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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/9/2005 8:56:35 PM   
amazonlea


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Status: offline 		Yup, gonna chime in on the whole preference side. Not everyone cares for fat girls, or blonds or dykes, or (fill in blank). I have a girlfriend who just turned 30 and swears that Willie Nelson is the sexiest man alive.

I have found though that I have better luck if I look for people who are more like me.... in my case, are close to my age range, larger, pagan, bi....

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/11/2005 8:55:42 AM   
Mistress_Alison


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Status: offline 		I must admit I havent looked through most of the posts as im a bit short of time today! However I just wanted to say that I prefer older male subs/slaves. I normally wont even entertain anyone under 30!

I think my preference to older men is due to the majority of them having self confidence and actually being able to hold a conversation! I know I am generalising here but I cant explain it any better without writing an essay!

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/13/2005 10:15:47 PM   
masochisdreaming


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Status: offline 		While many like to claim quote: kink and domination isn't sex or sexual. The obvious importants placed on the ages of prospective partners by both genders clearly indicates that the whole BDSM kink thing is very much sexual, and a sex act in itself.

While I enjoy it when a cruel woman hurts, degrades and humiliates me in a S&M context. The experience is far more exciting if she is provacatively atired in a sexual nature. Like many others, a youthful and sexually attractive dominatrix is far more stimulating. Just as I would eagerly surrender my flesh to full fill the sadist fancy of a young vivaciuos woman. It is reasonable that a sadist would enjoy beating a tall dark and handsom young hunk. Because it is, in trueth, sex.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/23/2005 12:17:11 PM   
dukieshazam


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Status: offline 		i have been reading the replies on age and im amazed at the attitude of some that 40"s is old. im 70 and i work full time in a young mans environment and outwork them. i have never missed a day of work to injury or sickness(last 11 yrs. it is a state of mind over matter. i have been looking for a mistress in the general area for a loooong time and im realizing its time to give up and go back to straight women.possibly one of them will like a little different foreplay. thanks (dukieshazam)

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/23/2005 12:43:58 PM   
Kasia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dukieshazam

i have been reading the replies on age and im amazed at the attitude of some that 40"s is old. im 70 and i work full time in a young mans environment and outwork them. i have never missed a day of work to injury or sickness(last 11 yrs. it is a state of mind over matter. i have been looking for a mistress in the general area for a loooong time and im realizing its time to give up and go back to straight women.possibly one of them will like a little different foreplay. thanks (dukieshazam)

I am not amazed that some find 40 yo old - I had the same attitude when I was 20. I find 60 yo old now, and probably will go on playing with them happily when I reach that age. And think of 80 yo as old then
Dont be so offended by other peoples opinions - I am sure there are plenty women out there who dont feel that 70 is old.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/23/2005 4:03:39 PM   
FTopinMichigan


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ORIGINAL: Kasia

Dont be so offended by other peoples opinions - I am sure there are plenty women out there who dont feel that 70 is old.


Well, if HE'S offended...I'm offended that he continues to blantantly lie about his age.

I would have to say that the issue of lying is more the problem in not meeting someone, from outward glance of the situation with the previous respondent. His profile and actual age (or at least the age he is NOW admitting, is a difference of five years, and I would wonder if it's not more). This information brought forth in another thread, started by him personally (as well as stated here also).

If a person blatantly lies about their age...then they are capable of lying about anything.

Age may or may not be important to everyone. I bet honesty IS important to everyone!

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/23/2005 7:18:24 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan


quote:

Age may or may not be important to everyone. I bet honesty IS important to everyone! K



You said it, K! There are a few guys that we know personally who are underrepresenting their age by DECADES. No pics, of course. What other mysteries are they going to reveal when the mask comes off?

Masochisdreaming: I agree that we would all like our fantasy play partner, whomever that might be. In real life, though, we choose who we are COMPATIBLE with, and who we can have a lasting relationship with, whether that relationship is marriage, or just a date to play every month. Everyone looks the same in the dark---or when we are blindfolded!

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/24/2005 12:13:19 PM   
LoneGoddess


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Status: offline 		In my case it's simple, I want someone my own age to share the journey of life with... someone older won't be around for it all necessarily... so where are the 60ish Dommes? I'll hazard a guess a lot of them don't bother with the net and prefer to attend local events or lead quiet lives with already established partnerships... but I could be wrong...

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/24/2005 12:16:25 PM   
Kasia


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ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan

Age may or may not be important to everyone. I bet honesty IS important to everyone!


Definitely. Amen to that.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/24/2005 3:50:47 PM   
dukieshazam


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Status: offline 		i get the feeling the dommes that have replied to my text are somewhat insecure.forgivng a mistake is one of the (I HOPE) VIRTUES OF A TRUE DOMME. i made a foolish mistake that if i was with a domme, would expect to be admonished as she saw fit, but then let it go. i am a honorable person . i again apologize for a mistake.(first one in my life) ONLY KIDDING!

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/24/2005 4:46:03 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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quote:

VIRTUES OF A TRUE DOMME.



Isn't honesty a virtue of a true sub?

Try updating your profile to reflect that you do indeed understand that fibbing about your age was a mistake.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/24/2005 6:47:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dukieshazam

i get the feeling the dommes that have replied to my text are somewhat insecure.forgivng a mistake is one of the (I HOPE) VIRTUES OF A TRUE DOMME. i made a foolish mistake that if i was with a domme, would expect to be admonished as she saw fit, but then let it go. i am a honorable person . i again apologize for a mistake.(first one in my life) ONLY KIDDING!


I am not sure how you one gets from advising that honesty is important to an assumption of insecurity on the part of the Domme. But I will say that I have read your posts and you are honest on the boards about your age (?? yes ??), but you continue to leave it as 65 on your profile. Mistake...ok. Leaving the mistake...not ok.
It's really a very quick and easy fix. So the wondering is why you haven't fixed it.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/25/2005 5:55:06 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dukieshazam

i get the feeling the dommes that have replied to my text are somewhat insecure.forgivng a mistake is one of the (I HOPE) VIRTUES OF A TRUE DOMME. i made a foolish mistake that if i was with a domme, would expect to be admonished as she saw fit, but then let it go. i am a honorable person . i again apologize for a mistake.(first one in my life) ONLY KIDDING!



Insecure?

dukieshazard, as the other ladies have pointed out, you clearly continue to lie about your age in your profile here. There is no honor is accepting advice, admitting a mistake, apologizing for it (more than once), and then continuing to lie about the issue at hand. To date, your profile still shows the lie. The insecurity is not mine, or the others ladies'.

Okay then....I believe your "second" mistake <kidding>, is that you still haven't changed your profile to reflect the truth.

It's a bit hard to accept an apology when the situation remains the same. I've not heard of there being honor in continuing a lie.
K

Edited for typo

< Message edited by FTopinMichigan -- 10/25/2005 5:56:45 AM >

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/25/2005 11:00:07 AM   
dukieshazam


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Status: offline 		thank you for your comments.they are well taken. my pic is one taken july/04 at marginal way in ogunquit maine. i have tried to change my profile but cant find the thing. added it to a section called my profile. i am not very good on this computer.thry dont like me. hope to get better.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/25/2005 12:13:30 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Well, all I can say is, you were able to do your profile in the FIRST place, right? And you can keep coming to this thread, too, and your computer allows you to post.

If you're having trouble, write to the support staff, and they will help you.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/25/2005 3:44:25 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dukieshazam

thank you for your comments.they are well taken. my pic is one taken july/04 at marginal way in ogunquit maine. i have tried to change my profile but cant find the thing. added it to a section called my profile. i am not very good on this computer.thry dont like me. hope to get better.


Dukie,
Step 1: Click on edit profile
Step 2: Go to the age box and change the 65 to 70
Step 3: Save Changes by scrolling to the bottom of the page and clicking on "Update Profile".
Voila! Instant fix! Hope this helps. I am sure several of us will be checking your profile in the next couple of days.
You have been officially challenged!


< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 10/25/2005 4:32:35 PM >

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/25/2005 7:57:17 PM   
dukieshazam


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Status: offline 		thank you all! i edited the profile! after fumbling thru a while. learning as i go ladies.

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/26/2005 7:40:27 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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ORIGINAL: dukieshazam

thank you all! i edited the profile! after fumbling thru a while. learning as i go ladies.


As are we all...I hope. Nice to see you found your way back to the profile. As another suggestion, you might change to a regular font, versus ALL caps. Online, the uppercase throughout a message is hard to read for some, and also implies shouting, or screaming for attention.

And, since you're younger than your years, if I were you, I'd say so, in the profile. Let someone know that while your chronilogical age may be 70, you're young at heart, body, etc.

Hope your search is going well.
K

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/26/2005 10:15:04 AM   
dukieshazam


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Status: offline 		thanksfor the critique. i will work on my profile.will try to change the font just for the font of it(a little humor?)

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RE: Why is age so important? - 10/26/2005 10:20:20 AM   
msangel4u


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Status: offline 		I would have to tell you that I prefer someone be honest up front about their age than my figuring it out on my own.

I never discount someone based on their age until I know them, see a picture, know what they are about.

I have dated submissive men as young as 21 and old as 56. It's the person not the number that drives me.

Look honestly at yourself however slim and tell me are you going for the older Dommes? Or are you looking for the 20 and 30 somethings because you feel young yourself?

Any dishonesty on the part of a potential partner gets him or her placed right back in the rat pack and not even with a snowballs chance in hell of getting to know me further at that point. So that is probably my strongest point for yes... Give it up. Also being honest up front with your appearance will give you better luck. I have 14 pictures posted. I change them often. I want potentials to know up front who they are speaking with.

To the ladies that want to control what subs say in the context of their posts give it up please. This is message forum for learning sharing and yes even ranting and raving when need be. If we cant learn from each other what is the point? I would agree that rude and disrepsctful posts should be abolished but pleaaseeeeeeee......

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