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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

Why should he if he is being honest in discussion? The exact same reason you state that he should have it on his profile is the exact same reason that he may think he shouldn't. In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.
Very true. However there are those out there who would not get involved with a married man and it just wastes theirs and his time. It is only my opinion that he should be honest up front in his profile.

Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.
And for all we know he might not.

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

Why should he if he is being honest in discussion? The exact same reason you state that he should have it on his profile is the exact same reason that he may think he shouldn't. In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.

Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

Why should he if he is being honest in discussion? The exact same reason you state that he should have it on his profile is the exact same reason that he may think he shouldn't. In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.

Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.

I agree

My Master does not mention me in his profile. Is he lying? Nope it is just something that he does not feel he needs to advertise to all and sundry. It certainly depends on what this person is using the profile for and we have no idea of the content of email exchanges or chats that he has with people that contact him. It is clear from what the OP said that he is obviously not deceiving his partner as they have a couples profile and single ones and if the OP was able to spot his profile so easily, so would the wife be able to.

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Very true. However there are those out there who would not get involved with a married man and it just wastes theirs and his time. It is only my opinion that he should be honest up front in his profile.

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Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.

And for all we know he might not. 

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he made it clear to me that unless they specifically asked him a question like that, he would try to build a bond with the girl before telling her

If we trust that the op is being truthful then he has himself said unless asked he would not divulge the info.

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After all there are always more sides to a story than anyone gets.

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ORIGINAL: RRafe

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

Why should he if he is being honest in discussion? The exact same reason you state that he should have it on his profile is the exact same reason that he may think he shouldn't. In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.

Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.

I agree

My Master does not mention me in his profile. Is he lying? Nope it is just something that he does not feel he needs to advertise to all and sundry. It certainly depends on what this person is using the profile for and we have no idea of the content of email exchanges or chats that he has with people that contact him. It is clear from what the OP said that he is obviously not deceiving his partner as they have a couples profile and single ones and if the OP was able to spot his profile so easily, so would the wife be able to.

But hes not reffering single women to the other two profiles. he's using it to act like he's single.

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: RRafe

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion if you are part of a couple / dynamic you really should state it on your profile. Why hide it? Giving as full a picture as possible of yourself in your profile helps find people who may be compatible to you.
As Chelle says i'm not shocked', nor am i but rather im not shocked that someone is doing this, it seems to be a trend here really. What is sad is that it has become such a trend that people just roll over and accept the dishonesty and think its no big thing to be deceitful.

Why should he if he is being honest in discussion? The exact same reason you state that he should have it on his profile is the exact same reason that he may think he shouldn't. In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.

Besides, the OP seems to have made an assumption here. For all we know, this man could be telling people in his first email that he is married.

I agree

My Master does not mention me in his profile. Is he lying? Nope it is just something that he does not feel he needs to advertise to all and sundry. It certainly depends on what this person is using the profile for and we have no idea of the content of email exchanges or chats that he has with people that contact him. It is clear from what the OP said that he is obviously not deceiving his partner as they have a couples profile and single ones and if the OP was able to spot his profile so easily, so would the wife be able to.

But hes not reffering single women to the other two profiles. he's using it to act like he's single.

How do you know what he is using it for. How do you know what he is telling people when he first makes contact with them. Perhaps he is using his profile to find play partners where it would not necessarily concern people if he is married or not. We have seen one side of the story and heard nothing from him regarding his motivation is all of this. Until we do everyone is making assumptions that may be incorrect.

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ORIGINAL: MsPleasure

Welcome to the internet.  Men are posing as women, women are posing as men.  Married are posing as single and on and on and on.  

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he basically said he gets more responces if he doesn't mention he is involved with someone else

Hmmm, ya think?I think he may be onto something there that others haven't thought of - pretend you're single to draw 'em in.  It's been happening since the dawn of time and I see no signs of it stopping anytime soon.  It's not your business so I'd just forget about it and focus on something I could change................luci 

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ORIGINAL: slaveofKaos

I recently came arcoss someones profile that I know, however the name was different and there was no mention of this Dom's wife and the pictures of the two of them were not up. I asked him if they were still together and he told me they were, but that they each have their own profile and a couple profile, and that this was his. I thought no big deal people do that all the time, but I thought it was kinda weird that nowhere did he even mention he was in any kind of a relationship. I asked him why he didnt mention her at all and he basically said he gets more responces if he doesn't mention he is involved with someone else. My Master and my slave have both told me in the past that not giving all information that is known about something is called a "half lie" and that a "half lie" is still a lie, a deception. Granted someone considering him for a Master should ask a question like "are you involved with anyone one else in any kind of relationship?," but what got to me was that he made it clear to me that unless they specifically asked him a question like that, he would try to build a bond with the girl before telling her, probably in the hopes that she would just love him as a Master and not care about the fact that he didnt tell her in the beggining. This really got to me though I thought about those whose time would be wasted building a relationship with this person the whole time him coming off like he is a single Master looking for a slave. I mean the only people who wouldnt write him if he put that he's married are the one's that will turn him down as soon as they find out he is, and he will probably I would hope get turned down even by people who would have considered it for not saying something (basically lying) from the start. I don't understand why people can't just be honest and straight forward from the beggining it would save people a lot of time. I am curious as to if others on here have come across this, done it themselves, and or what people generally think about it.

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ORIGINAL: TheChauvinist

In other words not putting it on may help him begin discussion with people who are compatible but might not have tried because of that one detail.