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ORIGINAL: leadership527

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins
i was hoping for simple enlightenment. instead you bring comparisons and things into this that have no relivence.

You were hoping to enlighten me. That's not exactly the same as hoping for enlightenment. When you failed, you resorted to dogma in the face of my analytical and scientific approach. Formal Risk Management is in fact a real field of study. I suggest you research it.

This reminds me of doing risk management at work. I used to laugh and say, "You know, we could fully secure our enterprise if we cut all the lines in and out of the buildings, fired all the employees, and poured concrete over all the structures. At that point security would be 100% but we wouldn't actually be producing any product."

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Is this something you would ever do with your s type, or allow to be done to you (f you are the s type)

Why and/or why not?

If this seems okay with you, what kind of restraints would you use/allow to be used? What kind of safety measures (if any) would you have any place?

If you caged someone or agreed to be caged and left alone, please give us details of the circumstances (size of cage, safety measures, etc).

I have my own strong opinions on this subject, which I will post at some point this evening, but I would like to get others' thoughts first, if you please.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

So I'm not looking for the "one true way" rule here, more others perspectives and their thoughts on why or why not this is something they would do.

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

So I'm not looking for the "one true way" rule here, more others perspectives and their thoughts on why or why not this is something they would do.

You know why this question hurts my cranium? First of all, it's hypothetical and most respondents would never be in this position for the duration the original thread noted. Secondly,.even if he did it for a time, so what? And yes i'm saying it. Because i sincerely and truly believe that if he put me in that position he's already worked out the what if's and every other possibility that could be hazardous to my health. In short, he's got this and me. What am i worried about?

And another thing, if i spent this much energy conjuring up things that couldn't possibly befall me in any measure i'd probably leave no room for Him, His Will, or that dandy process of enslavement. In fact, i wonder how on earth you can possibly be enslaved with this much gibberish floating around the noggin'.

But that's just one girl's well caffeinated opinion. As you note, things change and it's all good when that happens. If you're in the right hands.

Namaste,

~porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

*fast reply*
So you find yourself with the most safe and sane dom on the planet. He accounts for every catastrophe that could ever occur.
He's bound you perfectly...no pinching or screaming shoulders. Just enough wiggle room without the possibility to escape.
Then he sits back to admire his work....and drops dead of a heart attack.
Different intention. Same outcome.

A lot of what we do is risky. I knew that going into this relationship. I can't pick and choose what I decide to trust him in. It's all or nothing.
If he decided to bind me and go play poker then I'd deal with it.
There are much greater odds that he'd have to give me a good shoulder massage over poking my charred corpse with a stick at the end of the night.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I know a girl that almost died after giving me a blow job.

Seems my ejaculate had gone bad.

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I would just be annoyed because as soon as I'm bound, my nose gets itchy.
Who would scratch it for me?????

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Much ado about nothing. Im really surprised at the reactions. You would think be reading some of the posts being bound and left alone is almost as bad as japans minor power shortage issue. jeez ppl get a grip sure sure lots of terribly things "could" happen when left alone. I mean Russia could invade your street...
The cops could knock down the wrong door see you trussed up. Hell the damn sky could fall... REALLY

Sounds like some of you folks need to get a grip on REALITY!!!

BadOne

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I would just be annoyed because as soon as I'm bound, my nose gets itchy.
Who would scratch it for me?????

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Is this something you would ever do with your s type, or allow to be done to you (f you are the s type)

Why and/or why not?

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ORIGINAL: agirl

Agreed... and ditto porcelaine...and Jeff..

I don't know what makes it such a non-event for us.  You know what you know, you trust what you trust...... Justifying it, or even bothering to, really isn't worth it. No-one can smell our herb-garden and we don't really care.