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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 3:44:15 PM   
SinergyNstrumpet


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Strumpet- you can go on and on how what I think- feel -say doesnt bother you at all. you have said that to soooo many on soooo many different threads, Ha! we all know it does bother you or you would not feel the need too keep annouceing it. And respond with such vigor


You  can think whatever turns you on.... Seriously, the only time you come into my thoughts are when I read snarky comments from you to me and others that post here. Some people are really a legend in their own mind....

Enough of this back and forth for me, want to post about the topic of the thread, I will answer, but I am not going to rehash this here.

julia

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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 4:00:22 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: Noah

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ORIGINAL: SilkLaceNPearls

Wow I never really understood the Daddy Dom thing until I read that.  Now that I have read that I not only respect and understand it, but admire it. It is not for me but I do see why it would appeal to others. Another learning situation for me. Thanks.


That's all great.  Please keep in mind, though, that what was described was not "the" Daddy Dom thing but rather "one" Daddy Dom thing. .

Consider the full spectrum of actual  parental relationships. Many of them parallel the perhaps idealized description given in the earlier post. Many others don't. Just as actual parental relationship can vary tremendously, their kinky analogs can too.

Hopefully this charming paragraph snipped from a blog somewhere won't harden into some sort of dogma which defines the True DDom, implying thereby that anything else is false or otherwise inferior.

There are wonderful submissives who want a "Daddy" who doesn't much resemble that blog's rose-colored model. Reading this thread they might be tempted toward confusion or self doubt. I think that would be a pity.

I think rose is a wonderful color, myself. I'll support anyone's choice to operate in that mode. It is one in which I have had beautiful experiences myself. All the same, the crayons which have written love notes to me over the years have sometimes been in colors very far from rosy.





Thank you for that excellent point. There are a wide range of relationship in this lifestyle and none are more righteuos than the other.

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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 6:21:08 PM   
subbieforHisuse


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Status: offline 		i agree with what Lusciouslips19 said....no matter where she got it from.   It's true, there ARE some DaddyDoms like that.  i have one.   He is EVERYTHING to me!!

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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 6:27:02 PM   
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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 11:23:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		missing my Daddy tonite. lusciouslips19's post was right on the money.

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RE: Daddies - 3/14/2008 11:50:21 PM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet


In our country many vanilla people call their mate "mom" "dad" "daddy" "grandma"... or whatever. I call my Sinergy "Daddy" in public often, no one even glances our way. It is in our popular culture even, like "come to daddy".




What country is that?  Your profile says you live in the states.  I've not found that to be true in the US.

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 12:06:01 AM   
cjan


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Status: offline 		My "vanilla" (kinda) , off and on ( long story) , gf has called me "Daddy" and "Dada" for years,

It started spontaniously. She calls me that in public, in front of both our families, etc.

She is a succesful, strong, totally independent, sometimes taurus minded ( what a pain that can be , see above) business woman who makes more money than I do. We don't live together and don't have a monogomous relationship .

So, wtf ? I never gave it  too much thought. Just considered it sweet.. very sweet, and I'm not being at all dismissive of it here. It  makes me feel very .. ummm, warm.

I call her different things at different times as she does me, of course, but, what we call each other doesn't define our relationship. Never has,


< Message edited by cjan -- 3/15/2008 12:11:40 AM >

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 12:18:35 AM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling


What is written above what is a  "daddy dom" IMO is not a daddy  just the qualities ( plus more ) of a wonderful Dom/Master. Such as I have had.
Never could I have called him daddy LOL.
I think daddy is the IN Thing ( I know it's not  new) I'll bet in 5 years there wont be so many references to daddy dom

 


Seems like you have taken a lot of heat for this post. So I might catch some flak for saying I agree with you.  This coming from someone who engages in age play.  My girl would be slapped if she called me daddy in public.

Yea daddy dom seems trendy at the moment for whatever reason.  I've been on these types of boards since 1200 baud and not even heard of it until the last year or so.  Although I realize it's been going on since adam first spanked his girl

BadOne

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 12:28:56 AM   
swtnsparkling


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predictable replies comment was meant for all of you who's out there
who keep implying I have a problem with daddy doms

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 12:49:40 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		julia   chill out for christs sake- your the one making the snarky remarks.  your typlical style, when some one doesnt agree with  you call any comment they make snarky
Etymology: dialect snark to annoy, perhaps alteration of nark to irritate
 
your continued use of calling me snarky is indeed  annoying
Yes julia you are annoying. And as much as you think you know everything- about everything
you really are pretty clueless


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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 12:52:59 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		Thank you Sailingbum   you read what I wrote and understood

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 1:42:16 AM   
SaraZeal


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Status: offline 		I frankly don't really care if the term Daddy/Dom is "in", "out", up, down, left, right, or diagonally, I'd not heard about it until I found online ageplay-related communities, I've read erotica before and the only topic that ever got close was caring types of femdom (which in places I read were rare, but that's fiction). I decided to get in touch with the larger BDSM community because I have other interests besides ageplay and would like to learn and know more, so BDSM was the last link in the chain for me, not the main/first one.

I commented earlier on how I find it funny that people who are into Daddy/Dom type relationships and who may be into ageplay would list diapers as a hard limit, but that's just something I observed and thought was worthy of mention. Like it tickled my 'understand psychology and trying to rationalize things' side, nothing more. If everyone tomorrow listed diapers as a hard limit, besides making prospects of finding a Dom or Master (or Daddy) dimmer, it wouldn't affect me. Similarly, if everyone was into it, that wouldn't change a thing for me. The only thing I think it would change is the relative experience with it (or at least interest with getting experience with it, however minimal the interest) of the community (statistically) as a whole, not mine.

I don't understand where the general dislike comes from, but that's fine, to each their own, I'll find someone eventually.

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 1:59:01 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

yes I quoted myself- because I knew I would be wasteing my time Again & Again

predictable replies comment was meant for all of you who's out there
who keep implying I have a problem with daddy doms


All of us? Its these kind of comments that offends people. Luckily, I have a thick skin. I never implied you had a problem with Daddy doms. I had agreed with you actually. Whats the diference what a Master is called so long as its all good. I say this with love and I do like you(not that that matters), i think some people have problems cause you come off so angry in the tone of your posts. I dont think its personal but I think some take it personally when they should'nt.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 3/15/2008 2:08:26 AM >

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 2:16:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I will only add my 10 cents here .....  Not going to read all the posts because I am pretty sure it is likely to  get ugly.... I call Master, Daddy alot of the time ... to me is about the strict supervision and the way he nurtures ... and  yes in some manners about the sexual aspects but I  wont squick any one with my feelings about that  as it is secondary  to the nurturing aspects he brings into this. My writing is important to me and he is always there to support it... It is also  the bond that brought us back together. Maybe you shoudl quit seeing them as *only* referals and read what it is , or ask in a POLITE manner what their thoughts are on it ... it isnt just  schools skirts and knee highs

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 2:19:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddyAndCarina

I will only add my 10 cents here .....  Not going to read all the posts because I am pretty sure it is likely to  get ugly.... I call Master, Daddy alot of the time ... to me is about the strict supervision and the way he nurtures ... and  yes in some manners about the sexual aspects but I  wont squick any one with my feelings about that  as it is secondary  to the nurturing aspects he brings into this. My writing is important to me and he is always there to support it... It is also  the bond that brought us back together. Maybe you shoudl quit seeing them as *only* referals and read what it is , or ask in a POLITE manner what their thoughts are on it ... it isnt just  schools skirts and knee highs


What!!! Its not??

(Paddles off to remove her knee highs)

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 2:22:34 AM   
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I do like you(not that that matters), i think some people have problems cause you come off so angry in the tone of your posts. I dont think its personal but I think some take it personally when they should'nt.


Ah shucks Lusc Thank you, I like you too. I guess you could be right my tone may come off angry . It isn't really I'm not at all. I just type what I'm thinking and shake my head when some take what I say in the most negative ways.
And Oh yes I do get annoyed at times LOL

< Message edited by swtnsparkling -- 3/15/2008 2:25:02 AM >

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 2:32:37 AM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

quote:

I do like you(not that that matters), i think some people have problems cause you come off so angry in the tone of your posts. I dont think its personal but I think some take it personally when they should'nt.


Ah shucks Lusc Thank you, I like you too. I guess you could be right my tone may come off angry . It isn't really I'm not at all. I just type what I'm thinking and shake my head when some take what I say in the most negative ways.
And Oh yes I do get annoyed at times LOL


Believe it or not, thats happened to me to! I've been jumped all over for things I've said. Hard to believe, since I am so Luscious!!!

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 8:04:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is the best description of us that I have heard or read in a very long time. I am called Daddy by my little girl. A term that I am proud of. Even more so than the term Sir or Master. 

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 11:20:26 AM   
DaddyDeerest


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Status: offline 		Me as well,  DomDaddyNC. More than any other "title" that  I am fit to hold,
I feel most proud when my lil grrrl calls me her Daddy. Even in public.
It may not be proper for a woman to refer to her man as Daddy, or Poppa, maybe not in some waspy, social settings, but as her Dom,or Master, what would you rather she refer to you as?  Rick? Joe? Mike? I think not. It may unusual for the regalia club to hear it the first time, but like everything, it too will become the norm and your embarrassment will be short lived-Dear Sailor.
And as usual, Miss lusciouslips brings us beauty and understanding, with modesty that maks her more attractive with every thread.
Some Yank once said, You do not choose greatness, It is something that is thrust upon you.  Actually, I don't know who said it. Sounds good though. Oh yeah!   Maybe Teddy Rosevelt?
The first time a submissive girlfriend called me Daddy...It totally freaked me out. I didn't know. I didn't understand. All I knew was that her father was an abusive, child-molester and a viscious, violent prick when it came to her. I had almost attacked him one night at the dinner table. I couldn't bear to think of the horrible pain he had put her through, and there he was...free, laughing at us because we were punks, because we were in love. She was 15&I was 23.   Anyways,
like two ,more years later, we were having very rough sex, and out it came. Daddy. More than anything in my life, I wish I can have that moment back. Again, I didn't know what she was asking for and needing from me and I spewed the most foul verbal assult I have ever spewed. Then I left her. It took me years to get over that, and more years to become the man she saw that I was inside. 
I have my own kids and I have never hit any of them. Never have I caused any of them a moment of doubt or pain.  So when my sub/wife calls me Daddy, or Poppa, even in front of the kids, they know it's different, but they also know we're adults. Besides they're used to seeing our black leather Saturday Nights. I have no confusion of who my lil grrrl is. I know who my darling Daughter is and I'm never confusing the two.
That's my .22cents worth.

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RE: Daddies - 3/15/2008 11:40:35 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Believe it or not, thats happened to me to! I've been jumped all over for things I've said. Hard to believe, since I am so Luscious!!!


Yhea no shit LOL
and me, well damnit my name is sweet how can anyone think I am anything but

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