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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:28:34 PM   
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Time to grow up, people, and stop blaming goods will for our wars, poverty, cultural injustice, genocide, and the intrawebs destabilising influance on marriages in america.



It could easily be said that this is your own belief system, your own religion against religion. Making you as crazy as the rest of us.


Am I the only one who's noticed that the atheists on CM seem to be way more dogmatic and evangelical that the religious folk?

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:30:21 PM   
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:31:05 PM   
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Time to grow up, people, and stop blaming goods will for our wars, poverty, cultural injustice, genocide, and the intrawebs destabilising influance on marriages in america.



It could easily be said that this is your own belief system, your own religion against religion. Making you as crazy as the rest of us.


Am I the only one who's noticed that the atheists on CM seem to be way more dogmatic and evangelical that the religious folk?


Atheism is a religion all it's own-they worship denial.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:32:00 PM   
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M. Madrabbit-
 
<blink> I may be a bit rusty, but Kirkgraad<sp> is where I think of as where existentialism began, and think he would have been a truly rational thinker if he'd lived long enough to fully develop his work...
 
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I was talking about his belief that irrationality (the spiritual void or the spiritual need) is a normal part of the human mind.

I normally enjoy being on the other end of this discussion as far as the validity of Christanity, but I think proclaiming all irrational beliefs as a form of mental illness to be a very gross, unfair, untrue, and insulting statement.


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I agree. but it's also unfair that I am stuck on this planet with a bunch of crazies who will kill us all, and to expect me to say "oh gee, God wants your crusade/jihad? well, I guess I must respect your craziness!"
 
And re Kierkegaard, I do thiink that, had he lived, he might well have concluded that we should try to grow beyond the sprirtual need...
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:32:42 PM   
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God is Good, it creates a belief that one is accountable to one with more power than oneself.

Only crazies use it as an excuse to do evil things. Usually by using scripture twisting to justify it. After all, you can take almost anything out of context, and make it say something else-until someone who knows the whole story calls bullshit on it.


Now waitaminnit!
 
You can't say it's god's credit when people are good, but not his fault when they are bad. but you just did!


Actually that depends entirely on what religion you are talking about. This thread is not specifically about Christianity after all. Some religions have very specifically assigned deities for good and evil

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:33:58 PM   
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Time to grow up, people, and stop blaming goods will for our wars, poverty, cultural injustice, genocide, and the intrawebs destabilising influance on marriages in america.



It could easily be said that this is your own belief system, your own religion against religion. Making you as crazy as the rest of us.


Am I the only one who's noticed that the atheists on CM seem to be way more dogmatic and evangelical that the religious folk?


Atheism is a religion all it's own-they worship denial.


I wouldn't say they worship denial but they really are their own religion.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:37:02 PM   
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God is Good, it creates a belief that one is accountable to one with more power than oneself.

Only crazies use it as an excuse to do evil things. Usually by using scripture twisting to justify it. After all, you can take almost anything out of context, and make it say something else-until someone who knows the whole story calls bullshit on it.


Now waitaminnit!
 
You can't say it's god's credit when people are good, but not his fault when they are bad. but you just did!


Ignoratio Elenchi
 
I think he is talking about the belief in God and not God. That the belief in god is a good thing because it fills the hole of existential nihilism, but the belief in god can be a bad thing when used for the wrong purposes.

Whether God is or is not responsible is moot, because the subject was the belief in God.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:41:40 PM   
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God is Good, it creates a belief that one is accountable to one with more power than oneself.

Only crazies use it as an excuse to do evil things. Usually by using scripture twisting to justify it. After all, you can take almost anything out of context, and make it say something else-until someone who knows the whole story calls bullshit on it.


Now waitaminnit!
 
You can't say it's god's credit when people are good, but not his fault when they are bad. but you just did!


Actually that depends entirely on what religion you are talking about. This thread is not specifically about Christianity after all. Some religions have very specifically assigned deities for good and evil


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I almost wrote 'good answer' to that, but if you think about it, it's even crazier! <g>.
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:44:45 PM   
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 Do you think it is possible for someone to have 'faith' in God (or your deity or religion of choice) and live a BDSM lifestyle at the same time?If so how do you reconcile the two ?
I can`t wait to hear what folks say to this one .


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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:45:57 PM   
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Actually that depends entirely on what religion you are talking about. This thread is not specifically about Christianity after all. Some religions have very specifically assigned deities for good and evil


Dear AS-
 
I almost wrote 'good answer' to that, but if you think about it, it's even crazier! <g>.
 
Stay warm,
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Not really. It makes a great deal of sense for there to be conflicting forces in the world. We as humans are often conflicted with our desires. The desire to please oneself vs. the desire to please others, the desire for what will make us happy now vs. what will make us happy later and so on.

Because of the view I take on it, that God can neither be proven to exist or not exist, either is equally insane or equally sane.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:50:34 PM   
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I agree. but it's also unfair that I am stuck on this planet with a bunch of crazies who will kill us all, and to expect me to say "oh gee, God wants your crusade/jihad? well, I guess I must respect your craziness!"
 

Well, I disagree, because logically, their actions are disrespectful and intolerant of other people and their beliefs. Respect and tolerance have to go both ways.

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Well, given his factual history, I don't think he ever achieved the level of being firmly grounded before God that he sought. He seemed to live in constant struggle which led him to write the books under pseudonym

Personally, I used to try to outgrow that part of me and block it out, but as I learn more and grow, I find myself going back to it, little bit by little bit.

I would gladly discuss and argue about the existence of the entity of God, but as far as the belief in God, I think its something that is crucial to the human psyche. I think people find someway to fill that part with some kind of conception of God in one way or another. Whether its being a football fanatic, devoting one's life to following a team, worshiping the dollar, or self idolization. Thats just my own little theory though.

If you REALLY go though the nihilistic route, you could say that your reliance on rational thinking and logic are your own personal faith.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:53:37 PM   
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Actually that depends entirely on what religion you are talking about. This thread is not specifically about Christianity after all. Some religions have very specifically assigned deities for good and evil


Dear AS-
 
I almost wrote 'good answer' to that, but if you think about it, it's even crazier! <g>.
 
Stay warm,
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Not really. It makes a great deal of sense for there to be conflicting forces in the world. We as humans are often conflicted with our desires. The desire to please oneself vs. the desire to please others, the desire for what will make us happy now vs. what will make us happy later and so on.

Because of the view I take on it, that God can neither be proven to exist or not exist, either is equally insane or equally sane.


Dear AS-
 
Yes really- there's holes in the one god theory, so we're going to patch them up with more gods of different types? What are we, Mircosoft?
 
But Basing not just your life, but expecting others to base their life on something you can't prove is crazy. And I have never seen a religion that does not use concepts like good and evil to influcance the behavior of other people, and in fact, any religion that doesn't make conversion an impreitive is deeply flawed.
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 6:56:35 PM   
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Dear AS-
 
Yes really- there's holes in the one god theory, so we're going to patch them up with more gods of different types? What are we, Mircosoft?
 
But Basing not just your life, but expecting others to base their life on something you can't prove is crazy. And I have never seen a religion that does not use concepts like good and evil to influcance the behavior of other people, and in fact, any religion that doesn't make conversion an impreitive is deeply flawed.
 
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Again - not speaking specifically of Christianity TopCat. The thread is about religion as a whole.

I have absolutely no expections of others to base their life on anything. However, you can not prove that God does not exist therefore, you can not expect others to base their life on this either. By your own logic again, you are crazy.

Judiasm does not make conversion an impertive at all. In fact, potential converts are discouraged because Jews believe there is no need to convert. A person's own faith, whatever it is, will get them to heaven as long as they are good people.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:02:40 PM   
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I agree. but it's also unfair that I am stuck on this planet with a bunch of crazies who will kill us all, and to expect me to say "oh gee, God wants your crusade/jihad? well, I guess I must respect your craziness!"
 

Well, I disagree, because logically, their actions are disrespectful and intolerant of other people and their beliefs. Respect and tolerance have to go both ways.
 

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the probelm is that if you support their right to belief, you must also tolerate their right to follow those beliefs, including the one that says the the heatherns must be converted becuase it's the will of god. Tolerance in a losing game in this- it means you have to respect their attempts to convert or kill or oppress you, becuase they have a right to their beliefs.
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And re Kierkegaard, I do thiink that, had he lived, he might well have concluded that we should try to grow beyond the sprirtual need...
 


Well, given his factual history, I don't think he ever achieved the level of being firmly grounded before God that he sought. He seemed to live in constant struggle which led him to write the books under pseudonym

Personally, I used to try to outgrow that part of me and block it out, but as I learn more and grow, I find myself going back to it, little bit by little bit.

I would gladly discuss and argue about the existence of the entity of God, but as far as the belief in God, I think its something that is crucial to the human psyche. I think people find someway to fill that part with some kind of conception of God in one way or another. Whether its being a football fanatic, devoting one's life to following a team, worshiping the dollar, or self idolization. Thats just my own little theory though.

If you REALLY go though the nihilistic route, you could say that your reliance on rational thinking and logic are your own personal faith.


OK, I'll cop to that. I believe that man may yet be saved, if only he stops believeing and starts thinking. I can live with that. and noone else has too- but when I am king, it's gonna be be think or die.
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:06:39 PM   
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I agree. but it's also unfair that I am stuck on this planet with a bunch of crazies who will kill us all, and to expect me to say "oh gee, God wants your crusade/jihad? well, I guess I must respect your craziness!"
 

Well, I disagree, because logically, their actions are disrespectful and intolerant of other people and their beliefs. Respect and tolerance have to go both ways.
 

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the probelm is that if you support their right to belief, you must also tolerate their right to follow those beliefs, including the one that says the the heatherns must be converted becuase it's the will of god. Tolerance in a losing game in this- it means you have to respect their attempts to convert or kill or oppress you, becuase they have a right to their beliefs.
  


I think you are missing the point.

Each religion must respect each other. Just I respect your attempts to be a missionary for atheism, you could offer that same respect to a Christian missionary. Your right to impose religion, or non-religion, ends where my right to practice religion or non-religion begins. This is very similar to the debates regarding all rights in America. You have the right to free speech, yet I also have the right to remove you from my property if you are saying things I don't like there.

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:06:41 PM   
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Time to grow up, people, and stop blaming goods will for our wars, poverty, cultural injustice, genocide, and the intrawebs destabilising influance on marriages in america.



It could easily be said that this is your own belief system, your own religion against religion. Making you as crazy as the rest of us.


Am I the only one who's noticed that the atheists on CM seem to be way more dogmatic and evangelical that the religious folk?


Atheism is a religion all it's own-they worship denial.


No that is not it at all....Though not a confirmed atheist...I do have the ability to question all that is written whether it be from our Governments officials or Jesus Christ....It is a God given quality of some special humans to question that which we do not understand...Thank you Jesus!!! Praise the Lord!!!

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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:09:03 PM   
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Judiasm does not make conversion an impertive at all. In fact, potential converts are discouraged because Jews believe there is no need to convert. A person's own faith, whatever it is, will get them to heaven as long as they are good people.


Dear AS-
 
not quite- actually, zion (heaven) will only be attained by the chosen of God- that is, those who's mother's were jewish, and have lived in theirs lives by the law of god- you know, killing homos, stoning the impious, killing the children of your enemies.
 
as I said above, any religion that isn't shoving itself down your throat is flawed- becuase if you know what god wants, you have to share it with others- keeping it to youself would be wrong, wouldn't it?
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:10:43 PM   
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Dear AS-
 
See, I would condem the Aztecs- I think it is wrong to kill people because god told you to. In the case of the Aztecs, I would cut a little slack for the time period, but these weren't cavepeople- they had long distance communication, division of labor, a leisure class- a fairly advanced cultute, wheel or no wheel. But they killed people- lots of people- for god. I do condemn that.
 
Any sort of magical thinking- be it Quezelquotil <sp?> or leylines or the fairies at the bottom of the garden, or 'god wants me to submit to my master' is something I have to condemn, as a rational human being...
 
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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:15:18 PM   
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the probelm is that if you support their right to belief, you must also tolerate their right to follow those beliefs, including the one that says the the heatherns must be converted becuase it's the will of god. Tolerance in a losing game in this- it means you have to respect their attempts to convert or kill or oppress you, becuase they have a right to their beliefs.


Well, I never said anything about supporting anyone's right to belief though. I said that having beliefs and a conception of God was important. If they truly believe in a jihad as the will of their god, then thats their choice. Just like its my choice to believe that defending my family and stopping them is the right thing to do.

Our beliefs will most likely lead us to conflict. I can't stop people from choosing a path that I don't agree with, but if my idleness and passiveness out of some notion of "respecting their right to belief" betrays my own beliefs, well...what does that say about my beliefs?

But...I tell you what....if we both come up with a solution to this dilemna, I say we agree on equal credit as being the two individuals who found a way to stop war.







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RE: * Beliefs and beatings * - 11/21/2007 7:17:56 PM   
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Judiasm does not make conversion an impertive at all. In fact, potential converts are discouraged because Jews believe there is no need to convert. A person's own faith, whatever it is, will get them to heaven as long as they are good people.


Dear AS-
 
not quite- actually, zion (heaven) will only be attained by the chosen of God- that is, those who's mother's were jewish, and have lived in theirs lives by the law of god- you know, killing homos, stoning the impious, killing the children of your enemies.
 
as I said above, any religion that isn't shoving itself down your throat is flawed- becuase if you know what god wants, you have to share it with others- keeping it to youself would be wrong, wouldn't it?
 
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"Jews have never believed themselves possessed of the only "true" faith of exclusive pathway to God, which is why Judaism was never a missionary religion. Since the rabbis taught that all the righteous among the nations could attain "the world to come," there was no need to save the souls of the non-Jews; their own religions gave them access to the Holy One and to salvation." Choosing a Jewish Life, page 24 by Anita Diamant

"As a preface, it is useful to repeat Judaism's central belief that the people of all religions are children of God, and therefore equal before God. All people have God's love, mercy, and help. In particular, Judaism does not require that a person convert to Judaism in order to achieve salvation. The only requirement for that, as understood by Jews, is to be ethical." http://www.convert.org/differ.htm

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