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RE: pathetic or courageous ?? - 4/23/2007 11:40:55 AM

Celeste43

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I call it silly, because, when it comes down to it, what can they REALLY do to enforce it? Are they going to track down their home address through the ISP and then show up at their front door, which may be halfway around the world to do....what? Punch them out?

I still think the subs who receive email they don't want need to put on their big-girl panties and just delete and block.

It isn't a matter of deleting and blocking creepy emails. By putting this line on a profile, I don't get them. They leave me feeling soiled and creeped out. Yes I get over it by why bother having to go through this endlessly if one simple line serves to prevent them? The creeps don't write him and they stop writing me. Easy solution.

As far as people writing to comment of forum posts, especially other subs, most of them understand why I have this and write me privately anyway with a title on the email that tells me ahead of time it's a forum comment.

Added: Oh yeah, it wasn't his idea for me to add this, it was mine. He said fine by him. For us it isn't control, but a way to make my life easier that involves no work on his part at all.

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RE: pathetic or courageous ?? - 4/25/2007 10:00:15 AM

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Ok if it's done soley to isolate then not good, I guess if both people want it that way that's them:)

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RE: pathetic or courageous ?? - 4/25/2007 10:33:00 AM

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I think they have it all wrong. The person whom is contacting them is most likely free/unowned. It is not their job to get permission from someone who does not have any say so over their body. It is that slave/subs job to recieve permission for further interaction with the person contacting them

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RE: pathetic or courageous ?? - 4/25/2007 10:51:00 AM

starshineowned

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Greetings..~smiles~

I don't seem to come up with any thoughts about a profile that states that ..other than.."if I wish to speak with that sub or slave then I'll ask permission from their owner first."

As a slave I am property. That is just how our dynamic is. One would not expect another to ask the owners couch if it's okay to sit on it but rather ask the owner of the couch. One would not expect to ask a owners dog if he's okay with talking and playing to him but rather ask the owner of the dog if it's okay to talk and play with the dog.

Many people enter into the depths of slavery because they no longer wish to be an equal, free thinking being out in this big bad world. It isn't necessarily a situation of them "not being able" to handle their own affairs but rather no longer having a desire to deal with those affairs because it creates a automatic element of "control" in their lives that they do not wish, and that has left them always feeling something out of whack and not right for the type of person they are.

If a Dominant can't have the curtesy or balls as is the case to speak with another Dominant first giving them some respect then probably not a Dominant that i'd care to speak with anyways. Whats it going to hurt? If they only wanted to talk to the sub to make a new friend ..then whats the harm of doubling that number by speaking to the Dominant of the sub first?

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