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RE: No true dominant women? Why? - 1/24/2008 5:56:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

A lot of folks confuse being domineering with being a dominant.

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ORIGINAL: kitttty

What is it that people sometimes say on this board? That there are no truly dominant women? No 100% Dommes or something?

Is it true that this is some kind of repeated debate?

Why? Why on earth would some people think that there are no truly dominant women while there are truly dominant men?

Seriously, this is an opinion that is kind of commonly held in the kink community?

There seems to be the popular belief, as stated by others on this thread, that some men think dominant women have just not met the right dominant man yet.
Very few men ever actually have the balls to ask me to bottom, much less to submit, there are even a few dominant men that are "afraid" to "lay a hand" on me.
I will admit though, that I don't like to dominate just anyone. I actually have to like the person. ;) Maybe that's what they mean? Maybe they think I can't be 100% dominant if I have no interest in dominating everyone who crosses my path.

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RE: No true dominant women? Why? - 1/24/2008 6:04:57 PM

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Everyone has their own beliefs, deep rooted into their belief system, or sometimes, scarily, not deep rooted at all but above ground in a need to be heard, or like those which they for some reason or another may or may not look up to.

An extreme belief does not always make one arrogant, or rude, or obnoxious, as much as it may make them *sound* that way. Some people just truly believe with best interest in heart that the world is a certain way. Just like a Christian demands (within or outside of themself, depending on their demenor) that they "have it right" and all others with any sort of faith believe that they have a higher calling of their own.

I suppose such a lifestyle will be broadcasted just as religious debate. Some people are outspoken extremists on one side or the other, stressing themselves and anyone weak enough to be affected by it out, while the rest, the majority just enjoy the in between balance of reality.

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RE: No true dominant women? Why? - 1/24/2008 6:10:04 PM

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Some do not see nor feel the magic that is a woman.
The grace and ellagance of a woman that should be respected.
Because women are nurturing does not nessesaraly translate to submissivness.
A softer sweeter voice does not nessesaraly translate to submissiveness either.
My point of veiw.
Respectfully, LTP

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RE: No true dominant women? Why? - 1/24/2008 9:42:16 PM

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Too true. I got an email the other day saying that I couldn't be a Domme, as I'm just too short.

Ha! There's a woman I play with now and then that's not quite 5' tall. We did a takedown scene for her as a birthday gift last summer and it took one male ultimate fighter and two big strapping women to grab her, carry her over to me and hold her down long enough for me to tie her to a cross. She nearly escaped several times. She put up a fantastic fight! She's a great switch and when she tops, she puts all that strength and sheer physicality into her scenes and the people bottoming to her are never left wanting more. She's amazing. I would never mistake height for ability after knowing her.

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RE: No true dominant women? Why? - 1/24/2008 11:18:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: kitttty

What is it that people sometimes say on this board? That there are no truly dominant women? No 100% Dommes or something?

Is it true that this is some kind of repeated debate?

Why? Why on earth would some people think that there are no truly dominant women while there are truly dominant men?

Seriously, this is an opinion that is kind of commonly held in the kink community?

There are two sides of that coin. There are those who believe in Natural Order and there are those who believe in Female Supremacy.

And there's everything in between. I am inclined to believe neither sex is the all powerful one. I do not believe in Supremacy of any race, religion, sex or anything else.

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