Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt Is this something you would ever do with your s type, or allow to be done to you (f you are the s type) Why and/or why not? If this seems okay with you, what kind of restraints would you use/allow to be used? What kind of safety measures (if any) would you have any place? If you caged someone or agreed to be caged and left alone, please give us details of the circumstances (size of cage, safety measures, etc). I have my own strong opinions on this subject, which I will post at some point this evening, but I would like to get others' thoughts first, if you please. No, I don't leave her alone while she's tied up - beyond the need to fetch something or use the bathroom etc. We're talking maybe a minute or two tops, here. And I make it a point to tell her that she'll be alone for that little bit and check back in when I return, esp if she's blindfolded as well.... Odd about blindfolds, actually...! I mean I'm well aware that depriving one sense heightens others and that she'd obviously feel the vibration of footsteps returning etc, but for some reason I feel more obliged to inform her that she's no longer alone. But I digress.... For me, at least half the point of tying her up is so that I can soak up her utter helplessness. And vulnerability, too, which is why I don't waste bondage time and trouble on a clothed sub. And being a typically visual orientated male, I need to be in the same room to enjoy what I enjoy re bondage. I don't have cages nor am I motivated to want one but if we're talking about a miniature prison cell where an unbound sub can move relatively freely within it, then I'd probably be inclined to relax my guard a little. And maybe allow her an emergency cell phone within her reach, mostly in case something happened to me. But I hate hypotheticals (cages). Bondage is about physically controlling her and I *need* to be there to enjoy that aspect of my D/s. Focus.
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