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Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 5:56:19 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		What's with this fashion of adressing submissives AT THE THIRD PERSON???

It fucks me right off. There's something about it that's so pathetically pompous it would have me in fits of hilarity... if only it wasn't SO annoying!

I quote *clears her throat*:

"Wishing this one was closer to Me so i could fill your every hole" (that sorry bastard couldn't even get it together to make the conjunction between the third person and the second person of the singular, fnar fnar);

"she will crawl to me" - no comment;

"What a shame this one isn't near me for my enjoyment" (!!!).

Ad infinitum.

Where the hell does that stupid syntax stem from? It absolutely sucks, guys, so just don't do it? Purrrleeeeezzze? I'll be ever so grateful not to find inadequately formulated blurb in my littertray.

Ta very much!

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 6:01:51 AM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		It is important for a lot of people for a variety of reasons. One of those being that using third person speak forces the sub/slave into a position of objectification. That is just one reason out of many.

It isn't about wannabes, it is a form of communication that shows in text as well as speech the status of a slave.. Master.. whomever is using it.

It is common within the online world, and many even use it in their RL world.
Admittedly it drives me bonkers but I do understand why it is used. I'd rather read third person than try and wade through E/everyone typing with slashes!

edited for clarity

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 6:05:28 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Hear my cry though: these people do it to me ASSUMING it's okay with me. See what I mean? It doesn't put ME in a state of objectification. It makes me laugh (then I suffer for the English language). *twitch, twitch*

The point of a place like this website is tolerance, admittedly, but come on... some things are intolerable: crap grammar and prejudiced morons

(edited for crap grammar)


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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 7:19:10 AM   
Llyren


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Status: offline 		Preach it, sister!!

I've only had one person send me a note referring to me in third person.  And no, I didn't dignify it with a reply.  I tried to explain to one fellow who wrote me a very nice note, but kept using the capslash thing that I really could not abide such an abuse of capitalization.  He kept doing it, so I stopped responding. 

I know, I know.  They figure if they spew their nonsense wide enough, there will be some dimwit who will respond and be grateful for -any- attention.  Pity there isn't a 'grammar' filter, that will send any note using capslash, or 'u' for 'you' into the bulk mail folder.




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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 7:41:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		i had a "dom" (note the small d) who kept calling me "his girl" in his messages before he was blocked.  i don't know what made him assume that i was his girl (men should learn how to read profiles too) however when he said i should be beat for my lack of respect for him - that's when i let him have it.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 8:03:14 AM   
jayded34


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Status: offline 		i recently received an email that stated and i quote "Hello girl flesh"  it was the very first thing that i read from this person!!!!

can anyone else say "BLOCKED AND TRASHED!!"

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 8:15:12 AM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		They are quite amusing at times; especially if you answer them back like a simpering 3 year old and tell them off...it usually takes them days before they realize they have been insulted

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 8:30:02 AM   
Questingbear


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Status: offline 		You know, I never got this either.  And apparently, from a Dom that's saying something.  To be submissive, or even Dominant is about expressing identity against a culture that tells you that you're wrong.  To immediately attempt to take away someone's identity (without knowing if they want you to or not), just seems self defeating.

To some degree, isn't assuming that all of you that have so far posted want to be immediately objectified like a stranger in a mall walking up to me and offering me her collar? (and yes...I would run)

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 8:50:47 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		'Girl flesh'?!!! WTF? That's a riot! Give me his name, I demand to know who it was! So I can start a campaign of firm and fair retribution

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 8:53:38 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Ta babes: another thing. Ever noticed how 'they' spell the word 'grammer'? Oooh it makes me so, so angry I could just about put them over my lap and spank their naughty bottoms.



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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:08:13 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		It doesn't bother me if it's something they want to do on their own.  When they force others to play their game, I find it distracting and somewhat rude.  I've made more than several people angry for not playing that game.  However, it's not my game.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:13:11 AM   
Lynae78


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Status: offline 		sometimes too, a person can get so used to a certain way of writing/speaking that it is hard to get out of it.speaking of those who can't read.....  I had this one guy from Georgia write to me, asking if I wanted oral. when I responded back that I wasn't interested in people outside of Michigan, he wrote back asking if I liked anal. Wrote back to him with 1 word: blocked. then I did just that.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:13:49 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Thank you NakedOnMyChain. You managed to synthetise my feelings into one clear articulated post. Now I want to sleep with your brain *blush*  



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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:38:31 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		It puts the lotion on or it gets the hose again.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:44:32 AM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: domiguy
It puts the lotion on or it gets the hose again.
 



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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 9:45:15 AM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		Greetings domiguy,

damn, there are times i just love you!

winks ~ fairer

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 10:14:12 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Thank you NakedOnMyChain. You managed to synthetise my feelings into one clear articulated post. Now I want to sleep with your brain *blush*  


The brain is willing, but the flesh is weak. 

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 10:52:31 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		GASP, that sounded like the serial crossdressing killer in 'Violence of the Prams'.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 11:42:28 AM   
bliss1


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Status: offline 		My favorite was some (cough) Master cyper slapped me because I didn't know my place - hell I didn't even know HIM!

So I lowered my eyes and crawled to him and then gave his nuts a cyber crack with my head.

Men who think they can train you to their way without knowing anything about you drive me to my irish ends.

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RE: Pompous Dom wannabees! - 5/4/2007 11:43:58 AM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bliss1

My favorite was some (cough) Master cyper slapped me because I didn't know my place - hell I didn't even know HIM!

So I lowered my eyes and crawled to him and then gave his nuts a cyber crack with my head.

Men who think they can train you to their way without knowing anything about you drive me to my irish ends.

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