collaredncontent
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Joined: 1/21/2008 From: GA, USA. Status: offline
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I always think I'll enjoy begging him in a sexual context...but then when we try I just find it hard to get out. I have issues with asking for what I want, which this relationship dynamic is helping me work through. I don't ask for much and I take 'no' for 'no'. My sister was a begger and usually annoyed the parents into getting what she wanted. I'd rather go without than have to beg or manipulate to get my way. Possibly that stems from how annoying my sister seemed when she did it. I'm not very prideful or arrogant, I just really hate being an imposition to anyone or making anyone go out of their way for me. I'd rather just not have what I want. But, I am trying to get better at simply asking for what I need and what I want, but I doubt I'll ever get good at begging. -Brian.
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