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AAkasha -> Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 1:00:46 PM)
We all complain about the number of posts from subs that are complaining about their inability to find a partner, slamming "financial domiation" or uncreatively asking for femdom opinions on a variety of sexual acts, with little or no thought put into it or explaining the reasons for asking. What are some posts femdoms would love to see submissive men sharing? What questions would we like to see asked that would generate interesting, provocative discussions? What would be a very sexy "confession"? Can you think of a topic or post a submissive might write that would be different from the norm, show insight into his character and charisma, and make you go "hmmm...." after you read it -- and also push a few of your hot buttons? Things that come to mind for me are about limits they had that dissolved over time, and how the relationship evolved into that point. Or, how they process and deal with "vulnerability" in a BDSM relationship. Or, the struggle between pride/ego and humility in serving. Or, how does "fear" in normal situations compare to "fear" that creates an erotic rush in a bdsm context. I could go on and on. Submissive men that post thought provoking questions (posed toward other sub men - that's something rarely done here! The sharing of their experiences for comparison) could probably gain valuable insight, and also show something of their innner workings (on an emotional, psychological, sensual level - not just the blatant sexual stuff) to potential partners. Akasha

pixelslave -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 1:22:06 PM)
AAkasha, Excellent & very intriguing post! I look forward to seeing the responses you receive from the ladies to this thread. [:D] It has never occurred to me before that the Mistresses in this forum would like to see threads initiated by submissives directed toward other submissive men and/or women (who serve Mistresses) on topics involving sharing their experiences & growth on their journeys into their lives of submission. Promoting those kinds of discussions would indeed seem to create enlightening discussions of interest to all. [&:] Thank you for posting these wonderfully worded questions to the femdoms of this forum! [:)] - pixel

Red82 -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 1:22:57 PM)
I love it. This will give me some food for thought for any future threads i may start.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 2:15:16 PM)
Okay!!! Please remember that I post with the view that I seek a slave and the M/s style of relationship. I will pick out, particularly, AAkasha's reference to struggles with the male pride/ego/humility in serving, and expand it to include the difficulties males have with moving away from the traditional societal norms. Attitudes that are ingrained from birth. How do you overcome that? How hard was it to succeed in accepting your need to submit to a special woman in *every single way there is*. How did you work your way through letting go and trusting that the FemDom you have chosen is intelligent and perfectly capable of making the final decisions. That it is okay for her to be "the man of the house" the one who wears the pants", with no recourse or ability to do more than have a discssion about your opinions or add your knowledge to the mix, but know that you might be overridden and that is just the way it is. I see this discussion often happening with female submissives, but I do not see it from males. I often wonder if this because a female as the submissive in a relationship is more traditional and many of those factors are already in place. Therefore, when they find the right Dom, is is not as difficult to slip into a D/s or M/s relationship that might be a bit more strict than the norm these days, but is certainly much more socially acceptable and not, in the same way, threatening to their femininity. So how about the threat to your masulinity?

Stranger1 -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 2:31:39 PM)
hmm......... How about a few saying what they have to offer, rather than WANT? Another good one might be about what they ADMIRE-rather than go ballistic over. No one likes a whiner.

MstrssPassion -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 2:53:13 PM)
maybe a few can chime in about the overwhelming number of *real* people they've been meeting lately

MsBearlee -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 3:06:45 PM)
I have read several profiles of men looking for relationships. I like that. Sure…profiles HERE will include BDSM and aspects of D/s or M/s. For me…and yes, I realize this is NOT for everybody…this is a relationship thing; not just a sexual thing. I am overly tired of “Will you tie me tight?” and “Can I be your toilet?” I like those who post questions regarding how to develop their submissiveness or questions about service and who likes it. I like men who post their delight in women’s feet or how much they like to bath a woman or wash her hair. Confident men who want to follow are some of the strongest creatures I’ve ever known. What it must take for them to acknowledge such feelings in our society. I like threads from men about enjoying kinky sex as a somewhat passive partner; aspects of anal sex, CBT, nipple play. This stuff is sort of contrary to how we’re raised…so I like it when men take it out of the closet, so to speak. There is a thread going on now about learning to swallow cum…which I think was started by a man; I found it intriguing and applaud the men who participated. The sexiest men I’ve known (Dom or sub) are men who enjoy the taste of themselves. B

thetammyjo -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 3:34:51 PM)
I'd be interested in seeing threads that discuss how a slave or sub balances the mundane needs of their life and their need to be themselves with submission to or service to another person. I know this is a struggle for Fox at times. I don't expect it will ever completely disappear any more than the struggle I often have been roles and taking care of myself will disappear.

cloudboy -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 3:57:50 PM)
I think two things are in play here: 1. Malesubs in relationships that are working don't post about their experiences in the same way femsubs do. 2. Malesubs in working relationships who have challenges tend to keep them private. --------- As for me, the interesting stuff you want to hear --- I tend to reserve that for PMs to others I trust and have some rapport with on the MB. I agree, tho, that we could try to come up with some better material.

pollux -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 4:08:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Submissive men that post thought provoking questions (posed toward other sub men - that's something rarely done here! That's cuz we're too busy over on the double-secret male sub NO DOMMES ALLOWED message board talking about y'all behind your backs. [;)]

MsBearlee -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 7:30:34 PM)
Spews water all over monitor, keyboard, desk...... DAMMIT! (OMG...that was funny!!!)

Aneirin -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 8:22:48 PM)
Well,a reply from a potential sub,I have posted what to others might seem as whinning,my recent post on 'Tribute'.I know what I seek,but through that post I learned a lot,more than I originally thought.That post yielded interest from others,whom I am now in contact with,It is only I feel by posting questions,whinning sometimes, that we may learn more about each other in this vast and varied community.Oppinions held can be modified,but you have to ask and be open to others.

joyinslavery -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 10:18:41 PM)
It's really NOT so special. Once we (all) realize that, we're free.

MaamJay -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 10:31:13 PM)
Interesting thread! I would love to see more posts from male subs explaining how they came to know this of themselves, as well as how they deal with it in today's society. I would also like to see more of them consider whether it fits with the notion of chivalry, in which submission to one's Queen is definitely NOT a show of weakness but of strength and a desire to defend Her. (Have to say pixel, love that tagline of yours! Shame you are so far away! How's your horse? wink). I would also like to see some share their strengths and weaknesses, their trials and their triumphs. I think cloudboy was spot on with what he said, but with a concerted effort, that could be changed. Come on guys, get brave, get vulnerable and open up your hearts! Maam Jay

joyinslavery -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 10:37:44 PM)
You know what...I DO want to be brave, vulnerable and open up my heart to countless strangers! Stand by! Coming right up! Seriously dude.

MaamJay -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 10:43:20 PM)
Yeah there's one in every pack who takes something to the ridiculous! No, I'm not suggesting you have to lay yourself entirely bare about things that should be kept private, but surely you could open the door a chink to some of your ideas! Femsubs do it all the time and for Me, it's a sign of strength and willingness to learn and grow that malesubs could emulate to their betterment. Maam Jay

joyinslavery -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 10:46:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaamJay Yeah there's one in every pack who takes something to the ridiculous! Maam Jay Hi. Yes. Spend any small amount of time here and I'm sure you'll find me leading the pack of fools (it's a group of one). It's what I do.

LadyIce -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 11:07:56 PM)
I would love to hear what the submissives have to offer their Dominants, besides their desire to submit. What are they bringing to the table?

joyinslavery -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/27/2007 11:10:41 PM)
Other than body and mind? What else is there? I'd love to know.

LadyPact -> RE: Posts you'd love to see from male subs (4/28/2007 6:06:00 AM)
Excellent thread. Do you have all day? Laughs Positve experiences on all sorts of subjects. Progression of the journey. Connections that have been made. Limits that have been conquered. Trust that is growing. Joys in serving. New experiences. Devotion in serving. Hopes. Fears. Struggles. Relationship events. Characteristics of (potential) One. Dreams. What's better today than it was yesterday. Since W/we're on the subject, some of the other side. I get bored of hearing the complaining. The comments about tribute. The negativity. The wanking material. The demands. The petty disagreements amongst people posting. The lack of imagination.

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