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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 10:03:26 PM   
joiduvie


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Status: offline 		If my relationship with my Master was known to be inclusive of other women, and not construed as my serving him, the first part I would not have an issue with.  If someone else thought they could some how humiliate me, I would most likely be amused, and if she were to stick around, I am sure she would learn quickly the error of her ways.  Master's pleasure and comfort would be the fore front of my desires, and it was his desire that I learn something by her attempt at humiliation, I would gracefully submit, but if it was just to amuse or in no way intended for my well being, he would be turfed and fast.  To try and injure me emotionally with no purpose would show he was not worthy of the title Master, and not worthy of my consideration or time.


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 7:35:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of course the other question is, what if you're tied and the other person fucking your master is a male?

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:02:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I  have not read all the responses but i would be totally devasted.  We discussed before i was collered and Master siad i would be the only one.  Even thoug i love Him with all that i am i would ask for release.  Because it would break our trust as well as my heart.

As to lucky's last post would never happen.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:14:59 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		LOL I like how you think that something you've both agreed not to do might happen and entertain that end, but completely won't even entertain the possibility of this happening.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:24:59 AM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Of course the other question is, what if you're tied and the other person fucking your master is a male?


Leave it to you to change it up a bit, lol. 

Of course, this would not happen with us, but to humor you, if it did, my response would be no different.  I'd remain as expected to remain, and when all was said and done I would thank my Master for allowing me to be part of what occurred.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:29:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Of course the other question is, what if you're tied and the other person fucking your master is a male?


If my owner were fucking a guy that would be totally hot and I would realllllllllllly enjoy watching that.  He's as straight as a board so it'll never happen.

Wasn't there a thread about, "what if your male dominant fucked a guy"?

C~


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:33:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Of course the other question is, what if you're tied and the other person fucking your master is a male?


The same reaction. Valyraen doesn't tolerate anyone who puts me down and treats me like I'm worthless. If he were to do so, I would know his feelings towards me had changed to the point where he no longer desired me.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 9:11:51 AM   
persiphone


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Status: offline 		How do you reinforce something that should be known by tearing down the person emotionally? Preparing them for the scene would be effective but only if they are willing. For me this could be done, but only if i know and respect the woman before hand. If its done to teach me a lesson or because he wants to show me how much he can do/get away with because he is dominant, he would not be my dominant.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 9:12:49 AM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		Hmm....Well, I don't ever see this happening, but I can play along.  If it were another man, I would only wonder if I got to join in...it would actually turn me on if M enjoyed it.  I don't think he would though, so it would be forced on him..just like the other way would have been on me, so there is no enjoyment possible.

Master won't be with other women, I won't be with other men.  Things can always change down the road, but at this time, it won't happen.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 9:20:35 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs
Wasn't there a thread about, "what if your male dominant fucked a guy"?

C~

Yeah.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_766265/mpage_3/key_dominant%252Csex/tm.htm#766850
a question to stir things up

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 4:38:21 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I feel like a limit has been crossed, and that would make me very sad and probably cause me to question how much my Daddy cared for me.... but other people feel differently I am sure

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 5:20:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Of course the other question is, what if you're tied and the other person fucking your master is a male?


Oh God... my biggest fantasy!!!  I would be so fucking turned on...  I am drooling just picturing it.

But it will forever remain a fantasy, though I imagine if he is able, he will let me watch two other guys have sex.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 5:27:36 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		i wouldn't be able to handle this. Something like this happened with an ex-Dom of mine and i couldn't get over it. i ended up asking to be released because of it. i feel like the Dom is just using His power as a Dom to screw other women when it comes to things like this. The only way i would be able to deal with something like this is if my Dom explained His intentions.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 5:41:10 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: subsnow
i feel like the Dom is just using His power as a Dom to screw other women when it comes to things like this

Gee, ya think?  If this was my Master and me, He would be doing it because He wanted to - because He wanted to use the other woman, enjoy her, and play out a fantasy of His (and mine). 

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The only way i would be able to deal with something like this is if my Dom explained His intentions

Master would never go about fulfilling such a fantasy by trying to convince me He was doing it for some "noble" reason.  It wouldn't be to punish me, train me, teach me anything, mold or shape me or any other bogus claim.  It would simply be for His pleasure (and thus mine).  Those would be His intentions and those are all that are necessary.

Edited to add:  Master just said that He would have no problem explaining His "intentions" to me before doing such a thing.  His intentions would be, and I'm quoting here: "to bend this little slut over and fuck her."  Works for me........slave luci

< Message edited by slaveluci -- 6/18/2007 6:09:47 PM >

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 5:52:41 PM   
BeingChewsie


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Status: offline 		It could have that effect, it could also just be he wants to fuck another girl. I'm much more of a cut to the chase person, if you want to fuck, just say so. We don't need to dress it up and take it out for drinks. If it were my owner I'd be thrilled and it wouldn't be to teach me anything, it would be because he thought she was hot and wanted to screw her.

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I don't know what she could say to humiliate me. I'd be far to focused on him using her to notice.

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ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, say he wanted to do it to enforce the fact that the sub is owned by him .. what would that make it?


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 6:06:16 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie
It could have that effect, it could also just be he wants to fuck another girl. I'm much more of a cut to the chase person, if you want to fuck, just say so. We don't need to dress it up and take it out for drinks.

OMG - Master just died laughing at that remark.  So true.  He doesn't have to ask my permission to fuck another girl or explain just why He wants to.  He is Master, I'm not.  (Now I understand that some people's hard limits preclude this type of scenario and that's fine.  I'm just talking about arrangements or relationships where such "sharing" scenario's are not hard limits for the sub/slave).

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 If it were my owner I'd be thrilled and it wouldn't be to teach me anything, it would be because he thought she was hot and wanted to screw her

Absolutely.  That's basically what I said above.  He doesn't have to explain or have some grand reason.  The fact that He wants to is reason enough.........luci 

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 6:18:58 PM   
MisstressNboytoy


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Status: offline 		I am not a sub, but I have been thinking about this situation a lot lately... I'm relieved to read that I'm not the only one who has completely different opinions regarding watching my partner be with another man or another woman. Since I am female, I would be incredibly jealous to ever see him with another woman. However, seeing him with a man turns me on more than I ever would have thought possible. Thankfully, I own him and I'm the one who gets to decide.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 6:30:35 PM   
Viciousbabe


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Status: offline 		I've been in similar situations. But, I did not find any enjoyment out of them. Most of what I concentrated on was trying to figure out why wasn't I the one who was good enough. He wanted the other girl to dominate me and I walked away. He knew before hand that I did not want that type of relationship.

For this senario, I would be gone before they got done. That is, if I didn't drag the girl out of the bed and beat the crap out of her. Now, if my Master wanted to be with another woman, I would hope he'd be honest and tell me. However, I wouldn't be with in a 10 mile radius. And, I'd prolly need a lot of reassurance after.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 7:47:05 PM   
annare


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Status: offline 		possom,

    i can't help reading this without wondering if this is something you have experienced or just a hypothetical. Those emotions aside, i hope that i am never subjected to such a "scene". i realize that to some, this would be their cup of tea and i don't fault A/anyone their own kinks/interests. But, for me, it would be a nightmare. i can honestly say that as much as i would like to pretend that i would be okay with anything my Master asked me to do, something like this would break me. It would destroy my trust in Him and any confidence or assurance i had managed to build up within O/our relationship. i would go sofar as to say that a scene like this would cause me to beg release.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/18/2007 8:49:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

quote:

ORIGINAL: subsnow
i feel like the Dom is just using His power as a Dom to screw other women when it comes to things like this

Gee, ya think?  If this was my Master and me, He would be doing it because He wanted to - because He wanted to use the other woman, enjoy her, and play out a fantasy of His (and mine). 

quote:

The only way i would be able to deal with something like this is if my Dom explained His intentions

Master would never go about fulfilling such a fantasy by trying to convince me He was doing it for some "noble" reason.  It wouldn't be to punish me, train me, teach me anything, mold or shape me or any other bogus claim.  It would simply be for His pleasure (and thus mine).  Those would be His intentions and those are all that are necessary.

Edited to add:  Master just said that He would have no problem explaining His "intentions" to me before doing such a thing.  His intentions would be, and I'm quoting here: "to bend this little slut over and fuck her."  Works for me........slave luci

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