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fairerthanshe -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/5/2008 6:11:33 PM)
Greetings, Perhaps her temporary denial allowed the focus to be shifted to her Master's pleasure and he will become multi - orgasmic, after all June 17th is over 4 months away. Who knows that the result of this experiment won't be wonderful for them both? It certainly has made me think about our sexual relationship and wonder if my movements are geared toward my own pleasure or towards SJ's. food for thought ~ fairer

salilus -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/5/2008 6:49:24 PM)
I know one M/f couple that does this, successfully. The master has trained his slave not to want orgasms for herself - she finds pleasure in the act of pleasing him. She does have periods of time where she is not allowed to cum at all, but never for four months. I think he really enjoys her orgasms, though. Personally? Daddy's idea of control is forcing me to cum. And yes, at times, it really is an act of force. He enjoys my need and cravings and my desires and loves to hear beg. He likes knowing I'm all tied up in knots inside and it's all his doing. He does say no sometimes... but never for more than a day or two. In the beginning of our relationship, I told him I didn't want to have orgasms and that I didn't care if I did or not as long as he got off. He didn't allow that to last very long. My theory is that if everyone's happy and no one is being neglected - cool beans. Whatever makes you happy is a good thing. :)

candigirrl -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/5/2008 7:18:55 PM)
Glad things are working out so well for you icy_flame [:)] In a previous relationship, my first, I was open minded, willing and submitted to his full control in sex and orgasm training and denial. I am opposite from you, I guess, the experiment was a flop! He was ecstatic - for the opposite reason your partner is! Easily and with no special effort, distraction or loss of concentration of my partner's pleasure - I have always been mult orgasmic, easily satisfied and happy. Do other girls maintain coordination during orgasm? I do - please use your imagination. ( I don't fall off the horse) I hear a lot of women need extra attention to orgasm and that is normal. Is that it? Anyway, this easily responsive girl found it impossible to orgasm at all! He could not bring it back. He was upset. He had NO CONTROL. Imagine! He realized his devoted, happy, hot girl was a joy and he shouldn't break his toy and ruin the good thing he had going! It took 2 months for my body to adjust back to normal after 3 months of orgasm training. So , he went ahead and did his stuff and I came and came and pleased him MORE. Me and orgasms mix well and I am always dedicated to a master's pleasure. Can it be some people just turn off after they come? Wouldn't it be great if HE could have more of his own orgasms? Would he like that? I can vouch - It's really fun to try ! [;)]

Milivoje -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/6/2008 1:35:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Too bad you didn't concentrate on making HIM multi-orgasmic, instead of restricting your own. Cali You need not worry about this matter, it will happen as soon as I want it to happen.

eyesopened -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/6/2008 2:11:16 AM)
Your question was how many slavegirls enjoy this and it would appear not too many. Each relationship is different and You have Your perfect (for YOU) slavegirl. For me, being menopausal, i learned that after a certain age, the vagina can actually atrophy! What a horrible realisation! Therefore, frequent sexual activity complete with orgasms are essential to my overall good health. grins Lucky me!! And lucky for me, my Master wants me to be very, very healthy in this regard.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/6/2008 6:37:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Too bad you didn't concentrate on making HIM multi-orgasmic, instead of restricting your own. Cali Amen, sister.

softness -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/6/2008 4:34:40 PM)
something in me is smelling a rat .... but ... will keep quiet .. and watch with interest

RedMagic1 -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/6/2008 4:54:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm, Milijove, unless you and icy_slave have discussed this regimen with an ob-gyn doctor, you're playing with fire at the very least. As several women have posted, parts atrophy, and responses shut off. You are describing something that is edge-play at best. Long-term male chastity is also physically and psychologically dangerous. Unless she has been seen by a medical professional, you're not even practicing RACK, because you're not aware of the risks. icy_slave, go see a doc.

eyesopened -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 1:31:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm, Milijove, unless you and icy_slave have discussed this regimen with an ob-gyn doctor, you're playing with fire at the very least. As several women have posted, parts atrophy, and responses shut off. You are describing something that is edge-play at best. Long-term male chastity is also physically and psychologically dangerous. Unless she has been seen by a medical professional, you're not even practicing RACK, because you're not aware of the risks. icy_slave, go see a doc. For more information: http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW000/9339/9504.html http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/vaginal-atrophy/DS00770/DSECTION=9 Who am i to argue with the Mayo Clinic? grins

Milivoje -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 3:20:01 AM)
Well nowhere in vaginal atrophy has anyone mentioned the word orgasm. [8\|] Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe. [sm=crop.gif]

Sasy -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 3:46:11 AM)
Male thinking ........ Sometimes ya just gotta love it ....

AquaticSub -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 7:10:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje Well nowhere in vaginal atrophy has anyone mentioned the word orgasm. [8\|] Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe. [sm=crop.gif] I wouldn't assume anything when it comes to muscles atrophing. For that matter, sexual activity without orgasm does not use the same muscles so no, I wouldn't assume it's safe at all. Of course, you can easily settle this matter and be assured of your property's safety with a simple visit to her friendly gyno - don't be embaressed, trust me, they've heard more interesting stuff. Then you either know what you need to do to keep her vagina in good working order for very long-term enjoyment or you can come back and provide us with new information.

RCdc -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 7:17:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe. [sm=crop.gif] That is one of the most unsafe comments I believe I have read on here. the.dark.

vampiresscammy -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 7:45:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe. [sm=crop.gif] okay, I read all the posts, really I did, and was thinking of what exactly I wanted to say, and holy hannah, I just got stuck on this, my mind is reeling from this......... I'm all for "to each their own", but that just doesn't even sound safe, apperantly to me safe SANE and consentual are the primary important factors, but y'all have fun, hope no one gets hurt or ruins their toys

RCdc -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 8:37:22 AM)
I don't follow safe sane and consensual ethos, and even I can see there is a danger in that statement. I can't believe anyone can claim to be in control or have any reasonable authority when they assume something instead of teach themselves the facts. I would challenge the poster to respond on his statement and back it up in some reasonable and informed manner. the.dark.

daddysprop247 -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 8:49:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark quote: ORIGINAL: Milivoje Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe. [sm=crop.gif] That is one of the most unsafe comments I believe I have read on here. the.dark. perhaps i'm missing something, but what's so unsafe about it? there are plenty of women who lead active sex lives without orgasm and who suffer no physical harm because of it...actually i'm finding it hard to see the connection between orgasm and healthy pussy, to put it bluntly. the pussy does not need to orgasm in order to pulsate, throb, contract, etc...it is not as if without orgasm the pussy is just a dead motionless piece of meat.

RCdc -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 8:52:44 AM)
No prop, the point about the orgasm is not issue. The op says that because orgasm is not mentioned, he has assumed it is ok. He has not questioned it further, he has not found out the reality, he has not studied it intently or even questioned a gynacologist. He has simply 'assumed'. the.dark.

Milivoje -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 9:57:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark No prop, the point about the orgasm is not issue. The op says that because orgasm is not mentioned, he has assumed it is ok. He has not questioned it further, he has not found out the reality, he has not studied it intently or even questioned a gynacologist. He has simply 'assumed'. the.dark. I challenge you to post here the supposed "reality".

subtee -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 10:19:21 AM)
quote: This new form of pleasure consists in her full time devotion to my pleasure. This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm, without the need for release and in my opinion this is far better for her. From my perspective, right now she is a far better slave, totally immersed in her role, always willing to please me in any way possible. In doing so, she experiences something that is far greater than any orgasm she ever had. I'm wondering why her orgasm and her "full time devotion to [your] pleasure" are mutually exclusive?

Milivoje -> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. (2/7/2008 10:51:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee I'm wondering why her orgasm and her "full time devotion to [your] pleasure" are mutually exclusive? By all means they are not. This is just a phase in our relationship. My slave girl has explained this matter earlier in this post

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