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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:31:29 AM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Same goes for the OPs scenario. For some of my partners it would be a breach of trust, for others, they would spend years masterbating over the memories. It isn't the act, it is your motivation in doing it and the emotional playground you and your partner have created.

Bingo! Bingo! Bingo!

There is no way another human can affect me to where it is painfully crushing, by way of verbal humiliation. Why? Because I operate within the confines, love, protection, security and strength of what my Master has taught me and provided me. Only he can emotionally penetrate me that deeply.

As for what we could learn from such a scenario, I really don't know. What my Master teaches is geared to be unique to that particular individual. Maybe the other woman needs to learn how to speak in such a way to another woman, for reasons that are very personal to her. If my Master can use me to help her out, why not? Maybe I need to learn that I really do have the strength to get off on something like that. Maybe he just thinks it would be a good experience for me. Maybe there is no training at all, but he just wants to enjoy himself and would find a scene like this hot.

As for particulars of what I have done or what I am yet to do that is similar, I prefer not to share them here.

swtnsparkling: Thank you very much for your kind words. A scene like this may have crushed me before I was prepared for it. Some people ask about "training" and I say this is one of the many ways one can train one's mind to accept and welcome just about anything. The focus of my training has been less learning particular physical skills (although I have) and more about adjusting my thinking. I truly want what he wants for me. The acts of another do not phase me anymore, even though some have tried.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:54:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

That would be hot. Except for the woman verbally humiliating me, that would just be annoying.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:56:03 AM

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Eh just not my cup of tea, if Master orgenised it just because he wanted to it would show a total lack of careing for me. But Master knows me and knows how I would feel so Im not worried that something like that would ever happen, unless I actually came to him with the idea. He puts my emotional well beeing and needs far befor his wants and I have to love him for that!!!

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:56:11 AM

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Madder than hell and when he unties me... he will see my cute little back end walking out of his life.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:56:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

the part of this scenario i find odd and disturbing is the bit about the other woman verbally humiliating me. my Master would never be with a woman who wasn't submissive in nature to at least some degree, and therefore would never arrange such a scenario. He is not attracted to unsubmissive women, and he is quite repulsed by female dominance or even aggression. so i'm afraid i can't even answer this one as it would be such an impossibility.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 9:08:31 AM

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I'm sorry ownedgirlie I didnt mean to be rude.. am just curious tis all =)

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 9:14:15 AM

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i have been bound to a chair many times, as well as to trees and other objects. my Master usually has me gagged and blindfolded, when He has me bound. my Master has had other women over for sex but, it's usually so that He can have His slave service the woman. (There are some pictures of this slave bound and also in service to another woman on her slave register profile, if interested, http://www.slaveregister.com/pictures/slave_joy/).

Sometimes He has sex with the other women and sometimes He just watches His slave service them. You're right. This isn't punishment for me.

This makes me feel wonderful! i love to see my Master enjoying Himself. This is just one way my Master chooses to use His slave and i enjoy being used by Him in every way He chooses. When my Master wants to punish His slave, He makes her sit in a corner, staring at the blank wall or He forbids her from serving Him in any way. THAT is Punishment for this slave!

i have never been verbally humiliated by another woman but, that idea is very enticing to me. i am a masochist and i also enjoy humiliation and i enjoy serving women.

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Edited to add: my Master usually only invites sadistic Dommes to come over for His slave to service. Rarely does He invite a submissive female over, except when she has shown an interest in being trained by Him or when it is a M/s couple coming over for some swing time. He doesn't get involved with other women for His own pleasure. He does it for the benefit of both of U/us and for the other person(s) involved.

quote:

ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

< Message edited by slavegirljoy -- 6/17/2007 9:22:30 AM >

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 9:14:39 AM

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The woman would need a wig when the scene was over...because i would have pulled every strand out of her "verbally humiliating head...... but that just me

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 9:20:06 AM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: possom

I'm sorry ownedgirlie I didnt mean to be rude.. am just curious tis all =)

No worries at all, possom. I didn't see your question as rude. I'm just particular about the things I do and do not share. You could not have known that without asking :)

Thanks for a great question!

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 10:05:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, say he wanted to do it to enforce the fact that the sub is owned by him .. what would that make it?

While the superficial motive could be what you stated, what is the deeper reason. Is she resisting that control, is he insecure and wonders how far she will go, or perhaps he knows what a wicked girl she is and that watching him with another would be hot but the other woman humiliating her would be the button pushing bit.

I might do a very similar scene and could see it working, I could also see it falling apart too. This is why scenes with lots of people take great responsibility. Since there is only one top in the scene, what happens if it does fall apart, who takes care of the other women, who gets taken care of first, etc.

Someone who can foresee these sorts of issues can also probably find someone who would get off on it or at least know whether someone would or would not. This is also ripe for a guided fantasy.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 10:29:50 AM

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I would be gone.

No second chances. No looking back. Forgiveness may come in time. The things you have listed are for the most part hard limits so tey would not be breached by any resepctiable Partner I have. If they did, I would NOT be their slave.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 11:28:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: possom

How would it train and/or benefit you?

How would it train and/or benefit the other girl?

See, when I first heard about this sort of scene, my first thought was ugh, that would be cruel.. but then I thought about it and to be honest I have no idea what my reaction would be until I was put in such situation.

I agree tho that yes you would have to be incredibly secure with your Master to do such a scene to not be 'damaged' by it.

What sort of scenes have you done similar to this?

Well, I have been in part of this specific scenario. I have been bound naked to a chair while another woman gave oral to my Sir. The woman in question was a dear creature, and actually had been the person to bind me to said chair. I thought it was pretty hot, but then there was a lot of affection and trust in the room. She was in my Sir's life before I was, and honestly at the time, I was hugely greatful that she was welcoming and kind to me. She could have ridden him like a pony, or been ridden like a pony and I'm sure I would have squirmed madly in my chair, but all would have been fine. They were lovers before I had even met him.

She certainly never ridiculed me, or made me feel bad in any way. IF she had I think that could have turned things in a totally differant way. Honestly, it could have made me highly aggresive and hostile. She and he teased me, were playful with me, took pictures of me in my little corner which fully horrified me, but made me feel delightfully exposed too. I think we all had fun, but the tone was one of comraderee, affection, and playful exploration.. hedonism maybe.

Something where she was holding his cock and taunting me probably would have been fine too. Along the lines of, "Look what I have... don't you want it?" Long lascivious lick, batting of pretty lashes. "Mmmmm..... It's so delicious and hard." Sweet darling smile from a pretty red head, "Don't you wish you could taste? Don't you want to taste?"

:) Such a thing would have tested the strength of the ropes for sure. I would have been pulling in my leads, but not with anger.

If she had been hurtfull about worth, or value, or into emotional degredation than that wouldnt' have worked for me.

So.. just one opinion.
Your miles may vary.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 11:58:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

this slave feels awesome, thanks!!!

1. Master wouldn't have to use force to have His slave participate in something He had organized because He wanted to. He doesn't play-force...as this slave doesn't play-forced.

2. this slave can't imagine anything that could come out of some random woman's mouth that would humiliate her, even if Master was screwing her at the time.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:16:48 PM

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i think it wholly depends on how the M/s have their relationship dynmics worked out. If i was led to expect that we were going to be monogomous i would be hurt and angry and take such an action as a deal breaker. If my dom and i were open poly i probably would watch it with some amusement for the woman trying to humiliate me and guess that they were filling some kink she had - i would discuss it with him and more than likely not take it personally. How the sub/slave reacts depends wholly on the context of the relationship - it can be a cruel thing, a punishment (although i would feel a bad choice for one), a learning experience, an erotic experience, etc....

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:35:21 PM

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My understanding is that this is also known as cuckolding. It seems to be far more popular or known in femme domme/male sub circles. It has also been addressed in the "ask a mistress" forum...

In the male sub version of the story, the female is a domme with additional partners and the male takes on a sub role where is he monogomous. The sub men are usually call "cucks" and the dominant men (additional partners) are called "studs" or "bulls".

Usually the sub enjoys being humiliated, serving the dominant and or domina orally before being forced to watch the dom and domme have sex, being allowed to masturbate during the act and being told to clean them orally after act.

Other themes involve humilation and taunting, tease and denial, orgasm restriction, chastity, sissification and service. What your master seems to be describing is a dom/domina/fem submissive variation of the cuckolding theme. I don't know how often submissive women participate in this fantasy, but I do know that there are many submissive men who are looking to participate in it.

Personally, I am on the lesbian side of bi and I am more concerned with my own relationships with women. But I wanted to pass on the information since I have done a bit of reading and research on the subject.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:57:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

In a word? Bored.

Not my thing. He'd be trying to enjoy it, and I'd just be along for the ride. Trouble is, neither of us would end up enjoying it, because He'd know I'd just be faking my way through it in hopes He was having a good time.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 2:06:55 PM

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To be honest, I've been there, not tied but I've been made to be there and watch.

I hated every second of it but knew better than to show the hurt and the negative emotions around another, and even to the person i was there to serve. She was the Doms other sub, but she was my Mistress. It still hurt, I still hated every living second of it and I know I would feel the same way if it ever happened again. Watching the person I serve be with anyone else to me is just heart wrenching it makes me feel as though I'm somehow inadequate and my mind just tells me that I'm not good enough, that I cant please the person that I serve......it goes on and on and on.

God I hate it but even though I hate it, I know that I have to accept it there's no getting out of it because of it's what He wants, well He always gets what He wants.......He's the Dominant. (Yes I believe that on my own without being brain washed)

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 2:09:42 PM

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Sounds HOT!..but only if the woman knows how to humiliate without long term harm.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 2:10:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

He puts my emotional well beeing and needs far befor his wants and I have to love him for that!!!

Magik's slave

well said

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 2:31:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman. Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

i would struggle with this, but if it was what He wanted i would do it for His pleasure and because i love Him and i need/want to please Him, im also aware that some ppl will not/do not understand it. (i dont care)

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