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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 3:35:57 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		This is one of the things I really love about my Miss, she could NEVER fake an orgasm.   It's a whole body thing for her and sometimes a bit messy.   I've dated several who lied to me about their orgasms in my vanilla like, it has left me jaded.  I much prefer to simply know and not to have to wonder.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 3:40:40 PM   
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So as soon as she felt her orgasm coming on, she'd yell "Cum now!!!!!", as though I can just cum on command.  So what option did I have except to fake it?  I didn't want to disappoint her. 



Jesus Christ, Roch, was she impaired in some way? Why on earth would anyone think that's possible?



Ego, I guess.  Or perhaps she was naive.

The worst part of it is that I can last a really long time sexually.  Meanwhile, I could bring her to orgasm in like 5 minutes.  So when she was yelling "cum now!", I was just getting warmed up.  So I faked it.

But I have an even funnier story.  She attended this seminar on "Erotic hypnosis", and after that, she was determined to train my cock to obey her voice commands.  She tried to "train" my cock to get hard on command.  She also tried to "train" it to cum on command.  All in response to her voice.  No physical stimulation.  No sexy visuals.  Just total voice control. 

Well, you can probably guess how that one worked out.  The voice control didn't work.  However, I was able to fake the erections on command.  When she'd command my cock to get hard, I would imagine that I was having sex with hot Asian babes. For the most part, it worked.  She really thought that my cock got hard on command.  Thank God for Asian babes. 

Of course, I could never figure out a way to cum on command.  I wasn't even able to fake it.  I guess even Asian babes have their limitations. 

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 3:56:13 PM   
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I once served a Domme who thought that there was something mystical about synchronizing our orgasms.  So as soon as she felt her orgasm coming on, she'd yell "Cum now!!!!!", as though I can just cum on command.  So what option did I have except to fake it?  I didn't want to disappoint her. 


Hahaha, I was with a guy like this who I'd told and told I could not cum like that, and not caring if I disappointed him just ignored him when he demanded "Give me your cum!"

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 4:00:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Heh I was once with a man who thought all he had to do was get me super wet, press hard on my clit, and say "cumformeNOWslave" and I would.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 4:22:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		every time i was with a man LOL. faked every single orgasm i've ever 'had'. Only real ones are with myself.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 5:41:51 PM   
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Heh I was once with a man who thought all he had to do was get me super wet, press hard on my clit, and say "cumformeNOWslave" and I would.



And you wonder why men don't know how to bring you to a real orgasm.


If women aren't honest about their orgasms, then why should they expect men to know how to do it right????


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 5:50:42 PM   
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Heh I was once with a man who thought all he had to do was get me super wet, press hard on my clit, and say "cumformeNOWslave" and I would.



And you wonder why men don't know how to bring you to a real orgasm.


If women aren't honest about their orgasms, then why should they expect men to know how to do it right????



Where did I write that? I was simply writing about a man who thought that would do it.


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 6:28:29 PM   
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Heh I was once with a man who thought all he had to do was get me super wet, press hard on my clit, and say "cumformeNOWslave" and I would.



And you wonder why men don't know how to bring you to a real orgasm.


If women aren't honest about their orgasms, then why should they expect men to know how to do it right????



Where did I write that? I was simply writing about a man who thought that would do it.



Did you correct him or let him believe it?

The lie of omission is still a lie.


If you want a man to deliver an orgasm then you have to be willing to be honest with him about your orgasms.


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 6:35:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've never faked it but I was once caught fixing my hair in the mirror while on top.  It totally killed the mood.






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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 6:37:31 PM   
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Did you correct him or let him believe it?

The lie of omission is still a lie.


If you want a man to deliver an orgasm then you have to be willing to be honest with him about your orgasms.



This is one man out of oh who knows how many. Interesting that you chose me to quote instead of the woman who wrote that she has faked it with every man she's been with.

ETA: nor did I complain about men being able to bring me to orgasm. In fact several have - just not that one.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 6:44:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I once knew a girl who insisted she faked it with every guy she had ever fucked. It was a point of pride for her, a punani power thing she'd bring up in casual conversation until one day I pointed out to her that essentially what she was doing was ruining her sexual experiences while making all her boyfriends feel incredible about themselves. Not exactly female empowerment. The look on her face was not to be missed.


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 6:47:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I didn't have my first real orgasm until the age of 41.  I can cum, but an orgasm ain't so easy for me.  I need the right kind of stimulation and have him hit the right spot or I won't be able to do so.  Cum, every single time, orgasm, nope, not so much. 

And the first time it happened I said "whooooooooaaaaa fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck WHAT WAS THAT? CAN WE DO IT AGAIN?".  And he did, and I did, and that was it for me.  I see a difference between cumming and an orgasm.  Ones great, the 2nd is, well, orgasmic.


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 8:39:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		FFS, if I hadn't faked it  I'm afraid I'd still be there with some of them....either counting the ceiling tiles or watching television during their "activities".

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 8:41:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why on earth fake an orgasm? I come when I want, if I want. Same goes for my ladies.

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/15/2011 8:54:51 PM   
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Why on earth fake an orgasm? I come when I want, if I want. Same goes for my ladies.


Well, for me because once many men realize I've never orgasmed they take it as a personal challenge to make this happen... Sometimes, I didn't want to spend the rest of my natural born life there...

Kali


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/16/2011 2:32:59 AM   
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Why on earth fake an orgasm? I come when I want, if I want. Same goes for my ladies.


Well, for me because once many men realize I've never orgasmed they take it as a personal challenge to make this happen... Sometimes, I didn't want to spend the rest of my natural born life there...

Kali



I'm with you Kali. There are some men out there who take it as a personal insult if their partner doesn't cum. I rarely orgasm during sex, the man just doesn't hit the right spot. There are so many other ways to make a woman cum, why does it HAVE to be during sex?


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/16/2011 7:41:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would never fake an orgasm, I'm getting mine before it's over

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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/16/2011 7:45:12 AM   
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FFS, if I hadn't faked it  I'm afraid I'd still be there with some of them....either counting the ceiling tiles or watching television during their "activities".

Kali



ok this made me laugh


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/16/2011 8:08:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think most people, if they are being honest, have to admit to faking it for purposes of expediency.

Fake it all the time? No fucking way; I like to come too.

But:

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If you want a man to deliver an orgasm then you have to be willing to be honest with him about your orgasms.


Which means educating the man on what makes you come. I've yet to meet the male (dom or sub) who wasn't an incredibly willing pupil.


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RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? - 9/16/2011 10:33:59 AM   
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Why on earth fake an orgasm? I come when I want, if I want. Same goes for my ladies.


Hmmmm, I talked to one of your ladies, and she told me that she definitely fakes it.  

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