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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 11:46:25 AM   
BabyKittyKat


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Status: offline 		Well, if I really want something, I beg. If I don`t, I drop it. Daddy loves to hear me beg, since that way He knows I`ll be very happy if I get what I want. I think that`s the main reason - He wants to be sure that I want something, before I get it  I`m a little brat, what can I say.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 1:17:49 PM   
tempest74


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Status: offline 		I beg for orgasms with my eyes...that pleading look he loves.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 1:43:57 PM   
subminky


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Status: offline 		Hello, being an older male sub i love to beg for things and it really turns me on

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:04:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		i'll have to disagree with most of the submissive's answers.. Begging for me is part of a ritual and brings great excitement to me.. It also is another way of showing humility to the D, not to mention the effects it has on my libido!!

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:35:19 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

fast reply

i don't need to beg - i simply ask Daddy and/or SO and sometimes i receive


Congratulations to the both of Yyou!
And a lovely engagement.

I wish Yyou both enough!!

Warm Greetingz

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:37:40 PM   
fluffyswitch


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ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I never understood begging.  I usually ask, and when she declines, I assume it's final and stop asking; otherwise, I feel like I'm being a pest. *shrugs* 

-Einzelgänger

same here. i generally don't feel the need to beg and i generally just do what i want if it's not something that will get me punished because neither my primary nor my domme really care either way as long as it's not something that i know will deliberate piss them off. otherwise begging's not really worth my time and too much work.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:39:33 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: lilmissattitude
first, congrats sambamanslilgirl on the engagement!!

i know that sometimes Daddy would love to hear it, but i just dont know how.

I didn't think that so many of you would misunderstood My question.
I don't mean to get your way as a spoiled brat,
I mean in play, when He makes you beg for
more......
(fill in the blanks)
A young sub told Me what it did to him, and he never knew it was such a good thing to do..
so that's why it made Me curious, and I do
make em beg for More
*EG*

Thank you lilmis for your reply.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:40:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

What does begging do to you...?


 
It gets me a knowing stare and then my ass gets smacked, and not in the nice way... 

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:42:51 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: WhatiDesire
I have had to beg for things before and I have enjoyed it more because it's what He wanted me to do :)

There ya go !!!!

thank you WhatiDesire

Warm Greetingz

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:45:00 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: KnOcala
As a dom, where all my experiences have been, I do as I wish (within preset limits), I don't want to hear begging. 

I wasn't for begging either, till I discovered the mindfuck behind it..
it's nice in play, but then again, it can't be everyonce kink !!

Warm Greetingz

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:49:09 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: Boondoggle

When unwanted, begging is annoying and disrespectful.

I couldn't agree with You more!!!

quote:


However, when I'm with a woman who wants me to beg, I love to. I revel in the humiliation and feelings of helplessness that being told to beg inspires. Begging is a very sexy way to express my (usually heightened) level of desire for whatever it is with which I'm being tempted. Being encouraged to creatively debase myself and illustrate my desperation, all for her amusement, is delightfully humiliating, especially when her encouragement plays off of my begging. I love it.

Now this part was what I was after !!!!
thank You for sharing.


Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`



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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 2:53:53 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: petpete
i'll have to disagree with most of the submissive's answers.. Begging for me is part of a ritual and brings great excitement to me.. It also is another way of showing humility to the D, not to mention the effects it has on my libido!!

that's just because you're a slut pete!


Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/21/2008 3:39:38 PM   
Statepalace


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Status: offline 		Begging (not in an obnoxious child way) is extraordinarily hot.

The only real begging I do is for an orgasm, and believe me it can get to the point where my mind is so overwhelmed with sensation that the need to have one feels like the need to take my next breath.

Begging is a dramatic way to make me feel little and helpless. Needy. When we first talked about it I figured that would be part of it. To have to ask for something so basic is really humbling. He likes it when He can MAKE me beg. He wants a genuine reaction, and I don't like begging. If He told me to I would, but that's not the way we play. That impassioned, desperate and breathy "please" is what He likes to hear.


What surprised me was how I felt when He told me no and meant it. Wow. Two weeks ago - we had spent a few hours after He arrived just playing lightly, very playfully. Plans were to go out to dinner, then return back to the house for a long evening. Sadistic Rat Bastard (pet name, really it is) decides to get me worked up over and over again, then just STOP, over and over again.

I'm lying on His chest, both of us now fully clothed, and I am literally quivering with how much I need to orgasm. I beg, and I mean it. He looks me in the eyes and very softly says "no". Puts His hand on my hair and pets my head as He begins to flip channels on the t.v.  

The "wow" part was how safe and blissed out I felt when He said it. That feeling even helped take the frantic edge off my need. Weird, maybe, but that's how it felt.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/22/2008 7:49:25 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If I have to beg for something, then I stop wanting it. It's humiliating and degrading and I don't do those things at all.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/22/2008 8:10:26 AM   
burningdesires47


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Status: offline 		well if it makes you feel any better, O totally understood what you meant. Apparently, many of the subs here don't get the idea that sometimes you ask for something and don't get an immediate answer... AT ALL. No means no, but what if there is no "no"? You're asking and subsequently begging for orgasm and he doesn't respond, just keeps stimulating you but doesn't do anything to send you over the edge, doesn't give you permission but doesn't say no...

I hate begging. Except once I've already hit a sort of subspace, it's soooooo hot. Humiliating, it reminds me how he is totally in control... I feel so completely "HIS."

The only problem is, I will only break down to the point of begging for something that I really need. Actually come to think of it, I think the only point I have EVER broken down to the point of begging without knowing that was the goal (which makes me break down earlier just to get it over with) was for orgasm. And if I am to the point of begging for it, there is actual PAIN--bad pain--involved in not getting tipped over the edge. And perhaps, that need to safeguard myself against that pain (and the subsequent abrupt removal from subspace where I try very very hard not to throw things or become homicidal) is the only thing that allows me to beg, for as much as I normally hate it.

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/22/2008 10:24:36 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		Now You calling me a slut GT... Can You imagine me??? a short fat and stumpy guy, hooking down a highway, with hairy chest and legs, i bet the neither the corset nor the stocking will fit so well on me.. i know i can manage the hills but i dont think the stilettos will fit well enough... i may look like that character (klinger) in MASH but more of a chubby version.. Cheers everybody..

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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/23/2008 11:11:15 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: Statepalace
Begging (not in an obnoxious child way) is extraordinarily hot.
The only real begging I do is for an orgasm, and believe me it can get to the point where my mind is so overwhelmed with sensation that the need to have one feels like the need to take my next breath.

Thank you for your wonderfull experiance
regarding begging!

Life can be so beautiful

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/23/2008 11:14:24 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If I have to beg for something, then I stop wanting it. It's humiliating and degrading and I don't do those things at all.

*chucklz*

GoddezzT`


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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/23/2008 11:17:00 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: burningdesires47
I hate begging. Except once I've already hit a sort of subspace, it's soooooo hot. Humiliating, it reminds me how he is totally in control... I feel so completely "HIS."


Now That's the mindfuck!!!!

Very nice to hear about that.
Thank you for sharing.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: What does begging do to you...? - 1/23/2008 11:21:04 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: petpete
Now You calling me a slut GT... Can You imagine me???

Yes I can !!!!

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