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RE: May Not Be Cut Out For This, After All...Jealousy - 7/31/2007 1:22:37 AM

came4U

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waaaaaaait a minute...fucking on a car has more signifigance than flogging/spanking or nipple torture? Those you enjoyed?? ouch, that would hurt my ego if I were a Dom.

Those things he has done before no doubt? That doesn't bother you? I mean, the reaction is 'not new' to him, I assume, we all would wince, wiggle around or cry at some point, yet all differently and um, coughs, but we are all SPECIAL.

But, it seems that your major focus is this car fantasy. A fantasy you can control? because it is yours?

I don't know if anyone by our age (38+) hasn't fucked in a car, on a car, under a car, looking at pictures Trans Ams on posters on bedroom walls even or while watching Burt reynolds in Smokey and the fuk'n Bandit.

I honestly tried to be on your side gal, in thinking I was similar, but only if something kinky was being tried on me I may (most likely) be a lil intimidated by his 'ghosts' and the actual activity.

but, humping on a car? ruined? possibly leaving him? Excuses, excuses.

wow, what to say.

< Message edited by came4U -- 7/31/2007 1:28:28 AM >

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RE: May Not Be Cut Out For This, After All...Jealousy - 8/8/2007 12:47:38 AM

SlaveSoul

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greetings everyone,

i just wanted to add my two cents worth to the thread (i apologise if it's been said before).

To the woman who posted originally: your dominant is experiencing events for the first time, every time he does something with you that you haven't done together. The experience with you is different from any of his other experiences with anyone else.
Forget about his past, it is the past. Focus on pleasing him, and your future with him. He has chosen *you* for a reason.

i am no stranger to jealousy...my Master has more than one woman in His life. I've had to deal with all sorts of "adjustment" issues, i still do at times.

My Master and i have been together (we're a real life couple) for nearly 3 years, and each time we indulge an activity (even if we've done it a million times before) it is always "new" to us...it is a new experience at that point in time, and is something that will not play out the same way as it did in the past.

Only you can decide what is truly right for you. Good luck!

i wish everyone well,

mia{L}
Logos' proud lil alpha-slave.

< Message edited by SlaveSoul -- 8/8/2007 12:51:50 AM >

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