ProtagonistLily
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here is a tale that's true. It happened today in fact.
I met a domme on this site a few weeks ago. We talked and arranged to meet last Friday. Two days before the meeting she told me she was having trouble making her rent, so I offerd to help. I gave her $200 toward her rent. After lunch we went to a fetish store. She found a collar there she liked and told them to hold it for her. It was roughly $60. She saw a leather dress that was $175 and said she'd love to have it. I told her to have them hold that, and I would buy it for her this weekend. After I left her (she stayed at the store), I went home. When I got home, she informed me that she took the dress home with a promise to pay for it this week. I called the store personally on Monday, and they told me that paying them Saturday when I planned on seeing her again was no problem. Yesterday she told me that she called the store and they told her it had to be paid today.
Today she called me on the way back from the fetish store from her car, and said she just left. She said she gave them a check that she can't cover, so I had to have the money to her on Saturday.
She knew from our first conversation that I am seeking a LTR 24/7 relationship with a domme. She's 17 years my junior. In passing today she mentioned to me that she's decided to take a clerk at the store as her sex sub, and when could I be there Saturday, or wire her the money for both the dress and the collar. Believe it or not folks, this is the second time in less than two months that a domme has tried to hustle me. Am I nuts, or are all dommes here like this?
Tried to hustle you? I'd say she did a pretty effective job of it.
You say she's 17 years your junior as if that's supposed to garner some sympathy. Forget about it.
Since when is it your job to buy things for someone you just met, Domme or not? P.T. Barnum said "There's a sucker born every day." I think he was talking about you.
If you are really a submissive, and seeking a Domme, do your homework. Establish some kind of relationship before you start shelling out money on someone who's willing to take a grocery clerk as her 'sex sub.' If I ever met a Dominant who asked me to be his 'sex sub' I'd die on the floor laughing. Sex is easy....power exchange is the hard part.
Look, I'm not busting on you just for the sake of it; You have an opportunity to learn and grow here. Hike up the 'big boy' pants, and go find yourself a women who's got it together, isn't some manipulator disguising herself as a Domme, and find someone real.
You might do yourself a real favor by asking a few questions like:
Are you known in the local scene? Do you have contacts?
Have you been to the local munch?
Have you ever owned a submissive and if so, may I have a reference?
How long have you been a practicing Domme?
Do you belong to the local organization?
You get the drift here. Anyone can say they are a Dominant; con people say they are something that they aren't every day. And unfortunately there are an awful lot of con people running around in other people's shoes.
This isn't about what she did to you; this is all about how you didn't protect yourself against someone who wanted to take advantage of you. Submissive does not equate doormat.
Lily
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