beargonewild
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1 Yes I believe homosexuality is a choice, just like I believe getting up every morning is a choice. And when you say "we" as a whole being driven by our sexual urges, are you excusing rape? Perhaps the other person really did want it, deep down, and the rapist was just using their God given sexual prowess? Or maybe you're excusing pedophiles? Because God gave them the urges to have sex with babies, so therefore they should be able to do whatever they want? Maybe you're with NAMBLA in lowering the age of consent, because by God teenagers are going to do it anyway, so it might as well be with 50-60 year old men. And why don't we use the Mormon sect in Texas as proof of that? I'm not equating homosexuality to pedophilia, because I believe that homosexuality can be between two consenting adults, and pedophilia can be between opposite sex as it most of the time is. But there are urges we all get sexually that we control for various reasons. I haven't had sex in 9 months, and you don't see me hanging out near strip clubs looking for the first available hard on. I want to know what makes you believe that homosexuality is a learned behavior and not a genetic disposition or a combo of the two? How is it a male who is raised by a heterosexual couple, spends all his childhood until adulthood surrounded by heterosexual friends, is bombarded through television and radio about falling in love; getting married and raising kids still comes out of the closet as a gay man? One would think that from all these years of subconsciously being taught to believe in heterosexuality would imprint every single person yet it doesn't. Does this mean that the imprinting isn't effective because the approx 10% of us are psychologically defective because we didn't learn to be heterosexual? I think NOT! Your statement implies that homosexuality is a behavior which is chosen thus indicates free will. I assure and everyone else that I did not choose to be a gay male. I did not choose to live a life where I face discrimination every single day with a risk to my personal safety, I did not choose to spend 25 years of my life questioning myself if I was good enough or was I worthwhile being a friend to anyone because I was gay. I did not choose to force myself to pretend I was "normal" and heterosexual because the peer pressure I endured dictated this. I did not choose to be gay and have to question if I was normal and struggle with this to the point of feeling suicidal in my late teens and early twenties. Plain and simple, I was born and happened to be gay, if I was predisposed to be a homosexual that is fine as all I had to damn well endure growing up made me who I am today and I will not regret who and what I am. edited to add: Yes I did try to learn to be heterosexual and it left me being confused, deceitful, untrustworthy, distrustful, cold hearted and a pretender.
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