~ Fast Reply ~ Sometime the confining box of processing thoughts prevents the ability to appreciate that most of the differences being argued are semantic in nature. The OP was questioning about being "hired out". Hell - everyone here is being "hired out" for purposes you may not realize or want to consider. Anyone who includes pictures in their profile, explicit or not, has 'hired out' themselves to be used by any viewer. I don't believe that every person listed in our "who's viewing us" list is there to read our journal. When beth and I view the list I always note to beth the viewers and ask her to consider how her image may have been "violated". Don't have a picture - well for some the narrative is all it takes. For some reading, "I love a good hard caning & spanking", is more erotic than any image. The fact that you are unaware doesn't change that your were "hired out". Imagine how many use the words posted on threads for their own 'personal' reasons. The profile is soliciting advertisement. The tamest of intended posts for someone out there, maybe the most salacious. The price to view it may be zero but the result was no different. The OP's reference is to real life versus on-line. She's been taken to task as a "prostitute". First of all, why that is an insult is beyond me - it's one of the few occupations where you get a 'bang' for your buck. But many of those who would be appalled and deny the similarity of on-line solicitation to real life solicitation are the same people who apply equal value of real time to the internet. Applying the same standard and every profile, which potentially is used for cyber sex, is the equivalent to walking the streets. Enjoy life people - have fun! If the OP feels safe under the situation, and trusts her Master fully to keep her safe during the - process go for it! Some people don't consider BDSM activity sex or sexual. Well consider not your opinion but the opinion of the observer. If you've "given it away" posting a picture, or writing a narrative, or reflecting upon you first anal experience in a thread and its used by an observer to get off, you've been "hired". If you feel "used" and/or dirty realizing this reality it was time for a reality check.
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