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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

Oh i don't know sparkling, considering how many of us that enjoy and engage in that type of dynamic have had to tolerate the squicked out looks and snide comments from others, i hardly consider it an "in thing".   Those of use who enjoy it will not cast it aside as a trendy thing.  It simply is the dynamic and power exchance some people enjoy.  Disparaging those who either enjoy it, or those who do not, seems a bit "snobbish" and condescending to me.  Just my thoughts...

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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

i can only speak from my own personal experience, and in that experience, i have been give those looks, and heard those comments from friends... not just other kinky people.  i simply cannot imagine telling anyone in my family that i am into a D/lg dynamic.  Most likely they would be on the phone looking for a therapist to cure me.

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i simply cannot imagine telling anyone in my family that i am into a D/lg dynamic.

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ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet


Edited to add, you will always find those who need to denigrate what people share because of their own issues... I find it better to just write those sorts of snarky passive aggressive insults off.

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Edited to add, you will always find those who need to denigrate what people share because of their own issues... I find it better to just write those sorts of snarky passive aggressive insults off.

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sweetwhencie
Disparaging those who either enjoy it, or those who do not, seems a bit "snobbish" and condescending to me.  Just my thoughts... 

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There you go again with your snarky passive aggressive comment.
If it was in any way- directed at me - your going the wrong way on a one way st.

I am NOT squicked out in any way. I dont have anything againist anyone who is into the daddy/lilgirl thing.

I said what was witten was IMO not a daddy dom, that those same qualities were what my dom had, he treated me with as much care-love etc as what is written, however I could never imagine calling him daddy. He was Not a father figure to me.

So you call sin daddy good for you. And I'm sure your family views that as a term of endearment. I called my husband daddy sometimes as well as a cute term of enderament around my family as well. I see however your family is not aware you call him daddy within a D/s relationship- why not? why hide that fact

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Thansks for the read lusciouslips...
 
Hard to put into words <for me>... what *its* like ...and whoever wrote that article did a good job of wording *it*.
 
I will agree with you...sometimes Daddy just has to hurt....her.
 
Tsk Tsk

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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

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sweetwenchie
Disparaging those who either enjoy it, or those who do not, seems a bit "snobbish" and condescending to me.  Just my thoughts... 

So I am also snobbish and condescending ?  lol  Good lord.
I said nothing about it being wrong or I disliked it- again just stated I didnt  view as daddy. What is written makes it sound as though, ONLY  "daddy doms" posess those quailities, Not true.

The comment on IN Thing was meant as- a few years ago there were mentions of slaves  then there was slaves slaves slaves written all over the boards. I view this daddy dom as the same- all over the threads. I just see it dieing down in time. Not that it will dissapear all together of couse not.

Any way I know I am wasting my time here. Those with the problem of people who disagree will not read what I have typed. They already made up their minds and are the ones who lack the ability to see we all can have a difference of opinion because theirs is the only right one.

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ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet

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There you go again with your snarky passive aggressive comment.
If it was in any way- directed at me - your going the wrong way on a one way st.

I am NOT squicked out in any way. I dont have anything againist anyone who is into the daddy/lilgirl thing.

I said what was witten was IMO not a daddy dom, that those same qualities were what my dom had, he treated me with as much care-love etc as what is written, however I could never imagine calling him daddy. He was Not a father figure to me.

So you call sin daddy good for you. And I'm sure your family views that as a term of endearment. I called my husband daddy sometimes as well as a cute term of enderament around my family as well. I see however your family is not aware you call him daddy within a D/s relationship- why not? why hide that fact

There have been a lot of people on this thread that are squicked by daddy doms. If you feel that my post was pointed at you when several submissives on this thread feel the need to defend their dynamics from people who passively aggressively insult calling our partners "daddy" is your choice.

I do think that your saying that we call our doms "daddy" because it is "in" was insulting to those of us that have this sort of relationship. As far as what you share with those you have a power exchange with, it is not my concern, nor even in my thoughts. I do not judge it as less than what I have, it has no importance to my life. I am not one to go around comparing my relationship with other people's relationships because that is just idiotic in my mind, and a sign of insecurity.


I would wonder why you care about my level of comfort in sharing the intimate details of my personal life with friends and family. It has no relevance to the thread, and I was just clarifying for someone else my situation. My reasons for not telling me family that we are D/s are my own, and not something I want to share on this thread... I will say this, my family know I am a masochist... because I felt it important that they understand that in case they ever see marks that they might attribute to abuse.

julia

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Whether or not there will be fewer references to Daddy Dominants is of no consequence to me or the way i choose to live my life.

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swtnsparkling
Any way I know I am wasting my time here. Those with the problem of people who disagree will not read what I have typed. They already made up their minds and are the ones who lack the ability to see we all can have a difference of opinion because theirs is the only right one.

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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

Strumpet-  you can go on and on how what I think- feel -say doesnt bother you at all. you have said that to soooo many on soooo many different threads, Ha! we all know it does bother you or you would not feel the need too keep announcing it. And respond with such vigor

wenchie

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Whether or not there will be fewer references to Daddy Dominants is of no consequence to me or the way i choose to live my life.

   Hmm did I say it was?

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swtnsparkling
Any way I know I am wasting my time here. Those with the problem of people who disagree will not read what I have typed. They already made up their minds and are the ones who lack the ability to see we all can have a difference of opinion because theirs is the only right one.

LOL  predictable  replys

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ORIGINAL: SeaDogret

Thank you, since I consider myself a DaddyDom, you have outlined my feeling, mission as it were for my sub's.

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ORIGINAL: SilkLaceNPearls

Wow I never really understood the Daddy Dom thing until I read that.  Now that I have read that I not only respect and understand it, but admire it. It is not for me but I do see why it would appeal to others. Another learning situation for me. Thanks.