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softness -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/4/2008 2:36:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Milivoje
Dear softness,
First of all I would like to say that this is not orgasm control, as my slave willingly embraced her abstinence. She is not having orgasms, if you told her to have one, I am sure she would obey ... thus you are controling her orgasms .. all orgasm control requires the consent and obediecne of the submissive involved My slavegirl experiences pleasure from sexual activities, but has no need to achieve orgasm. Most slaves do, this is nothing special, and the majority of slaves do this without being denied orgasms for extreme lengths of time.
From my personal opinion there are slaves who enjoy their selflessness and slaves who desire to get pleasure from their masters.and there are those who are both, the two statements are not mutually exclusive
Both are Ok, but from my point of view a slavegirl who would “lose momentum” simply is not enjoying a certain activity for whatever reason. Two possible reasons may be:
1) The slavegirl is not really willing to explore new ways of experiencing pleasure.losing momentum means something does not remain the priority, after a period of time without an orgasm the subject becomes neutral and so loses its power, it is no longer potent because it is no longer an issue ... this has nothing to do with unwillingness to experience new things ... i like experiencing new cuisine but i dont continue to eat a dish that does nothing for me ... especially if that dish is gruel (the culinary equivolent of extended orgasm denial)
2) The slavegirl in reality is too dependent on her own pleasure (one might say selfish), which in return can harm the relationship with her master. Too dependent on my own pleasure ... show me a "true" act of altruism and i you show you where the selfish pleasure lies... slaves do what they do because it pleases them, at some basic and core level they do it because they want to, yes individual acts may be unpleasant but the whole experience of slavery is one that pleases them whether it be (like me) because you can become utterly devoted to another persons pleasure, or because you revel in the pain and humilaition of being another persons fuck hole ... i am still being utterly selfish .. the bi product of that selfishness is a happy and useful slave. As to wanting an orgasm and so being focussed on my own pleasure ... i can still be a perfectly pleasing slave and be granted orgasms ... if he isn't bothered about me having one with him ... fine .. am mroe than able to sort myself out away from him .. but what man would not want to share than one moment when body is really not my own to control, when it is totally focussed on feeling and nothing more
I would like to point out again that this is not denial in the usual way as my slavegirl experiences all the pleasures of various sexual activities paired with all the pleasures of giving me pleasure. All this without: the need for her to orgasm. if she isn't ahving an orgasm then she is being denied them ... whether by herself, a wish to please you, or by your direct order she is being denied them.
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