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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 7/17/2008 10:54:14 AM

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If you're making noises you're not really feeling, moaning and groaning and making noises to help get you there, to me it's diffrent than faking an orgasm to get him to stop what he's doing, or tomake him feel good that he made you cum so his feelings are not hurt.

Faking is negative to me in that view cause it's lying and it's setting me up to have to put up with their lame attempts* if that's why I'm not going to cum* Or it puts me in the position of explaining myself when he says but that worked last night.

I do not believe in lying to my partner, even "small white lies" and yes faking an orgasm to me, to decieve him so he'll stop, or so his feelings won't be hurt is to me lying.

Plus I really would not be with a man who was so overly sensitive, that his feelings got hurt because I wasn't going to acheive orgasm. Nor would I be with a man who wouldn't accept that just sometimes it aint going to happen, accept that and stop when I wish to.

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Why does faking have to be negative? It doesn't. If I don't think I am going to cum, then I will fake, it often gets me in the mood to have a real one. The simulation of the breathing, the squeezing of the pelvic muscles, the moaning, the act of pretending to be very aroused can often make you very aroused.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 11:21:08 AM

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I have faked an orgasm.
Sometimes, I just worry that I'm taking too long to orgasm, and I don't want him to get frustrated, so I just pretend I've had one.
Other times, I worry about having one. So, I fake it.

It keeps him happy, and that's my goal :)

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 1:28:47 PM

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no i've never faked it with a Dominant, but i faked it all the time with my ex husband.

Lol, me too!

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 1:31:23 PM

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You really have to help me out here. What would be the point??? If the bitch does not get me off it's her problem NOT mine! She is just going to have to work her magic.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 1:41:46 PM

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Me too. I told Win about how I used to fake it with my ex-husband and he told me under no circumstance should I ever fake it again. Orgasming for me is EXTREMELY difficult, so it is hard for me not to try to trick my own mind at times, but Win made the rule and I will follow it. In the end, he is there to try to help me deal with the headaches that come when there is no release, but he will also be there to help me explore more ways to try to have orgasms, so it will all work out in the end.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 2:28:41 PM

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Yup. And i'm also in a situation where my orgasm is very low on his list of priorities/wants. Sometimes I wonder if that is detrimental to a submissives mind....orgasm control.

I can cum like a train with my own masturbations and fantasies....but with someone else...it's like a mountain compared to a molehill. I feel a release more than a real orgasm. It's pretty messed up imo.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 4:08:08 PM

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There are worse things than undeserved stroking of the male ego...I've fallen asleep on a couple of guys.

True. A woman plaguing me for hours on end about how I don't find her attractive enough to have had an orgasm inside her. Once a woman's on that wavelength, you can't shift her off it even with dynamite. Easiest way out of it is to insist on wearing a condom, I've found.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 4:09:17 PM

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NM - double post.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 4:10:32 PM

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This thread was started in 2008 .... necro !

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:09:29 PM

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oh ffs what is this raise a thread day?

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:14:00 PM

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I've faked a few times, but not with Hanners, I've never needed to. She has a knack of seeing to that.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:19:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

I've faked a few times, but not with Hanners, I've never needed to. She has a knack of seeing to that.

I agree - she's good like that.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:24:37 PM

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I agree - she's good like that.

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She better be, what with all the practice she's had!

Bye!!

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:27:26 PM

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Orgasm control ftw

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:50:24 PM

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3 year old thread people.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/9/2011 5:53:50 PM

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3 year old thread people. .

Still fun. :)

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/14/2011 11:57:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

3 year old thread people. .

some of us weren't here then though and so have a chance to post now.

i have never faked an orgasm and never would. i don't see the point when it's so easy to make me cum. hence if they can't then something is seriously wrong. either that will be sorted by just saying something or it's never going to happen.

in turn i also wouldn't want to have a guy 'fake' it with me either. i'd actually find that insulting and would rather be told what i could do better to make it happen.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 2:06:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

3 year old thread people. .

some of us weren't here then though and so have a chance to post now.

i have never faked an orgasm and never would. i don't see the point when it's so easy to make me cum. hence if they can't then something is seriously wrong. either that will be sorted by just saying something or it's never going to happen.

in turn i also wouldn't want to have a guy 'fake' it with me either. i'd actually find that insulting and would rather be told what i could do better to make it happen.

needles

Yes, I've faked quite a lot during my sexual lifetime; a girl needs sleep. I often really loved the sex, I just didn't need that finish. I had plenty of orgasms too but my partners were *sex every night* chaps and back then, there were minor distractions such as nightly breast feeds and cranky waking toddlers........lol

agirl

I have a pretty orgasmic sexlife nowadays but the best part has and always will be the sex, not the orgasms.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 3:16:26 PM

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It actually surprises me to hear that there are people who HAVEN'T faked an orgasm. I know that I certainly have.

I once served a Domme who thought that there was something mystical about synchronizing our orgasms. So as soon as she felt her orgasm coming on, she'd yell "Cum now!!!!!", as though I can just cum on command. So what option did I have except to fake it? I didn't want to disappoint her.

IMO, faking it was a better option than hurting her feelings or disobeying her command.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 3:20:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
So as soon as she felt her orgasm coming on, she'd yell "Cum now!!!!!", as though I can just cum on command. So what option did I have except to fake it? I didn't want to disappoint her.

Jesus Christ, Roch, was she impaired in some way? Why on earth would anyone think that's possible?

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