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Commands - 6/8/2007 11:33:15 PM   
simplewhispers


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Status: offline 		I spoke with someone not to long ago that thought commands =Dom . I laughed to myself because so many "men" think if they can bark a command to someone then that must mean they are a Dom.......

I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:06:17 AM   
LadyHeart


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I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?


Yes, I've seen it done. One example of her power I witnessed was to single out a man in a crowded cafe. She would whisper "that one" and within the space of a few moments, have him kneeling at her feet lighting her cigarette. I have never forgotten seeing her in acion. Now that's a Domme! I consider myself a strong person, but even I would hesitate to contradict her or cross her, yet she was the most scrupulously polite person I have ever come across. That's true DOMINATION!
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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:08:40 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		It's impressive, but not nearly as impressive as lifting a piano by pure psychokinesis.

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I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:14:28 AM   
simplewhispers


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Status: offline 		hmmmmm that would be something to see

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:30:19 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers
I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?


Yes, I've seen it done. One example of her power I witnessed was to single out a man in a crowded cafe. She would whisper "that one" and within the space of a few moments, have him kneeling at her feet lighting her cigarette. I have never forgotten seeing her in acion. Now that's a Domme! I consider myself a strong person, but even I would hesitate to contradict her or cross her, yet she was the most scrupulously polite person I have ever come across. That's true DOMINATION!
:))
LH


I know exactly what you are talking about here.  The magically power of body language combined with pussy power.   Amazing how well body language works at times..   The downside for anybody trying to get me to light their smoke it in this manner, is that I read it too well.  I'll end up smacking the lighter down on the table in front of them, leaving it in an upright position.  Call it a form of defiance if you will.  Hey, they still get to light their cigerettee.   What I look for if she picks up the lighter or not.  Call this a reverse spin to it all... LOL..    Gawd, I would have enjoyed encountering your Domme friend...    Non the less what she did works probally about 95% of the time on men.  This is funny you should mention this.   I don't know how many times I've had women in general, Dommes or vanillas attempt this classic power move on me. 

Thanks for this wonderful post.. and it's very true and can be done without speaking a single command.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:40:04 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Whiplash, you and I would be a challenge.  I will say this.  I have yet to meet the man who didn't light My cigarette.  In some cases, they will dash across a crowded room just to do so.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:43:24 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		I have to add more to this.  I've actually had male buddies with me at the time, questioning me like I'm nutz or something.  "Dude are you out of your mind", Asking me why I'm being rude, I tried like hell to explain to them, I was not the one being rude.  Dugh, I don't think some guys just seem to get it.   They want to take every opportunity they can to kiss ass and be the ultimate Mr. Nice guy that it's not funny.  Amazing how social male conditioning can be a weakness that a Domme or any woman can exploit for domination or control.   Light my smoke power control. LOL...  

I was in a relationship with a Domme before, and her and I used to make fun of this whole light my smoke routine.. I've mentioned this in some of my previous posting on the message board.  Yes, I'm speaking of something from my past again, Pfffftt.. take it for what it's worth.  Am I chest thumping right now..actually I'm laughing my fucking ass off...  Dommes and lighters, I'm convinced that's all it would take for women to rule the world.  I'm making a bit of a joke out of this, but there's certain amount of truth to it.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:51:48 AM   
Viridana


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Status: offline 		barking a command is one thing.

Making others respect you so much that you don't have to bark commands is another

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:53:40 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		As am I.  This has never been a power control thing for Me.  It's quite the reverse, actually.
 
Here's the deal.  I smoke.  Any smoker will tell you that they carry their own lighter.  I don't NEED a boy to light it for Me.  It really comes down to a check of their abilities at basic courtesy.  How do they respond after getting 'the look' for their actions?  There's much to be said for the interaction of this simple task.
 
It's a terrible reference, but I'll use it anyway.....  I am the light.... What you seek is a flame.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 12:55:56 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

I spoke with someone not to long ago that thought commands =Dom . I laughed to myself because so many "men" think if they can bark a command to someone then that must mean they are a Dom.......

I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?


You mean one that can take you by your hand, look you in your eyes, press his fingers to your lips (meaning don't speak), gently lead you by the hand to where he wants, look you deep in the eyes, place his hands upon your shoulder (press downward so you know to kneel), postition your head in front of his crotch, grabs you by the hair on the back of your head, unzips his pants, tracing fingers around your lips, slowly inserts finger into your mouth, pulls finger out, traces around your lips again.. repeats process using his cock instead of fingers  Type of stuff?  Is that what you are talking about?

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 1:09:16 AM   
onmykneesforhim


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quote:

ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

I spoke with someone not to long ago that thought commands =Dom . I laughed to myself because so many "men" think if they can bark a command to someone then that must mean they are a Dom.......

I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?



I would imagine this is quite possible, pointing and hairpulling to guide are a couple ways, Biting your nipples and tugging so you follow is another...but dont you just love hearing the command itself?  Especially coming from The One???
omk

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 2:04:02 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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As am I.  This has never been a power control thing for Me.  It's quite the reverse, actually.
 
Here's the deal.  I smoke.  Any smoker will tell you that they carry their own lighter.  I don't NEED a boy to light it for Me.  It really comes down to a check of their abilities at basic courtesy.  How do they respond after getting 'the look' for their actions?  There's much to be said for the interaction of this simple task.
 
It's a terrible reference, but I'll use it anyway.....  I am the light.... What you seek is a flame.

I'd have to make an on the spot call with you.  It would depend upon how much pretense went into the "The Look" you were using, "the look" as in I expect, or "the look" would you please.  I do light smokes, yes I do, I'm not a complete rude bastard. 

I tend to be a bit of a people watcher when I'm out and notice a pattern of behavior.  You know, where a women is getting 1/2 the guys around to buy her drinks, light her smoke and wait on her hand and foot.  In short where she's capitalizing on common courtsey.  

If I see "The Look" that's I expect, the lighter hits the table and I give them a smart ass look back so it's clear I'm onto them.   It's rude for people to capitalize on the courtsey of others.  

From the sounds of your post it's probally a safe bet, I'd light your smoke for you.  Since you were testing and not expecting it.  However, I'd have to have one-on-one experience with you to know for certain.

"The look" LOL.. sounds like part of good episode of Sienfield. 

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 3:46:47 AM   
sublimelysensual


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You mean one that can take you by your hand, look you in your eyes, press his fingers to your lips (meaning don't speak), gently lead you by the hand to where he wants, look you deep in the eyes, place his hands upon your shoulder (press downward so you know to kneel), postition your head in front of his crotch, grabs you by the hair on the back of your head, unzips his pants, tracing fingers around your lips, slowly inserts finger into your mouth, pulls finger out, traces around your lips again.. repeats process using his cock instead of fingers  Type of stuff?  Is that what you are talking about?



-laughing- That may not be what she was talking about, but I'm definitely starting the day with a smile on my lips and heart beating a bit faster now..thanks, I think.....
 
*grinz*
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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 3:46:48 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

I spoke with someone not to long ago that thought commands =Dom . I laughed to myself because so many "men" think if they can bark a command to someone then that must mean they are a Dom.......

I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?


Let me first figure out how to express "Go to the store and buy me a winning lottery ticket, you'd better not fail" using sign language and I'll get back to you. 

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 3:55:14 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Although I guess it can be done why would you want that?  Don't you want to hear the sound of his voice?  A dom doesn't have to bark orders, hell, just a simple whispered "do it" or even better,"do it for Me". What's better than that?

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 4:38:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

I spoke with someone not to long ago that thought commands =Dom . I laughed to myself because so many "men" think if they can bark a command to someone then that must mean they are a Dom.......


Well, if the command is followed then they are the dominant within that interaction.

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I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality?


Yes, it can be done.  It is not realistic to think that it should be that way all the time; that is more fantasy than reality.  The instructions I receive are a mix of verbal, hand signals and looks.  Personally, I like when he gets all authoritative and starts barking out orders; it gives me a little thrill but he has already inspired me to submit to him.

If another dominant tried that with me, the response he gets would not be the one he was hoping for.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 4:40:03 AM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
You mean one that can take you by your hand, look you in your eyes, press his fingers to your lips (meaning don't speak), gently lead you by the hand to where he wants, look you deep in the eyes, place his hands upon your shoulder (press downward so you know to kneel), postition your head in front of his crotch, grabs you by the hair on the back of your head, unzips his pants, tracing fingers around your lips, slowly inserts finger into your mouth, pulls finger out, traces around your lips again.. repeats process using his cock instead of fingers  Type of stuff?  Is that what you are talking about?


Loved this!!  It reminded me of the time that he firmly attached 2 cups from his cupping set to my ass and lead me around the play space.  I was helpless to do anything but follow and giggle.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 4:50:25 AM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		None verbal communication does infact speak volumes. The way a Dominant utilises their body language, smile, glare & gestures, and the complete aura and the way they project themselves as a Dominant person is a great asset.

To, shout, command and demand is only a little snippet of  Dominance. A cruel smirk, a genuine mischieveous laugh, a whispering cruel something's is also a powerful tool too.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 4:57:10 AM   
catize


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 I seek the one that can command without speaking. Can that be a reality? 


I flunked Submissive Mind Reading 101.

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RE: Commands - 6/9/2007 4:57:12 AM   
Malacophonous


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Status: offline 		Although I guess it can be done why would you want that?  Don't you want to hear the sound of his voice?  A dom doesn't have to bark orders, hell, just a simple whispered "do it" or even better,"do it for Me". What's better than that?


As for this submissive "Do it for Me"  certainly triggers an emotional and physiological response. (Spoken by the right person of course!) 

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