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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 7:14:11 PM

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You ladies are just darn nice people, that's all I can say!!

i wasn't being nice in faking it, i was getting it over with and preventing him from becoming angry with me for not being able to orgasm. luckily we slept in different rooms for the last several years of our marriage.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 7:27:46 PM

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i have faked for those 'oh get the hell off me moments'. i never have with my doms, because it is pretty obvious when i do, and i dont lie all that to them. tend to tell on my dumb self.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 7:45:24 PM

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The longer I go at it the more... numb I become down there and the harder it is for me to ejaculate. So yes, I did fake one once because she really wanted me to cum but I was just at it for so long that I couldn't anymore. I would like to think that I wouldn't do it again, though. For some that may be too much information and I apologize for that.

Okay. I will ask. How does a guy fake the big O?

CD

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 8:09:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: KneelingSilently

The longer I go at it the more... numb I become down there and the harder it is for me to ejaculate. So yes, I did fake one once because she really wanted me to cum but I was just at it for so long that I couldn't anymore. I would like to think that I wouldn't do it again, though. For some that may be too much information and I apologize for that.

Okay. I will ask. How does a guy fake the big O?

CD

*laughs!* Lots of grunting and panting! I only did it once and all I can say that I'm pretty sure it worked. I was so sore at that point it just wasn't going to happen.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 8:18:43 PM

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I'd like to thank everyone for their honest responses.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 8:20:18 PM

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I faked them the entire time I was married. Then I found a slave, and things changed.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 8:58:42 PM

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When I was younger... yes. Now, I can't see the point in faking it. I either am going to have one or I'm not.... That said, I'm discovering there are different types of orgasms depending on where I'm being stimulated

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 9:16:30 PM

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I only ever had one man that I had to fake it with... it was a very vanilla relationship and he thought he was the "worlds greatest" at performing oral sex... he really wasn't that great, in fact I distinctly remember falling asleep a couple times. I would try to give him pointers etc but he didn't want advice so Id let him do it and fake it when I got bored so he would stop.

Other than that I usually say if something isn't working for me. Why let someone continue doing something if it doesn't feel good?

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 9:19:22 PM

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FR - I once had a boyfriend who ejaculated so quickly, I used to say that he didn't even give me time to fake it. For some odd reason, the relationship didn't last that long.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 9:28:04 PM

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Fake it with a Dom? No. I've only had one, and there was no faking necessary (or possible) there, lol.

I have faked it with with vanilla guys, though. As some have said, it was mostly to get them to knock it off when it simply wasn't going to happen for me and they were rubbing me raw "trying".

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/11/2008 9:35:39 PM

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I've never faked an orgasm, but I've heard rumors that women sometimes do that sort of thing.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 12:11:20 AM

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I have faked it for people who think they can get me to cum when they want me to. By that time I pretty much want to do anything to get that guy to stop thinking he can pull my strings.
While they have been on the dominant side, they were not men with whom I felt any love.
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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 12:21:12 AM

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I never have faked it, ever.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 3:26:02 AM

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oh HELL yes i faked with my first husband. he knew the things that worked for me, that made me get off hard and fast, then refused to do them any longer. it was all about him, so i made it to where he was insecure about if it was working or not. the last time we were intimate, i was tired of faking it, so i finally asked "are you done yet?"

ugly, i know, but dayum. he was NOT the "italian stallion" he liked to pretend he was.

have i faked with a dominant? havent needed to even think about that one. for some reason i keep being with men who adore to make me cum..oh noes, not that!

kitten, still sore and adjusting from drought to downpour

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 3:39:21 AM

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I know I am not the op, but most of the posts here seem to indicate when some of us fake it, it is to put an end to a sexual encounter that is not doing it for us anymore, (at least for that particuliar time).

For me, & I suspect many who have faked it, it is because the sexual act is going on so long that we are beginning to get bored, dry, or we are starting to get sore. There are a few dominants as well, that really believe they are so powerful, they can get a women to cum for them just be telling them it will please them. They are, in fact, just setting themselves up for someone to fake it with them. Sometimes it is the guy who just keeps bouncing up & down on us for what feels like hours at a time. Sometimes, it is the person who thinks they are orally pleasing, & may be, any other time. Sometimes it is when we are with someone who maybe had too much to drink, & just couldn't cum because their ability to feel with their cock just wasn't what it should be due to the drink.

At least for me, I need variety in the stiumulation I am recieving. Not the same motion over & over again. As a dominant women, generally, it is not an issue anymore. But I can certainly understand why some people do fake it.

To the person who posted that he was getting sore, I suspect she was probably drying out & was probably relieved when you finally faked it. She was probably as relieved as you were, but thought maybe you came & didn't want to hurt your feelings. We, women are capable of putting on quite an act for preservations sake, preservation of your feelings & our own comfort.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 4:16:20 AM

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When i was married, i not only faked orgasms but when he'd been drinking, i faked being asleep too!

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 5:05:26 AM

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Never... I'm pretty sure I wouldn't know how. If the sex is that bad I just tend to zone out. Once I zoned out so bad that I forgot we were doing anything and went to get up to go put dinner away. Ok, so I don't do a lot for the male ego... well, anyone's ego.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 7:16:10 AM

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Once in the past - when he counted down and I was supposed to cum magically without his doing much to inspire me. I shoulda gotten the Golden Globe for that one.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 7:17:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Fake it with a Dom? No. I've only had one, and there was no faking necessary (or possible) there, lol.

I have faked it with with vanilla guys, though. As some have said, it was mostly to get them to knock it off when it simply wasn't going to happen for me and they were rubbing me raw "trying".

Yea, been there, done that.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/12/2008 7:23:26 AM

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Fox and I were talking about this yesterday. We were discussing my exhusband, with other friends, and the subect of how good in bed he was came up. My answer was "If I hadnt faked orgasms for him, hed still never know what oue sounded like." Funny thing was, he thought he was the greatest lover ever.

Poor deluded man

DV

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