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carlie310 -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:13:23 PM)
I've heard that single men don't use fabric softener (Downy, Bounce), only married men do.

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:15:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SilentTigresss Hello to all, Not sure just how "general" this is, but i would like to see opinions on how you figure out when someone isn't telling you the truth and they are indeed married or attached to a vanilla person. i do know of some, but would really like to read other people view on this please. Wonderful topic and this is one of the main reasons I am single. It is hard to find any man, that has no-one. I did not say "impossible", but it can be difficult. I have met many men that say they will date vanilla, until they find the right Mistress. That has never been acceptable to ME, especially if these dating relationships involve sex. I usually ask if they will just drop a woman they are seeing, when they meet a Mistress? Like I want a great catch, like that? No I learned many years ago, most men will not leave ONE woman until they have another woman to go to. Many men will stay in a bad or unhappy marriage until they have another woman to leave their wife for. I am sure I might get flammed, but ask yourself this. How many men do you know that left or divorced their wife {their decision to leave NOT hers}, and left their wife to move to an apartment or house by themself? No other woman waiting, no other woman already lined up to date? IMHO, you have to go a long way--to find a decent, available man, that has a lot of things going for him-- that is TOTALLY single, with no friends with benefits around. Many women are just to blind sided when they meet a man, to delve deeply into this matter.[;)]

Jeffff -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:19:57 PM)
I am single I only have a cell phone.........and I use the drier sheet things Jeff

SilentTigresss -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:23:09 PM)
Mz Mia, You will not get "flammed" from me on your opinion. As i watch others in the circle of deceit, i have seen exactly what you have descibed! This evening has turned out to be very much enlightening!

SilentTigresss -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:24:51 PM)
Laughing....

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:32:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SilentTigresss Mz Mia, You will not get "flammed" from me on your opinion. As i watch others in the circle of deceit, i have seen exactly what you have descibed! This evening has turned out to be very much enlightening! Thank you Tigress, I study men of all ages and races. I noticed this trend, when I heard it years ago. Most men will not leave a relationship or a woman {especially if they are still getting sex}, until they have another woman to go to, I found this to be true most of the time, unless the woman is abusing them, on drugs, or has some other serious problem. It normally has to get real bad for a man to leave a woman that is giving it up. Until or Unless he has another woman waiting or another woman to run to.

SilentTigresss -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:38:54 PM)
Hmm, and this is a "Man' World" ? "_ You are welcome, Mz.Mia i guess if he will do it once he would do it again anyway.

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:41:42 PM)
The choice is your's alone to make. All I am saying, IF he is so miserable or unhappy, or whatever, and things are so bad, why can't he leave and be on his own? Why does it take meeting another woman, to leave a woman? But look at it this way, the rich and famous do it also. I have had the hots for Brad Pitt for years and years. He did not leave Jen Aniston, until he ran off with Angelina! [:D]

SilentTigresss -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:44:12 PM)
i do understand what you are saying. Hehe.. Brad Pitt huh? i thank you for being clear with your definitions.

AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:48:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I am single I only have a cell phone......... Jeff Me too. When I am away from home, no one is there. People used to leave a message on my answering machine, and then call my cell anyway. It was bothersome, and I saved money dumping the home phone. It is obsolete for my lifestyle. I do *not, however, use the drier strip things. [:D] MzMia wrote: "It is hard to find any man, that has no-one*." All I can say to that is: I wish I weren't the exception to that rule. [;)]

carlie310 -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:48:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I am single I only have a cell phone.........and I use the drier sheet things Jeff I didn't say it was always true, but it is a quick test. But now you have me wondering. . . When I was single I didn't use dryer sheets,

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:51:13 PM)
Okay, fly you asked for it. You are not dating or "seeing" anyone? When was the last time you went on a date?

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 8:55:04 PM)
goto where they live just that simple their work their life be involed with them not out side of them how many times do you have to play with blinders on this is not a video game this is life.. People who have a agenda will always be preditory hunters in the sense of .If your a target they are going to find a way to put a big bulls eye on you.. Call them at any hour. If someone is honest they will not mind just that simple

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 9:03:10 PM)
One big clue, is when they are not around or available on Friday and Saturday nights. IF someone is totally single, you should be able to at least call them on Friday or Saturday nights. Ain't cell phones great? [;)]

FeistyBtch -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 9:03:43 PM)
I too have fallen victim to the married scammers out there. The ones who kill me are the ones who actually tell you up front they are married because they're so honest. I always ask if the wife knows, and usually she doesn't. That begs the question I always ask...."so, are you only honest with complete strangers then, but lie to the woman you're supposedly committed to for life?" Already I know this person is 100% dishonest. If they lie to the wife, they lie to everyone. A liar is a liar is a liar. They don't pick and choose who they lie to, or who they're honest with. I tend to go with my gut instinct today, and like so many posted before, the ones who suddenly disappear because they got booted, or don't get online for days because they're too busy, or don't come back when they're supposed to because they fell asleep or whatever excuse....are usually hiding something. If something seems fishy, it probably is.

NovaDragon -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 9:05:38 PM)
If their profile says they are "discreet." They are, because they want you to be, too! And I agree with the others who say it is better if they just admit up front that they are married. Do they think we won't find out eventually? And do they think we won't be upset that we've been deceived? Get real!

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 9:10:23 PM)
I have been on these boards almost 3 1/2 years. I have talked to hundreds and met ZERO men from this place. I take men through all sorts of tests before I meet them. If you can't pass, we don't meet. I think I should write a book, to help some women out. Hint #1 if he is not available on weekends, buy a clue.

MzMia -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 10:02:26 PM)
I wanted to add Tigress, the single men with "female vanilla relationships", tend to be a lot harder to catch, especially in the beginning. They might have friends with benefits, in which they only cash in on the benefits every now and then. [:D] They might go a couple of weeks or months, without having fun with their "friends with benefits". Sometimes they have had benefits for years, and can go to these women whenever they want. How do you "catch" these?

allcatsaregrey -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 10:53:25 PM)
'Least you're honest - 10 points of experience to you, sir. [:D]

allcatsaregrey -> RE: Secretly Married or attached to a vanilla People (12/15/2007 11:00:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia How many men do you know that left or divorced their wife {their decision to leave NOT hers}, and left their wife to move to an apartment or house by themself? No other woman waiting, no other woman already lined up to date? I agree - my parents did not split up until my dad had met his new girlfriend at work. It finally gave him the impetus to run out on the family... Still, I might have met the one guy in the universe who doesn't fit you description.

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