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ORIGINAL: missbratly

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ORIGINAL: katsmeow

So, I don't post a lot, but something is really bothering me more and more on here. The more I read e-mail, the more people just want 'play.' Is it impossible to keep your morals in tact and still be in this lifestyle?
 
I talked to someone today who wrote a nasty journal entry about me, because I'm apparently prude. Just because I don't want to take my clothes off and play with a stranger I just met? I call that being safe... But really, my point of view on this is, play being like a vanilla second date, the initial one is a nice dinner, and second one is bringing over edible body paint and licking it off of one another's nude bodies with no emotional connection. I don't deny that there are exceptions to this, but really, is it that common?
 
What happened to the days when people were sane, and didn't want girls that fucked everything with legs?  =[

I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired.

Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa.

Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral).

There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. 

Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I look down on people all of the time....I rarely break a sweat...I used to think that I accomplished something...Anymore, if my snobbiness and and lack of regard for others results in anything less than a suicide attempt I am left feeling rather numb and empty.

It's hard to recapture the rush of your first suicide attempt....Now I need a group of biatches to try and off themselves to even begin to feel any pleasure....That is the danger in becoming addicted to being an A-hole...You just can never get enough.

Help me.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
I look down on people all of the time....I rarely break a sweat...I used to think that I accomplished something...Anymore, if my snobbiness and and lack of regard for others results in anything less than a suicide attempt I am left feeling rather numb and empty.

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I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired.

Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa.

Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral).

There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. 

Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you.

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ORIGINAL: NakedOnMyChain

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

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ORIGINAL: NakedOnMyChain

I haven't read the other posts yet, but I had to throw my opinion into the ring.

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Michevious.

No one got on her case for her wanting to follow her own code. People got on her case because she basically said, everyone who doesnt Follow this code is immoral.

I dont follow that code. It doesnt make me immoral. I still live by my own moral code.

You make generalizations and sterotype people, you get claws and fangs in return...  Oh oh, my forum whoring has made me indecent ^_^ I think Im going to celebrate...

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Pronunciation: (")i(m)-'mo r-&l, -'mär-
: not moral ; broadly : conflicting with generally or traditionally held moral principles

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missbratly
I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired.

Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa.

Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral).

There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. 

Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you.

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ORIGINAL: missbratly
The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa.

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Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore.

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They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral).
there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection.