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Aneirin -> Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:36:43 PM)

Ok, for not wanting to hijack DiannaVesta's post in the ask a mistress forum, I will ask here, as I have questions based upon the  ongoing  thread.

What exactly is wrong with sucking a cock from a male perspective ?

Does sucking a cock make you gay ?

And what is wrong with being gay, or for that matter, Bi sexual, women seem to be ok with it, but men feel it is anethema.

Why is it males seem so scared, to do this act?

IMHO, everyone, male and female is to some extent bi sexual, it is just social conditioning that creates stigma.




PrettyPaddles -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:39:14 PM)

A large portion of it is power.  Giving oral sex is seen as giving power and putting yourself in a submissive position by a lot of society. In certain societies, a man giving a woman oral is even seen to make him less of a man. 




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:42:33 PM)

Maybe they just had a bad incident with a popsicle when they were young.




Aneirin -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:45:15 PM)

I don't see it as power, I see it as pleasure, why are men seemingly not allowed to give pleasure to a man, when it seems acceptable for women to do this act.

I am of the understanding, all men, that is men and women as a species are equal, unless by agreement, M/s, D/s for example.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:49:15 PM)

Part is also disinterest. If Someone is not attracted to a man, then sucking a cock is going to hold no interest. No fear, no revulsion, but also no pull to do so.
I see nothing wrong with being gay, but I do not believe everyone is bisexual either. My boys are both straight, and have never considered being with another male. They have no interest in it, though they would not hold it against someone who decided to do so.
Would you ask the same question about whats wrong with licking pussy, if a gay man didnt want to partake in it?
Or a lesbian sucking cock?

DV





scorpius80 -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:56:10 PM)

Men who are gay are attracted to and have sexual contact with other men, if you suck a cock, you are having sexual contact with a man which is a homosexual act.  If you did not want to do it you would not do it, if you never thought about sucking a cock you would not suck a cock.  Most men aproach women, and the scarriest thing to them is to be treated like a woman by a man and when men see other men that are gay, they assume they are going ot hit on them.  As for women there are some women who




Shawn1066 -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 1:59:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
Would you ask the same question about whats wrong with licking pussy, if a gay man didnt want to partake in it?
Or a lesbian sucking cock?

DV




This.  This is a very good point.

DV's Fox




midgetmafiosa -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:04:25 PM)

my gay roomate is absolutely repulsed by vaginas. can't blame him, really. he's never had sex with a woman, and never plans to. i'm a little more flexible in my choices. i like a man who is, too, but i don't see anything wrong with men who don't want to suck cock. but those same men had better damn well be willing to eat pussy!




RCdc -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:18:35 PM)


quote:

Does sucking a cock make you gay ?


No.

the.dark.




MagiksSlave -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:24:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NakedOnMyChain

Maybe they just had a bad incident with a popsicle when they were young.



I never did like popsicles....

Squee!

MS




subfever -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:32:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrettyPaddles

A large portion of it is power.  Giving oral sex is seen as giving power and putting yourself in a submissive position by a lot of society. In certain societies, a man giving a woman oral is even seen to make him less of a man. 


Well, thank my lucky stars I don't live in one of those societies!




pahunkboy -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:36:22 PM)

---one type of man will suck a cock but not kiss another man.

--the best I can figure is- one can not be anally raped if the partner has no penis.  so it could be fear of rape.




lronitulstahp -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:37:11 PM)

[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m6.gif[/image]Cocksucking...i'm for it! 
Umm should i actually read the thread first, or are we good?[sm=confused.gif]
{{{wonders where to get my "i voted" sticker....}}}




cjan -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 2:57:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa

my gay roomate is absolutely repulsed by vaginas. can't blame him, really. he's never had sex with a woman, and never plans to. i'm a little more flexible in my choices. i like a man who is, too, but i don't see anything wrong with men who don't want to suck cock. but those same men had better damn well be willing to eat pussy!


Well, if you ever want to get rid of your roomie, I guess you would know how. Wait 'till the lad is asleep, straddle his face and hold his nose. Could be fun !




seeksfemslave -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:25:13 PM)

If you mean...
Is man A, who wants to suck man B's cock, gay?
The answer must be YES.No brainer IMO . Arsk me another.

To complete my tutorial "disinterested" does not mean "uninterested"




popeye1250 -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:30:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

quote:

ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa

my gay roomate is absolutely repulsed by vaginas. can't blame him, really. he's never had sex with a woman, and never plans to. i'm a little more flexible in my choices. i like a man who is, too, but i don't see anything wrong with men who don't want to suck cock. but those same men had better damn well be willing to eat pussy!


Well, if you ever want to get rid of your roomie, I guess you would know how. Wait 'till the lad is asleep, straddle his face and hold his nose. Could be fun !



"Repulsed by Vaginas? Ok, young man you just bring them home to me and I'll take care of them for you!"

Cjan, now that's just fuckin' mean! lol




adoracat -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:36:26 PM)

i think it goes both ways...some women just have absolutely NO interest in being with another woman, either.  i dont think it makes you gay if you do it (be sexual with a person of the same gender) once. 

i think women are beautiful sexual creatures...i like looking at nekkid women....i dont necessarily want to lie down with all nekkid women, but i do love one specific woman (in the i wanna jump her bones kinda way) whether she's naked or not.

same thing with men.  i love and want to be sexual with a very few specific men, although i find most men comely to look upon.

but that's me.

kitten




pahunkboy -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:43:03 PM)

the thing on this is what the man fantasises about.

you can tell by watching what he looks at.

if he only looks at guys he is gay.
if he looks at both sexes he is bi- or simply curious.
if he looks at females- then he desires heterosexual.



if the sex drive is real intense- then a hole in the mud will do for that single second moment.




popeye1250 -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:47:45 PM)

Yeah, a lot of women are bi-sexual and thank* GOD* for that!
There just seems to be a minority of men, -compared to women- who are bi-sexual.
Aneirin, If I let you rub suntan lotion on my back will you do my ass and my legs too?




Aneirin -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 3:48:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

the thing on this is what the man fantasises about.

you can tell by watching what he looks at.

if he only looks at guys he is gay.
if he looks at both sexes he is bi- or simply curious.
if he looks at females- then he desires heterosexual.



if the sex drive is real intense- then a hole in the mud will do for that single second moment.



Good answer Pahunkboy, but I will draw the line at mud, it's kind of abrasive.

So, all those people here that consider themselves to be heterosexual, can you in all honesty say acts which could be considered homosexual, have never crossed your mind, have you never wondered at what something must be like to do or feel?




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