quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

Im just waiting for a Women: How to Find a Woman here :P

Men: How to find a Woman touches on most of that   Women looking for women typically need to do the legwork, have decent profiles, photos, and focus on searching for women who meet their criteria. 

Women seeking women have a leg up; the number of bisexual verses 'straight' women are roughly 50/50 (compared to men seeking men, where bisexual to straight men are roughly 10/90.)  To boot, many bisexual women are only looking for other women (though often times, they're already involved with a male partner.) 

For ladies seeking other women; lots of the female seeking female profiles here are actually men.  Demands for cybersex, photos, or cam (especially without reciprocation) or any activity that clearly shows a focus on sex over personality are the hallmarks of such men.  Same with a desire to only chat or exchange emails, with repeated declines to speak on phone, etc.  Just because she has ten thousand pretty photos of the same girl, doesn't mean she's a woman; it could just mean she's been doing this for a while. 

Regards,

Stephan




_____________________________

Nosce Te Ipsum

"The blade itself incites to violence" - Homer

Men: Find a Woman here

(in reply to colouredin)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Let me just say "Fuck you for being straight Stephan".

Just sayin, ya know.

Oh wait....... you're straight, I couldn't fuck you.

Crap.

Oh wait....... this IS a kinky kind of a place, ya know.

Well then.

Oh wait....... my kink wouldn't necessarily be your kink.

Aw fuck me.

Oh wait....... that would be topping from the bottom.

Let me just say, "nevermind".

chia* (the pet)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann


I've had all manner of oddness happen in meeting people online.  When I was in Michigan, I had a girl in Saskatchewan that I'd talked with for three months.  We agreed to meet.  First she told me she had plane tickets to come to me (listing the flight numbers, etc.)  No show.  Then she told me she was driving.  Later she called claiming to be in Detroit, only a few hours away (I didn't have caller ID at the time.)  I didn't hear again from her for two weeks.  Another girl claimed to be driving to see me in Texas from Arizona.  She claimed to be halfway on the last call I ever got from her. 

quote:

ORIGINAL: UncleNasty

My questions are many, but they all revolve around an assumption that they weren't telling the truth to begin with, and lead me to something like "What the fuck do they get out of treating people these ways?"

Anyone with insights into this?

Uncle Nasty

quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

I absolutely, 150% agree with the OP.  If a sub here doesn't like the men who approach her, then she should approach the men she likes.  I have yet to meet the man who didn't like it when I expressed my desire to be with them in an open and frank way, never rude or crude, just blunt and honest.  So far, I've had 100% success with that approach. 

If for some reason someone doesn't suit you, move on.  Eventually, you're bound to meet interesting people, and maybe make a few friends.

edited for grammar