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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:24:32 PM   
Aileen68


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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:32:40 PM   
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Why is wanting to change something i see as needing change a bad thing?  i am not doing it by bashing anyone - or following those that annoy me (and yes i do as well have posters that annoy me) and harassing them. All i am doing is bringing thigs that are being done to light. If no one wanted to generate change - what would be the point of debate in the first place? 


Some might point that there are posters who start threads with a false pretense as to encourage mockery and humiliation. That is exactly this mockery and humiliations that they will use for their masturbatory fantasies while reading them. As such they encourage the drama and vitriol and come back again and again with the "yeah but" statements and the "whoa is me, everybody hates me/us" posts. If you were successful then, you would be stepping all over their kink.


i wouldn't cater to their need like that - i have made snarky comments from time to time, and usually i  regret it, but then i move on to more constructive things.  If the op is really and truly wanting that (rude remarks, cruelty, insults) and who is to judge that really? and others are doing it for that purpose.... and they want to spend their time indulging them - go at it. But for the most part the threads i have seen this happen on this was not the op's intention at all. 

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:33:21 PM   
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Everyone has the right to post however they like as long as they don't go against TOS.  As for the "clique" staying away...obviously some who you have in mind have come and answered here. 


I agree with Aileen here.

Some people have a "Bully" fetish too.. You may not like it, fine but you want to take that away from them because you want less drama on "fetish" website forum???

Liberals run to mock Conservative threads, Conservatives mock Liberals. The "REAL" BDSM folks mock the so called wannabes. The Christians come to their own defense, The BBW mafia try to discredit anything to do with obesity being unhealthy or unattractive.... That is life in an open forum.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:34:35 PM   
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Everyone has the right to post however they like as long as they don't go against TOS.  As for the "clique" staying away...obviously some who you have in mind have come and answered here. 


That is for you to ascertain not for me to say. i prefer to keep this general and not personal.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:37:50 PM   
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Everyone has the right to post however they like as long as they don't go against TOS.  As for the "clique" staying away...obviously some who you have in mind have come and answered here. 


I agree with Aileen here.

Some people have a "Bully" fetish too.. You may not like it, fine but you want to take that away from them because you want less drama on "fetish" website forum???

Liberals run to mock Conservative threads, Conservatives mock Liberals. The "REAL" BDSM folks mock the so called wannabes. The Christians come to their own defense, The BBW mafia try discredit anything to do obesity being unhealthy or unattractive.... That is life in an open forum.


Yes and in that, learning that bullies exist and actually relish that role, and people support them and their right to be bullies, well i have something to mull over don't i.  You are right that this is life in an open forum - i would love to meet these people (the clique)  and see how they handle themselves in rt situations - i suspect i would get a real chuckle out of it.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:37:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're the one who said they don't like the heat.  I just pointed out that some are here...me being one of them since I've seen some references to some of my posts here within this thread.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:39:51 PM   
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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:40:22 PM   
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You're the one who said they don't like the heat.  I just pointed out that some are here...me being one of them since I've seen some references to some of my posts here within this thread.


i don't remember referencing any particular post, but if you see yourself here so be it.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:41:25 PM   
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Why is it so wrong to make a comment when someone says something that is obviously meant to stir things up?


To vague to respond to - i have no idea what you are saying in reference to what?

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:42:05 PM   
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i don't remember referencing any particular post, but if you see yourself here so be it.
Some may call that passive aggressive.  That's just a personal opinion of course.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:43:11 PM   
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i would love to meet these people (the clique)  and see how they handle themselves in rt situations - i suspect i would get a real chuckle out of it.


THIS IS NOT RT!!!!

Seriously... they come here to get away from RT situations because they may hate their RT situations!

Is that how you get your kicks? Outting people for who they really are? Taking away their fantasy to enduldge yours?

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:46:08 PM   
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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:47:40 PM   
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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:47:42 PM   
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Why is it so wrong to make a comment when someone says something that is obviously meant to stir things up?


To vague to respond to - i have no idea what you are saying in reference to what?


I'll give you an example...a while back there was a thread on election day.  The gist of the thread was to sign in when you voted.  It wasn't a thread about whether you were going to or to debate anything.  So along comes someone who walks on in and declares that he didn't vote, had never voted and thought it was ridiculous to vote.  The only purpose of that post was to shake things up and become the center of attention.  Many posters jumped all over him and in my opinion rightly so.  He knew exactly what he was doing and he was proud of it.  This happens many times here. 

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:48:50 PM   
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i would love to meet these people (the clique)  and see how they handle themselves in rt situations - i suspect i would get a real chuckle out of it.


THIS IS NOT RT!!!!

Seriously... they come here to get away from RT situations because they may hate their RT situations!

Is that how you get your kicks? Outting people for who they really are? Taking away their fantasy to enduldge yours?


i outted no one.  i never referenced a specific name.  If their ultimate fantasy is to bully other posters and hide behind their right to freedom and hating drama when they really relish it, then at least it was brought out in this thread and those who wonder why - and many more than i do - they will get their answers. 

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:51:36 PM   
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Well, if this was real time............I would seem alot meaner and bitchier.


Impossible! 

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:52:00 PM   
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Why is it so wrong to make a comment when someone says something that is obviously meant to stir things up?


To vague to respond to - i have no idea what you are saying in reference to what?


I'll give you an example...a while back there was a thread on election day.  The gist of the thread was to sign in when you voted.  It wasn't a thread about whether you were going to or to debate anything.  So along comes someone who walks on in and declares that he didn't vote, had never voted and thought it was ridiculous to vote.  The only purpose of that post was to shake things up and become the center of attention.  Many posters jumped all over him and in my opinion rightly so.  He knew exactly what he was doing and he was proud of it.  This happens many times here. 


i have seen similar things too - people asking for a fight, thats not what i am talking about.  i don't want to repeat myself so i will direct you to my past posts - your an intelligent person i am sure you can  figure it out.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:53:48 PM   
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i have seen similar things too - people asking for a fight, thats not what i am talking about.  i don't want to repeat myself so i will direct you to my past posts - your an intelligent person i am sure you can  figure it out.


See...with a little more practice you may be just as good as me.  The more you write, the more your true colors show too.

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:55:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, sadly we all know this happens online.  But cyberspace is about as far away from real life, as one can get.  Well kind of...lol.  As far as relevency, I just read postings, take what matters to me, and leave the rest for entertainment value.  

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RE: Constructive Ideas Needed - 5/14/2007 2:56:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just wanna know.........are there gonna be a whole shitpile of new rules for this here joint that I gotta learn or what???

AND, if so.......are we going to have classes??? I vote Mod11 be the teacher cuz I bet she would be hot dressed up as a teacher, I just know it! Then, will there be a test? Cuz I suck at tests. I do better with those life experience sorta lessons. You know, the slap on the wrist from a sexy teacher Mod type or something.....

Come on, we need to know these things. Some of us are getting older and don't learn so fast. We have busy lives and need more study time!

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