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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 11:51:23 AM   
BossBob


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Status: offline 		There is NOTHING good about this so called "Master". It really bothers me that so many people fall into these traps and lies. And yes...there are female "con scamers" too.....playing this game from the other end as a submissive...it happened to a good friend of mine....so this can happen to anybody. A true Master is caring, truthful (even when it hurts), protective, sincere and kind. We don't desire to use or hurt someone!

This guy is nothing more that a criminal con artist creep who will scam others because he is still getting away with this game and has no intention of stopping until the law gets him!

What you say about his children shows your wonderful "giving" heart, which seems to be gigantic in size, but sadly an easy mark for a criminal creep like him.

Be smart about blocking out ALL contact with both of them because I'm very sure that this will not end if you don't....sadly he knows how to play your goodness as a weakness...heck, those kids may only be photo's used as part of his con game. Did you ever meet those kids? He is using the kids as a tool to help make his lies work his con game....so stop thinking sad things about those kids because clearly you now know that maybe everything that he ever said about them (or anything else...even the weather) was just a bold lie just to keep his con game going....so forget the kids.

For all you know, he may have been scaming several others just like you, all at the same time or still is....I'll bet my house on that! These guys always play mulitple scams at the same time...so I'll bet he is still working on other "givers" just like you...as an "easy mark" as they say! Understand that this was a planned complete criminal scam...he NEVER cared about you ever, he simply used you..to steal from you!

Lick your deep emotional injuries and heal sweetheart....that takes understandable time....but then move on....don't hide in your home. Life goes on but it's also sadly very short and you will only be cheating yourself if you remain locked in your home because you will remove yourself from meeting someone that will treasure that beautiful giving heart of yours!

As I've always said: You need to do some "weeding" to find people with sincere qualities in any walk of life. But there are very good people out here, they are just hard to find.

If you have ANY other contact from him, tell he that you will go to the police and take him to court to publicly expose him....at the least, that should make him sweat a little bit just thinking of it. Change your phone number as well. But stay away from this low life snake, because he will not stop stealing from you if you continue believing ANYTHING that he ever said to you!

Understand that every single word that he ever told you was nothing more than a bold complete lie! This con can happen to any of us...myself included. He is not worried about the damage he did to you and if you let him, he'll come back to play you even more. A snake is a snake!




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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 11:59:50 AM   
RainGod


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From: Hendersonville, NC
Status: offline 		Damn... just when I thought I had seen the farthest depth to which someone could sink simply to fulfill his own wretched desires. On behalf of the remainder of the good ones left in My gender, I apologize. The level of treachery in this case is simply appaling, and you did nothing to deserve this. you have certainly no blame in his infidelity.

To the wimp who did this to her ( and I know you're reading this thread) I offer this: If you cannot get wifey-poo to do the things you need, ask her if she will reach into her silk purse and loan you your testicals long enough to tell her you want a divorce before wrecking some innocent girl's life. You, sir (and I use the word wrecklessly here) are simply the lowest form of life, and quite possibly the sickest, most spineless coward I have ever heard of.

angelic, babygirl... hang in there. The right man is somewhere out there. From now on, if you cannot visit Him at His house as well as He visiting yours, there's something fishy. Gaurd well your heart, dear one... and risk not your gift with one who will not risk his secrets freely.

Bless your broken heart... I wish I could say anything to remove the pain you feel.

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Love is a razor & I walk the line on that silver blade... slept in the dust with His daughter her eyes red with the slaughter of innocence... The evil that men do lives on & on.
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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 12:08:50 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		To Aall of You... once again the outpouring of kindness has truly been so overwhelming for me, i can't quit crying from it all

Bossbob: yes i know he was a con and i am worried that he may be doing this to others...and thank You.

RainGod: yes i do believe he is seeing everything here... but not because he is a 'collarme' person... i did not meet him here... but i do suspect he may have a profile (new?)... or maybe i've just become a very paranoid person.

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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 1:47:24 PM   
theRose4U


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THE SAME happened to me, i purchased a car for him to drive, nice for him to lie that he was married, and she benefited from my car....predators!!! hope it comes back and bites them square in the ASS


Just a thought for you Jenny. If your name is on the paperwork for this vehicle at least in the south it is perfectly legal for YOU to have it repoed & returned to you seeing as your credit is what would be affected.

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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 2:41:54 PM   
angelic


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

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THE SAME happened to me, i purchased a car for him to drive, nice for him to lie that he was married, and she benefited from my car....predators!!! hope it comes back and bites them square in the ASS


Just a thought for you Jenny. If your name is on the paperwork for this vehicle at least in the south it is perfectly legal for YOU to have it repoed & returned to you seeing as your credit is what would be affected.


that's a very good thought... and if Jenny's name is on the paperwork... why not just go and get the car? it's her's afterall.

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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 2:45:31 PM   
MeisterGeek


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ORIGINAL: angelic

thank you all... i will survive... i'd survive quicker if the two of them like fell in an open sewer hole.


One of the nice things about Karma, angelic, is that it always comes around to bite the ass of people like him. The Karmic Wheel may turn kind of slowly on wobbly bearings but it does turn and the three-for-one deal holds true. (Do a good/bad deed and it comes back 3 times.)

Of course, I've been known to give the Wheel a bit of help now and then ... but let's not go there, shall we? <G>

MG

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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 2:46:37 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		if they or either one of them comes to your home, i suggest a no trespass order or restraining order
and good luck
go to the foot salon,it'll do ya some good

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

i cannot express in this little box how much i appreciate all of your kind thoughts. i know that i will come out the other side a stronger person... it's just the journey to get there i'm worried about... they are still continuing to harrass me today... and although i've changed my phone number it won't be effective until next wednesday (yes i told my phone company WHY)... but hey corporations move slowly... i am not answering my phone and as far as e-mails from him he is blocked... so any attempt there is not received. again, i thank you all for your support.



< Message edited by fyreredsub -- 10/8/2005 2:49:03 PM >

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RE: Hurt - 10/8/2005 5:34:39 PM   
theRose4U


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go to the foot salon,it'll do ya some good


I like that idea...always a good excuse for a make over. Whistle Wash that man right outta my hair the whole time. LOL

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 7:59:06 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
I say good riddance to bad garbage. It's time to get over it and move on to better things in your life.
Next time trust your gut instincts. If it feels wrong it probably isn't right for you.
Just because he was a liar does not mean you did something to deserve it. Bad things can happen to good people sometimes.

I wish you all the love, joy and peace you deserve,
sub suzanne

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 8:10:37 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		This is also a good idea of why you should always insist on visiting the home of your Dom,at least once. This game would have stopped years ago if she had. The best way to beard a cowardly lion, is in his own den.

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 8:26:38 AM   
Quivver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

To Aall of You... once again the outpouring of kindness has truly been so overwhelming for me, i can't quit crying from it all

Bossbob: yes i know he was a con and i am worried that he may be doing this to others...and thank You.

RainGod: yes i do believe he is seeing everything here... but not because he is a 'collarme' person... i did not meet him here... but i do suspect he may have a profile (new?)... or maybe i've just become a very paranoid person.


A few more Hugs Angelic....... Paranoia sometimes is well founded. Especially in what
you've just realized you've been a party to. This kind of mindfuck is sick and this individual
a poor excuse for human flesh IMHO, which I feel a right to give in the voice of experiance.
Gather your back bone, do what you can, call the rest a loss and move on. Dont be surprised
if it takes a long long time to learn to trust again, but it will begin to return slowly.
take all the hugs you can get, you allowed it, but your heart was in the right place.
Q

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 8:28:59 AM   
Quivver


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ORIGINAL: JustaTop

This is also a good idea of why you should always insist on visiting the home of your Dom,at least once. This game would have stopped years ago if she had. The best way to beard a cowardly lion, is in his own den.



Not always so JustaTop, some Cowardly Lions have more then one Den........

Q

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 9:26:38 AM   
caitlyn


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Status: offline 		If you did something stupid, then you have lots of company. If you think you must deserve this sort of treatment, you can stand in line with the rest of us. There is safety in numbers.

I'll probably get flamed for this, but you have gotten all the supportive responses, so maybe something a little more blunt might be helpful.

The problem with love, is that people try to create it ... wanting it so much that they look for it where you can't find it, and see it where it doesn't really exist.

The problem with love, is that it's what parents tell you so they can ignore you or what they tell you after they beat you.

The problem with love is that it's what men tell you when they want to fuck you.

The problem with love, is that often when someone you're dating says it, bad news is on the way.

If love slaps you in the face, take it and be glad for it ... otherwise, just pretend that it doesn't exist. Life often works better that way ... if you don't set yourself up to fall, the trip down isn't quite as bad.

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 10:17:48 AM   
RainGod


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The problem with love, is that people try to create it ... wanting it so much that they look for it where you can't find it, and see it where it doesn't really exist.
The problem with love, is that it's what parents tell you so they can ignore you or what they tell you after they beat you.
The problem with love is that it's what men tell you when they want to fuck you.
The problem with love, is that often when someone you're dating says it, bad news is on the way.
If love slaps you in the face, take it and be glad for it ... otherwise, just pretend that it doesn't exist. Life often works better that way ... if you don't set yourself up to fall, the trip down isn't quite as bad.


This is not a flame, caitlyn, but I do have something I want to say to you converning this reply. It is extremely regrettable that such a yound woman has such a heartbreaking outlook on love. I do want you to know it doesn't always have to be like that, if that's all youve experienced. Love is love. Love is scarce these days, but love in its purest form outshines all the "fool's love" in the world. Please never stop believing....

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Love is a razor & I walk the line on that silver blade... slept in the dust with His daughter her eyes red with the slaughter of innocence... The evil that men do lives on & on.
~ Iron Maiden

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 10:44:39 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossBob
A true Master is

There's that 4 letter word again...

quote:

We don't desire to use or hurt someone!

Umm actually lots of dominants desire to hurt and use someone.

And lots of slaves, including me, enjoy being used and being made useful.

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 11:14:54 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		i am wondering if in those 4 yrs did you ever have a home address for him or a phone number to call. Where did he work?

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 11:15:18 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Caitlin I wanted to comment on how wise you seem to be for your age when you commented:
quote:

The problem with love, is that people try to create it ... wanting it so much that they look for it where you can't find it, and see it where it doesn't really exist.


But the rest of your response is negative. It's better to go through life with the possiblity of what is out there. Than to always be thinking in such negative terms. Love can hurt, people can hurt you, that will always be a chance that you take in any relationship.



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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 11:17:53 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		oops i sent that last post before i was done. i do want to say i am sorry. Ive sorta been there done that situation myslef. Being lied to and so well lied to does make us feel stupid, but the liars do pay in the long run.

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 11:39:22 AM   
ownedjulia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


quote:

ORIGINAL: BossBob
A true Master is

There's that 4 letter word again...

quote:

We don't desire to use or hurt someone!

Umm actually lots of dominants desire to hurt and use someone.

And lots of slaves, including me, enjoy being used and being made useful.


WELL SAID EmeraldSlave!!

My Master desires to hurt and use me - Because that's what I'm there for.

And i love it.



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~julia
owned slave and proud of it!

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RE: Hurt - 10/10/2005 12:24:14 PM   
caitlyn


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
But the rest of your response is negative. It's better to go through life with the possiblity of what is out there. Than to always be thinking in such negative terms. Love can hurt, people can hurt you, that will always be a chance that you take in any relationship.


I don't see my thoughts as negative. Far from it in fact. I see them as realistic and cautious. I see them as harsh, in a harsh world.

I do believe in love. I hope to find it some day ... I would love to be loved, ha-ha!

But, it's going to need the staying power to get past my defenses ... and that's just how things are. That's the only way to keep from being fooled by those who give "love" just to get something ... or who treat love as just another word. That's the only way to combat a natural tendency I have to see as real, what is only illusion.

Far from conventional wisdom I know. What's the divorce rate in America again?

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