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DomAviator -> RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? (5/16/2008 1:16:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Raechard
I think the thing that comes across more than anything else mentioned here is people have no respect for the loyalties of others. You can't consider yourself a loyal person if you don't respect the loyalties of others. Like the man that sees the ring on the finger as a challenge, for me that man is just sad and he will never understand what is obviously missing from his life. There is a slight difference between casual sex for pleasure and opportunists that take advantage of someone in a poor emotional state.
Raechard, see this is where you and I digress. Im not picking up MARRIED women. Im picking up SINGLE women who want a better deal. Lets be real here, in the example I citied - some little cutie in a bar in Galveston, which is a tropical island, who wants to go to the beach, and who wants to take tours, and who wants to have tropical type func doesnt owe any loyalty to some dumb fuck boyfriend who wants her to sit there in a bar all day like a trophy and have her watch him play pool or pinball or whatever. Some people do stupid things and smart people seize that opportunity.
Its like being a fighter pilot. Its all about the other guys mistake. You dont splash someone because your good, you do it because your good enough to recognize and capitalize on his mistake when the opportunity arises... Round and round we go, he doesnt realize that hes bleeding off energy and energy is life in this game. Thats right, make another turn, one more and youll be right where I want ya... FOX TWO!
Loyalty is earned not automatic. I can be quite loyal. If I had been shot down in '91, I would have NEVER left my BN and would have carried him to Saudi on my back if I had to. He would have done the same for me. I would never leave my wingman uncovered even at great risk to myself and I will go to hell and back for someone who has earned my loyalty.
I dont OWE any loyalty to some fucking idiot I dont even know who doesnt know how to treat his girlfriend, and she doesnt owe him any loyalty either. She is a living breathing sentient being with rights of her own including an inalienable right to happiness. If somebody isnt making her happy then she owes it to herself to get someone who will. That doesnt make me an "opportunist taking advantage of someone in a poor emotional state" it makes me a smart guy who just might be the answer to this woman's prayers or not - but shell never know unless she tries. Its her choice if she wants to stick with the jerk or to test the waters with someone less "Urban Cowboy" minded.... As for a poor emotional state - Im not picking up retarded chicks (Well maybe BrittneyLee - but she wasnt clincally retarded just painfully dumb!) they CHOOSE when they have had enough.
My advice to anyone wanting loyalty from a partner of any gender or orientation or position in the D/s world - EARN IT. This is true for vanilla, sub, or slave - sooner or later the doormat will quit. You want respect, you want loyalty, you want fidelity - just earn it and a good person will give it to you. Most people who get dumped get dumped for being an asshole...
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