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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:01:49 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		I remembered came4you's original posts as a bit bitter and vitriolic. (forgive me if I am wrong) but when I went back to quote what she had said, it had been edited, so, it's hard to say now whether people were unnecessarily harsh with c4y...although it seemed to me they gave back what they were getting.
There's no way of telling now, though.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:06:31 PM   
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up to you.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:07:32 PM   
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quote:

 remembered came4you's original posts as a bit bitter and vitriolic.


Ditto.
I took offence at came4u and treasureky initially.
I have not replied to anyone else as they were saying in their opinion or for them not making statments or being nasty as came4u appeared to be.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:08:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

quote:

If this was to me, I am not "bashing", "attacking" or  "interpreting" anyone's particular "situation".  I made a general statement as to my beliefs on absolute statements such as "I'll always keep you as long as..."


no no, sorry, did fast reply. I meant the two above ya.

btw. I don't think softness anticipated this much work today (on a forum) lol.

What a mess.


I dunno if you're meaning my reply.  But, as always, I was speaking from my own perspective and just giving my own reaction to the quote cited and ideas raised by TreasureKY and in no way meant it as a comment on softness, or her relationship. (I'd hate to be in her shoes right now though. lol)


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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:08:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


wow ...see this is why people are reacting to you like this ... often you post with more than the necessary degree of venom ..

I was cutting and pasting the thread so that I could explain it to Sir later if I got pulled, and I was noticing that often you changed the tone of a post after someone replied.

Please dont start with Christina ... she doesn't deserve the agro



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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:09:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


*lol* I'm just saying what I observed. Has nothing to do with paranoia since, your little spat didn't involve me. (I can be kinda slow though...) *g*

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:09:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I remembered came4you's original posts as a bit bitter and vitriolic. (forgive me if I am wrong) but when I went back to quote what she had said, it had been edited, so, it's hard to say now whether people were unnecessarily harsh with c4y...although it seemed to me they gave back what they were getting.
There's no way of telling now, though.


I saw them...bitter and vitriolic seems pretty accurate. 

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:09:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


Lol.
No need for blushes to be faster, i back her up 100% in her recollection.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:10:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Any time we put something in writting we are risking having to answer for it especially in a forum such as this simply due to the number of active members on this side alone. I did not personally see the OP as attacking softness or her realationship. I saw her accurately quoting something softness said in another thread and instead of highjacking that thread she brought it here. She respectfully asked her question.
 
Lets be honest, how many times do we read something on here and it simply makes us go what the fuck or leaves us contemplating, for treasure this was obviously one of those times. Is she only one to have had that gutt reaction to the qouted statements? Obviously not from reading the responses in this thread, but because she posted her question publicly rather than asking privately it opened up a wonderful opportunity for discussion, debate, and growth.
 
As to the ultimatuim I think we all give them in our relationships whether subtly or bluntly. I tend to give them bluntly an example of one of mine is, "If you stop protecting me you forfiet me as your property."
 
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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:10:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gypsygrl
(I'd hate to be in her shoes right now though. lol)



oooh gypsy .. you sooooo would ...am breaking in my new dancing shoes ... they are beautiful

oh you mean my metaphorical shoes? ... nah this is nothing ... you should have seen "The Thread Which Must Not Be Mentioned"

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:10:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: softness

quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


wow ...see this is why people are reacting to you like this ... often you post with more than the necessary degree of venom ..

I was cutting and pasting the thread so that I could explain it to Sir later if I got pulled, and I was noticing that often you changed the tone of a post after someone replied.

Please dont start with Christina ... she doesn't deserve the agro




Eh, Softness, can't you tell I'm here for the entertainment? HM is in NY this week...

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:15:22 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


wow ...see this is why people are reacting to you like this ... often you post with more than the necessary degree of venom ..

I was cutting and pasting the thread so that I could explain it to Sir later if I got pulled, and I was noticing that often you changed the tone of a post after someone replied.

Please dont start with Christina ... she doesn't deserve the agro




Eh, Softness, can't you tell I'm here for the entertainment? HM is in NY this week...


whspers ... mail yourself over here .,.. me and Missturbation will amuse you ,, she has this delicious toy at her place ... can hardly keep my hands off it!

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:15:35 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		My intial comment was generic.  Not until the actual person of the subject arrived did I respond accordingly.

Besides..since you have nothing to base your nasty assumptions on, you deem to ASSUME that I said something nasty, yet gosh darn it, she must have, but I didn't see it or have any proof., but dagnammit..she is GUILTY.

lol

If I edit..it was for syntax or a stupid spelling mistake.

It is you who are now being caustic and petty about NOTHING.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:15:53 PM   
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  Eh, Softness, can't you tell I'm here for the entertainment?
she's not the ONLY one....

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:17:13 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Wanna come here instead?

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:18:59 PM   
softness


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and blushes ... yeah ok .. but would you mind if I brought some marking?

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:20:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

My intial comment was generic.  Not until the actual person of the subject arrived did I respond accordingly.

Besides..since you have nothing to base your nasty assumptions on, you deem to ASSUME that I said something nasty, yet gosh darn it, she must have, but I didn't see it or have any proof., but dagnammit..she is GUILTY.

lol

If I edit..it was for syntax or a stupid spelling mistake.

It is you who are now being caustic and petty about NOTHING.


Whatever, i'm done with you now. How about you address those others who think you were being nasty as you just addressed me. You had a go at me for not addressing others, pot kettle black ring any bells.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:21:45 PM   
missturbation


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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

Be faster or not so paranoid.

up to you.


wow ...see this is why people are reacting to you like this ... often you post with more than the necessary degree of venom ..

I was cutting and pasting the thread so that I could explain it to Sir later if I got pulled, and I was noticing that often you changed the tone of a post after someone replied.

Please dont start with Christina ... she doesn't deserve the agro




Eh, Softness, can't you tell I'm here for the entertainment? HM is in NY this week...


whspers ... mail yourself over here .,.. me and Missturbation will amuse you ,, she has this delicious toy at her place ... can hardly keep my hands off it!


Lolol friday you can play with it to your hearts content.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:22:24 PM   
came4U


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'm just saying what I observed. Has nothing to do with paranoia since, your little spat didn't involve me.


Not my spat either, I'm not the one who has their laundry aired in here.

Pull up your granny panties, if you saw something *blink blink, what words did you see?

Imaginary words? Was I swearing in the supposed post? Did I fart? Send her kisses? What changed? Lets hear this supposed 'I saw it, but it was edited' version of my post.

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RE: Be Pleasing, Or Else... - 6/24/2008 3:23:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

I would posit that most people, regardless of orientation or lifestyle choice, would have a difficult time staying committed to someone who behaved in a manner they did not like.



I hate that this created so much heat, but I do think the overall sentiment of the thread is interesting (removing references to softness and DVs relationship).

I'll just share something my Master told me while we were in the car going somewhere last week, in response to the above portion of Treasures post .  He was talking about the fact that the other firemen he works with are just fascinated that He has a slave who will do whatever He asks, without complaint.  There's more to that story, but I don't want to get sidetracked.

A couple of the guys He works with were talking about their girlfriends/wives and one of them said, "God I hate that bitch." in reference to his girlfriend.  I am always puzzled at men who stay with women they could make that kind of comment about, and my Master said that guys will put up with a lot of shit out of a woman if it means they get good pussy.  They may hate a lot about the woman and her behaviors, but if she gives them regular, "good" pussy, then they'll stay and put up with her.

I have seen this many times in the guys that I work with and I just don't get it.

Anyway, I do think this is an interesting discussion..... except for these parts.

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