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What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 3:59:46 AM

GoddessTeaze

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I'm interested in what begging does to you, being a sub who needs to beg for things..?
How does it make you feel,
what happends in your body?

Thanks for your reponds already.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 4:17:47 AM

Einzelganger

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I never understood begging. I usually ask, and when she declines, I assume it's final and stop asking; otherwise, I feel like I'm being a pest. *shrugs* Maybe that's just me; I tend to follow the 'subs should be seen, not heard' guideline, I suppose.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 4:40:38 AM

rubberpet

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I never understood begging. I usually ask, and when she declines, I assume it's final and stop asking; otherwise, I feel like I'm being a pest. *shrugs* Maybe that's just me; I tend to follow the 'subs should be seen, not heard' guideline, I suppose.

-Einzelgänger

I share that same mindset. I'll ask for something, respectfully, of course. If She declines, I'll drop it. As for verbally begging, I really don't do it. No means no. If Mistress wants me to beg, I'm not very good at it, but I give it my best shot. To me, it's never been convincing. Instead, dropping to my knees, whimpering, and gazing up at Her with pleading eyes as I nuzzle against Her legs and kiss Her boots may be considered a different form of begging. I hope that form works.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 5:58:15 AM

cherrypez

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

I'm interested in what begging does to you, being a sub who needs to beg for things..?
How does it make you feel,
what happends in your body?

Thanks for your reponds already.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

For me there is no need to beg for things. But when he requires that I beg for certain things, I love it.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 6:18:11 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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fast reply

i don't need to beg - i simply ask Daddy and/or SO and sometimes i receive

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 6:29:41 AM

lilmissattitude

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first, congrats sambamanslilgirl on the engagement!!

here's the thing. i have 4 ums...when i say no and they beg it annoys me because no = no! Daddy does not have any ums. He would like me to beg more, but i am uncomfortable asking for something more than once. if Daddy says no i assume that that is the answer. He has asked me before why i didnt ask again later. my response? because you already said no. if there are any "books" (lol) on begging i would love to read them. i know that sometimes Daddy would love to hear it, but i just dont know how.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 6:35:02 AM

takenbyjohnr07

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My Owner sometimes will ask me to beg. i know that he rnjoys it at times and only in particular situations.

i beg for him, so it makes me feel good all over. i feel the submission rise in me, i feel feminine and i feel helpless,then suddenly i want what i am begging for more than anything and i can't wait to be given permission to do what i',m begging for.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 7:39:23 AM

venusinblu

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If i ask for something and Master says no .. well, no it is .. Besides there is normally a very good reason why He says no!

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 8:37:51 AM

GoddessTeaze

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Hello Aall,
thank you for your responds, maybe I wasn't clear enough, it sure wasn't ment in that you would want to get your way at all times.. I was more thinking how takenbyjohn07 ment it..
when you serve the One

maybe that's clearer?

Have a great sunday Yya Aall!

GoddezzT`

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 12:38:28 PM

ownedgirlie

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The only things I ever beg for are the things he enjoys watching me beg for - to suck his cock when he holds it so close I can feel its heat but can't get to it, and to cum when he has held me on the edge of an orgasm for an excruciatingly long time. He loves tormenting me like this - it feeds his sadistic streak. When I beg, I can only see and feel that which I am begging for. The world around me no longer exists, and I swear if I do not get that one thing, I will implode, lol. I am consumed by it.

Begging for most other things is intolerable and I don't do it.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 12:48:01 PM

WhatiDesire

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I have had to beg for things before and I have enjoyed it more because it's what He wanted me to do :)

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 12:52:24 PM

KnOcala

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I'm not into begging. As a dom, where all my experiences have been, I do as I wish (within preset limits), I don't want to hear begging. As a sub, which I have yet to experience, I expect to obey without question and submit myself to her wished (within preset limits). No reason for begging.
I

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 1:56:50 PM

littlebitxxx

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I don't beg, never have, probably never will. I will request (forcefully at times according to my man...lol) and then wait. Patience will out every time. If he says no, then it's no and I will wait coz I'll get it sooner or later anyway. If he says yes, then it's sooner. There is nothing, absolutely nothing, exciting or fireworks-y enough to require begging for it. Like I said, chances are it will happen anyway.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 2:28:39 PM

Bound2One

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

The only things I ever beg for are the things he enjoys watching me beg for - to suck his cock when he holds it so close I can feel its heat but can't get to it, and to cum when he has held me on the edge of an orgasm for an excruciatingly long time. He loves tormenting me like this - it feeds his sadistic streak. When I beg, I can only see and feel that which I am begging for. The world around me no longer exists, and I swear if I do not get that one thing, I will implode, lol. I am consumed by it.

Begging for most other things is intolerable and I don't do it.

Yes, exactly! Thanks for saying it for me, ownedgirlie.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 2:49:38 PM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
When I beg, I can only see and feel that which I am begging for. The world around me no longer exists, and I swear if I do not get that one thing, I will implode, lol. I am consumed by it.

This is what I was after,
you can describe it so well.
Thanks for your honest answer
ownedgirlie.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 3:08:01 PM

juliaoceania

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My former dom liked me to beg, it was pleasant I suppose. It isn't one of my biggest turn ons.

For my Daddy, he wants me to request certain things, but not to beg for them.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/20/2008 5:14:41 PM

littleone35

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Master does not make me beg at least not on purpose. Of course when he bring me to the edge and holds me there i have benn know to beg. He loves to tease me and that can usually lead to me begging "Master Please"

Matt's littleone

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 10:41:16 AM

Boondoggle

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When unwanted, begging is annoying and disrespectful. However, when I'm with a woman who wants me to beg, I love to. I revel in the humiliation and feelings of helplessness that being told to beg inspires. Begging is a very sexy way to express my (usually heightened) level of desire for whatever it is with which I'm being tempted. Being encouraged to creatively debase myself and illustrate my desperation, all for her amusement, is delightfully humiliating, especially when her encouragement plays off of my begging. I love it.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 10:56:44 AM

trueshadow

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[/quote]

I share that same mindset. I'll ask for something, respectfully, of course. If She declines, I'll drop it. As for verbally begging, I really don't do it. No means no. If Mistress wants me to beg, I'm not very good at it, but I give it my best shot. To me, it's never been convincing. Instead, dropping to my knees, whimpering, and gazing up at Her with pleading eyes as I nuzzle against Her legs and kiss Her boots may be considered a different form of begging. I hope that form works.

[/quote]

Exactly my mindset. I've very obedient, and I would find it disrespectful to question her authority or her decisions.
However, on my knees, gazing up into her eyes and licking her boots sounds delicious, respectful, and appropriate.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 10:59:44 AM

meticulousgirl

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i've never really understood the whole begging tactic, when it's been required it just makes me nervous because, i never know what to say or how to say it, and am always afraid that i'll somehow screw it up....

~meticulous~

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