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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 10:08:55 AM   
GrizzlyBear


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ORIGINAL: venusinblu

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I wondered if he thought that beating you would make him hard?
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Geez, that usually does the trick for me.  But I'm a sadist so no big surprise there...


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 12:02:17 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		Low self esteem in not in my book, I am a very attractive woman. Every morning I wake up and hug plus kiss my self. I know that I am smart and a very good business woman and no one can take that away from me. My manners until I am around Daddy is bitch mode, because I do run a few business and I am getting ready to expand one of my business where as I will be in charge of fifty staff members. Daddy is a loving person. He has expressed his fears of losing me. Daddy knows I can have any man I want and I was nice enough to choose him, but I did not know about his ED problem.

I feel in my heart that a Dom should warn, tell a submissive that he has an Ed problem this way if we don’t want to be bothered with the Dom it is our choice.

There should be a sign saying “WARNING THIS DOM HAS ED”

First off I want to thank everyone for their comments. Some of you are just too much.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 2:06:56 PM   
KatyLied


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I feel in my heart that a Dom should warn, tell a submissive that he has an Ed problem this way if we don’t want to be bothered with the Dom it is our choice.


You've learned something.  Next time be sure to ask the question "do you have ED?" 


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 2:15:29 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		This gave me a headache. Jeez. Tell the man to see a doctor, go with him and mention the ED issue. The doctor will then agree or disagree with him listening. That will solve the 'why'. As to the rest I don't know what to say which is rare for me. You have such an attitude of almost... disgust towards him and that bothers me immensely.  If you don't want to be flogged for his flaciddity then flee.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 3:20:21 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		He should have said "WARNING I HAVE ED PROBLEM" then I could have handle it. But to tell a woman that he would be too much for her in the bedroom and then he is erectile dysfunctional oh HELL NO! The sad part is he can not accept the fact he is ED and wants to take it our on me.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 3:31:35 PM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Seriously? Grow up.  Passive aggressive oh poor me.
You were there.  It happened.  You allowed him to beat you - YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.  Your supporting his problem by trying to be supportive.  YOUR CHOICE.  You should have found out if he had any medical problems before 'becoming his'.  You are to blame just as much as he is (if there is any blame to be had) by supporting his problem.  Get to a doctor.  Stop submitting to being beaten.  Stop laying blame around or go find someone else if you are so wonderful.  I am really wondering who is the dominant in this relationship.
 
Personally, your 'understanding' and 'attractiveness' to me?  Kinda sucks.
But to each their own.
 
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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 3:41:35 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		He is not erectile dysfunctional... he HAS erectile dysfunction.  It is a medical condition, not a state of being.

And if he is beating you in the bedroom and you cannot handle it, then he IS too much for you in the bedroom.

I'm unclear on what part of this remains unclear to you.  Get help or get out, make a decision, just quit kvetching about it.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 3:49:28 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		No I am not doing the poor me act, and no he is not too much for me in the bedroom.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 4:02:07 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

No I am not doing the poor me act, and no he is not too much for me in the bedroom.


Then what exactly are you here bitching about???

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 5:58:21 PM   
KatyLied


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a Dom should warn, tell a submissive that he has an Ed problem this way if we don’t want to be bothered with the Dom it is our choice.


This is the sort of way you talk about someone who in your op you said you "love"?  There are issues in the relationship and they go much deeper than his limp dick.


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 6:18:51 PM   
everhope


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 7:45:04 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

Low self esteem in not in my book, I am a very attractive woman. Every morning I wake up and hug plus kiss my self. I know that I am smart and a very good business woman and no one can take that away from me. My manners until I am around Daddy is bitch mode, because I do run a few business and I am getting ready to expand one of my business where as I will be in charge of fifty staff members. Daddy is a loving person. He has expressed his fears of losing me. Daddy knows I can have any man I want and I was nice enough to choose him, but I did not know about his ED problem.

I feel in my heart that a Dom should warn, tell a submissive that he has an Ed problem this way if we don’t want to be bothered with the Dom it is our choice.

There should be a sign saying “WARNING THIS DOM HAS ED”

First off I want to thank everyone for their comments. Some of you are just too much.



Honestly a person that has to say this load of bs to everyone else, has low self-esteem (you not him).  Stop patting yourself on the back.  Either talk to the guy or leave him, but professing your greatness while degrading him isn't really all that convincing of how horrible he is to YOU.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 7:49:22 PM   
cautiousiasub


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ORIGINAL: laurell3

Honestly a person that has to say this load of bs to everyone else, has low self-esteem (you not him).  Stop patting yourself on the back.  Either talk to the guy or leave him, but professing your greatness while degrading him isn't really all that convincing of how horrible he is to YOU.


Well said! We're hearing one side of the story here, and the more I hear, the less I want to.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 8:03:49 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		OK, I admit, I didnt read the whole thread. Long story short.... a 45 year old, attractive and super confident, in love with herself, smart and arrogant woman, who can have any guy she wants, allows man to beat her in anger and asks if she should stay or go?

There must be something I'm missing, because this is a no brainer.

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 8:41:48 PM   
AquaticSub


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Others have asked and I'm still curious..

Has he outright said "I am beating you because my dick is limp"? Have you talked to him about this? Have you tried saying "Hey, I don't appreciate this, let's figure out how to make it work"?

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 1/31/2008 8:42:05 PM >

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 10:10:38 PM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

Low self esteem in not in my book, I am a very attractive woman. Every morning I wake up and hug plus kiss my self. I know that I am smart and a very good business woman and no one can take that away from me. My manners until I am around Daddy is bitch mode, because I do run a few business and I am getting ready to expand one of my business where as I will be in charge of fifty staff members. Daddy is a loving person. He has expressed his fears of losing me. Daddy knows I can have any man I want and I was nice enough to choose him, but I did not know about his ED problem.

I feel in my heart that a Dom should warn, tell a submissive that he has an Ed problem this way if we don’t want to be bothered with the Dom it is our choice.

There should be a sign saying “WARNING THIS DOM HAS ED”

First off I want to thank everyone for their comments. Some of you are just too much.


*sniffs*....do I smell an asshole in the room?


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 10:12:21 PM   
MissMagnolia


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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 10:20:49 PM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		If I encountered this stupid, spiteful, mean woman, my cock would wilt, too. 
 
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RE: Erectile Dysfunction - 1/31/2008 10:23:56 PM   
Maestro66babycak


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

Our problems lyes with him be erectile dysfunctional. I understand how he feels because last year I had found a lump in my breast. All I could think about was losing my breast,so I am trying to work this matter out.

That is the most ridiculous thing I have heard you say so far. YOU can not compare finding a lump in a breast to loosing control of the one thing that a man loves most- his penis! I am sure you love your breasts too, but even without BOTH  of them YOU  can still have sex! Your problem is NOT your Master/Dom's erectile dysfunction...your problem is a total lack of respect and compassion! SHAME ON YOU!!!

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RE: Erectile Dysfunctonal - 1/31/2008 10:24:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

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HEY!!...don't critize my kink!


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