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NihilusZero -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 7:31:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: subbisherri

If your pic shows clearly that you're taking it OF yourself, BY yourself (eg, the flash shows in the bathroom mirror), then I have to wonder why you can't find someone to take a photo of you. Maybe there's a good reason, but it still raises a flag in my mind.

I took my avatar photo OF myself, BY myself. Even more frighteningly, I did all the post-production BY myself also!
[img]http://www.robguimaraes.com/s/wow.gif[/img]

And, if your suggestion is that it indicates the people perhaps live alone...isn't that the entire reason why many would be looking for partners?





NihilusZero -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 7:34:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: subbisherri

3. Would you keep your sunglasses on? Then maybe take them off in your pic.

*looks over at the author's avatar*

Irony Meter™ v2.0.1 broken.




WyldHrt -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 7:48:56 PM)

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*looks over at the author's avatar*

Irony Meter™ v2.0.1 broken.

10 points [:D]
*ducks*




sunshinemiss -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 7:54:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: subbisherri

If your pic shows clearly that you're taking it OF yourself, BY yourself (eg, the flash shows in the bathroom mirror), then I have to wonder why you can't find someone to take a photo of you. Maybe there's a good reason, but it still raises a flag in my mind.

I took my avatar photo OF myself, BY myself. Even more frighteningly, I did all the post-production BY myself also!
[image]http://www.robguimaraes.com/s/wow.gif[/image]

And, if your suggestion is that it indicates the people perhaps live alone...isn't that the entire reason why many would be looking for partners?




That shot is hot.




NihilusZero -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 8:55:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

That shot is hot.

[img]http://www.renegadeforums.com/images/smiley_icons/blush.gif[/img] [img]http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y220/whooshorg/smilies/feel/toothy.gif[/img]




NihilusZero -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 8:57:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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*looks over at the author's avatar*

Irony Meter™ v2.0.1 broken.

10 points [:D]
*ducks*

[img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_v3nHnftACBk/SDxcbCx7n1I/AAAAAAAAAqA/wahxoPkv9HI/s200/tongue%2Bsmiley.bmp[/img] [:D]




AquaticSub -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 10:46:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterNyteStar

First of all I am not hear "looking" for anyone. I come here to visit with friends. I already have a sub and am not looking for anyone else. 98% of the time when I do write to someone its in response to something that they have written asking people opinions. I read profiles because they are amusing and entertaining. The things I mentioned in here are things I read on numerous profiles. Personally I feel no need to impress anyone on here.

So? You still made a post regarding how doms and sub message each other on here and I responded to it. You act like it's an insult that you might still be looking.
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The facts are simple, the majority of people on here LIE, men and women alike.

That's certainly an opinion though it's not one I've found to be true of those I've met up with. You are free to believe I'm lying of course.
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I do not now, nor have I ever expected any one to submit to me if they are not mine. I do however expect courtesy. No matter what any person says there is always a reason to be respectful and courteous.

You expect courtesy. So do we. Shocking how that works.




justagirlinzh -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/12/2009 11:21:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: newgirl83

Ya its a bunch of Bullshit if you ask me and btw the owner of this site is a real fuckin piece of work. He cant even control the spam and bullshit that goes on here?! Whats his wife got his balls tied up and hes her little bitch or something? Ya doesnt make sense. Collar me sucks some major fuckin ass!! Thats all I have to say!!

Ask for a refund.

Oh, wait...




Aileen1968 -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 1:12:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: subbisherri

NihilusZero (et al), maybe I should clarify:

If your pic shows clearly that you're taking it OF yourself, BY yourself (eg, the flash shows in the bathroom mirror), then I have to wonder why you can't find someone to take a photo of you. Maybe there's a good reason, but it still raises a flag in my mind.

ss


Oh hell...all of my pics are self portraits. I am such a fake.




porcelain20 -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 3:24:41 AM)

I think the title of this thread should be changed to "properly" instead of "correctly" not everyone wants to be proper and correct can mean different things to ppl in this situation.

But to correctly introduce yourself? Just let the sub know some of your interests and why you think you and her would be a match. What attracted you to the profile? Also, ask a question....I wouldn't know what to say if you said...My name is Average Joe..I see that you are very pretty and live near me. I'm looking for a submissive who enjoys playing pool and poker. Inside my home, I would like my sub to be interested in the 1950's household and I enjoy giving pain. I see that you enjoy these things so I thought I would email you.

I would answer that but it may take me a day or two. If you want a quicker response. Think of a question after you post something like that.




Acer49 -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 7:45:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: newgirl83

Ya its a bunch of Bullshit if you ask me and btw the owner of this site is a real fuckin piece of work. He cant even control the spam and bullshit that goes on here?! Whats his wife got his balls tied up and hes her little bitch or something? Ya doesnt make sense. Collar me sucks some major fuckin ass!! Thats all I have to say!!


Be careful, your head is going to explode if you keep this up. Simply click and delete the spam. Let me remind you that there is no fee for this site so what makes you think you are entitled to anything? to make demands? or have expectations? Collarme is a website, therefore it does not have the ability to "suck" anything. It is the people who use it who ultimately will make it or break it. Making disparaging remarks about the owner(s) is really not going to help in any way and will only display you in a bad light




rockspider -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 10:37:37 AM)

Amusing. It is supposed to be a forum and dating site for the people who thinks and lives out of the box. However the postings really suggest everybody more intend upon inventing rules and regulations for how to speak to, act to and how to live. To quote good old Johnny Cash. I just don't get all that shit man. I do it the way i wanna do it, and the way you want it done. (Foolsom Prison) Where after the roof lifted on the audience and the party began. Personally i enjoy reading the postings. If i find one either positiv or negativ interesting i look up the person profile. I will then, if i would like some contact with the person. I normally send a short note to that person related to the subject in hand. It is nice if it gets a response. I sure don't sit and cry if it don't. I presume if they do find it interesting or aprobiate they look up my profile which do contain the information i choose to reveal at this time. The photograph is of course not taken by me, but rather by the most wonderfull, sweet and pretty princess to walk this earth ever. I have known her for 14 years and she is the absolute number one. If a woman should come in to my life she also would have to understand that it will never change.
I see these messages as no more than if i try to strike up a conversation with somebody in real life. I guess that you really have to do it hundreds of time before you, if ever, find one you click with.
I did spend quite some time old god old Yahoo. I did find the chatrooms really amusing. The scammers which hit you at a rate of at least one every five minutes. The fakers who was there for all kind of strange reasons. The golddiggers who desperately was looking for somebody to rescue them from their dreadfull life in countries like Phillipines, Thailand and many more. Also the genuines which i meet and a very few select i stil maintain contact with. Funny enough more males than the solitary female from that time. Well in five years it did come to 3 rl contacts where the two fissled out after one or two meetings. The last who i still maintain contact with was really a question of two people who really do enjoy each others company but couldn't overcome the obstacles related to LDR, and neither could really see a real future in the others country.
The males the contact has become sporadic as we really only write when we have something to say to each other. Only one did i ever break bread with.
The internet has given us the opportunity to interact with people globally. It is nice to speak to people all over the world and a great way to find and maintain friends in. However for actual dating the hands on approach is still the numero uno concept.




DesFIP -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 1:53:45 PM)

Look nytestar, I may be submissive but I'm not your submissive so I don't give a damn what you think.
The reason we don't answer emails from strange men? Because the odds are when we say thanks but no thanks they will respond just like you with whining, and claiming we're not twue submittives and then end just the way you ended your rant, that they wouldn't want us anyway.

We get enough of this shite on the damn boards that we don't need to try to get it in our inboxes as well.

Men, or boys, like yourself whine and throw tantrums when rejected. Just like you did. And sometimes add to the tantrum with egregious insults and threats, none of which are wanted or appreciated.




JBGolden -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 2:42:55 PM)

Well, I'm pretty much a newbie to this place.. But the way I see it I'd have to start off respectfully. If I'm to expect somebody to respect me enough to submit to me then I very well can't treat them like crap now can I?




AlexandraLynch -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 2:57:54 PM)

Exactly true whatever your gender, I feel. Not that I have anything against treating someone like crap when we both enjoy it, but I like to get the negotiations handled in a respectful manner up to that point. I always respect submissives. It takes strength to submit, and courage, and trust needs to be built, and that process can't be rushed.

(why am I here? Cause I got stood up tonight. Mark another one off....sigh...)




rockspider -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 3:59:31 PM)

Well I for many years ago did go to a course on the Damelin School Of Management taking a course in sales management. The course was an absolute rip off and really was of no use in my further carrier. However I do remember one lecturer actually telling us how to sell a product which the majority of people knows and have an intense dislike to. I feel that many people who actually whine over the "Kneel bitch", sending cockshots and similar offerings haven't really thought out what is going on. When doing door to door sales of something like Encyclopedia Britannica it is not a question of delivering a great sales pitch which sells. Most people who interact with will slam the door in your face or maybe even listen to the point where it really dawns on them that you are from that company. However there is like 1 % of the people who really do want a set so the trick for success is to find them. What you do is as fast as possible tells who you are and be prepared for the rejection in like 99 % of the cases. The more people you see, the bigger the chances of nailing that elusive last percent. If you do read the profiles you will actually see that some woman (and men) welcomes this kind of approach. Most of those of course happens to be fake, but there might be a few genuine in between. Besides any profile is really only what the person feels at the moment it is penned. So slamming of 200 - 300 e mails a day, not giving a damn, that so many dislikes it, is perfectly all right in this persons mind. And maybe on occasion he does get a hit. Well it is just a rewrite of the above mentioned sales method.
Just as most females dislike being sent a cockshot, neither do I have a lot of respect for the countless females who on their profile just shows a close up of their cunt. Well if that is all you got to show and you are happy to be considered just a cunt, for my sake no alarm, but neither expect any respect from my side.
To the ranting and raving lesbian brigade who seem to love writing in capital letters “No Men”. Well CM have an excellent filter choice who can be set to stop any incoming mail from males. Why the fuck, don’t you use it and stop your whining. You do seem just as pathetic, as the dickheads mailing you.
Finally, to the African scammers. Firstly at least do your homework. It is rather pitiful getting a message from the gorgeous chick who seem to live in a town who is in another country. Also at least learn to spell the city or country which you fake to come from. Another dead give a way is the white chick from Ghana, Nigeria or neighboring countries. Such a girl, have the pick of piles of suitors in the very small expat communities there, so the mere thought of going on a dating site would be ridicules. Also when attaching your cut and paste pictures to them from fashion magazines, do cut out the names like Vogue, as I saw in one. Vogue featured photo models living in those countries can probably be counted on one finger. The moment they achieve that, they are of to better pastures.
Well, rant over, i am calm again [sm=club.gif]




sunshinemiss -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 4:11:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JBGolden

Well, I'm pretty much a newbie to this place.. But the way I see it I'd have to start off respectfully. If I'm to expect somebody to respect me enough to submit to me then I very well can't treat them like crap now can I?


I think I'm in love.




DesFIP -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 5:06:20 PM)

Lust, sunny one. That shot of him in a tux is HOT!!!!!




JBGolden -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 5:53:32 PM)

Hahaha, well, you fine ladies sure do know how to make a fellow feel appreciated. [:)]




DesFIP -> RE: How to correctly email a female sub on CM (11/13/2009 5:56:01 PM)

JB, having just read your profile, I take it back. Love is correct. You are just really sweet and nice and I'm sure you'll find someone who can appreciate you properly.




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