oral servicing but thanks goodness my Dom is understading becuase I have braces and its well hard at times.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 1:54:18 PM   
MrRodgers


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Status: offline 		Why not the reverse perspective...oral servitude...by request ?

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:22:17 PM   
AAkasha


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"Oral sex on demand"?  I think plenty of pretty vanilla couples probably enjoy this also.  I know a lot of women that are happy to ask for oral when they want it, and many men love engaging in the act, so they are more than happy to drop everything on a whim to serve in this way.

To me, it becomes more about femdom and my pleasure when it also includes bending his will (for some men, this is hard - after all, they want to do it all the time, just ask!), putting them in an uncomfortable position, using it as part of teasing & denial, combining it with face sitting or smothering, etc.  I definitely recognize that there's "vanilla" oral worship and "femdom" oral worship.

I use a tool called a Pussy Collar to help enhance my experience with my sub when I am really wanting the rush of control. It locks his collars to my thighs and allows me complete control of his face, in essence.  I can open my legs wide and it presses him up against my pussy - I have strong thighs, so he isn't going anywhere until I am done.  Combine that with hair pulling, etc. and it's a much more intense and enhanced experience than just "Come here and worship my pussy, I feel like having an orgasm."

And don't get me started about facesitting and smothering or tease & denial, hehe....

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:28:14 PM   
myobedience


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2
 
Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service?
Discuss Please


If I am cleaning the toilet, I am doubltful Sir will slap his cock in my face and demand I deepthroat it....  I could see him stroking his cock and asking me if I am done....

If I am making bread, I am doubltful Sir will demand I drop the flour and take his cock in my floured hands....but then again, he is the kind to get right in there himself and as we had a  good time of doing together, the end result would be a good kitchen scene.

He might demand I suck while he drives, but I am doubtfull he would ask me to suck when all made up and going to mom's for dinner...after all, he knows my makeup is greatly wasted with my enjoyment of his cock. 

If I am sitting here and reading email and just posting .... watching TV, stringing a bracelet, reading a book..... etc....his demand is my will.  

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:29:26 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Gee, a guy who wants blow jobs on demand.  Now there's an original thought.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:31:12 PM   
Aslanemperor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2

One of the best ways to serve from a sexual point of view is to be able to give Oral Servitude on Demand.  It seems that the majority of dominants like this sort of sexual servitude. For those reading this that think that sex has nothing to do with Bdsm I appreciate your opinion.  However many believe that on the sexual side a submissive is there for that very purpose. Of course sexual servitude is not everything and there are many other aspects to do with slavery than this.
 
One such organisation that believes that a slave needs to be trained in this servitude is http://MystressWorld.com
I have recently come into contact with this site and have been very impressed with it.  There are no game players there and it is, I believe, a very good site relating to the training of dominants and slaves.
 
Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service?
Discuss Please

I think that oral sex is just one aspect of all the things a slave can be expected to do.  I don't see why a slave shouldn't want this under normal circumstances.  The only time I've been ok with a slave not giving it has been an instance where said slave was raped shortly before coming to my service and while she was willing, she would have flashbacks and by the time she was getting going, she would be sobbing because the rapist forced her to do that.  I saw that it was mentally harmful to her and I ceased trying to get her to do it.
However, that was the exception to the rule.  Generally, a sub should be willing to do whatever her master says.  This is precisely why it's important to find a master who is interested in the same things you are, this way it'll be rare if you are ordered to do something you are uncomfortable with.
In a proper BDSM Arrangement, you will do some things that you are uncomfortable with because after all, part of your training is to help you become more then you where at first, but you must be careful to choose a master who appreciates your limits and probably has those same limits.  This way you can do anything He/She says and not worry that they will push you to far.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:33:50 PM   
myobedience


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Status: offline 		As to the website you found so appealing..... sorry, I cant get past the "great cyberchase where women reign supreme" ...............
What is that all about.... the cyberchase??  Is that what you find to be so realistic and enjoyable.....sorry cant suck a cock through the flat screen.... if you can lick pussy though the screen....great for you !!

Give me the real deal and I am real deal for him.

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