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cjan -> RE: Cock sucking (4/16/2008 5:08:34 PM)
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I've done a lot of "experimenting" in my life in many ways. When I was in my 20's, I experimented with man on man sex. Tried it a few times, with a few men, ahem, just to make sure, of course, and found that I am happily , without a doubt,heterosexual. As a result of this experimentation, I found out something that is interesting to me. And, I don't mean to say that this applies to any one other tham me, although it may be something to consider. What I learned was that the feelings that I had of affection for another dude was simply that. Affection. My upbringing and the culture I live in "taught" me that showing affection for another man in any way more "unmanly" that a locker room pat on the ass and a "good game" comment was gay. So, like a lot of guys, in my opinion, having feelings of affection and feeling inhibited about expressing them, made me wonder if I had 'mo tendencies. I suspect that these feelings and doubts in some men, because of repressed fear, may make them homophobic and even play a role in such things as gay bashing. To me, it was liberating.
I think that whatever consenting adults do , without affecting or involving the non-consenting , is strictly their own business.
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